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writes:So, the ex is still the ex. She has done some pretty odd things that I have written about on her many times. It was her choice to break up with me and then get back, then break up after creating some more drama. Since September, a drunk dial, an email, texting at first after a week or so. Had me come and get my things and left out one of the items. Very inconsistent behavior. However the one thing she has done consistently is block and unblock me on fbook. Now, realize she is not my friend on FB. HAsn't been since the summer. The only thing she can see is my profile pic and thats all i can see of her. But, every week, like clockwork, she will have me blocked then the next week unblocked. I dont get it. As far as I know she is seeing someone, the guy she showed off to me and my friends at a club a few weeks ago. Should I go ahead and block this woman and leave it at that? Or do as I have been doing and not react? My friends are split down the middle. Some say it's stooping to her level if I block her. But, i'm also tired of having the urge to search her and see if she is there this week or not. What would you do?
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reader, LadyCorsair  +, writes (27 November 2009):
 You're not going to be able to relax until you do block her. When my bf split with me, I became obsessed with checking his facebook until my friend caught me. She sat there with me and made me block him and I felt sooo much better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): For your peace of mind, block her, don't tell anyone, because really, your the one who has to deal with this crap. Our friends tell us what they think is the right thing, with the stooping to her level, but you still care for her and this drama she is hurtful, what you dont see can't hurt you. Block her, I am sure when she searches you she will be unable to see you too, she will get the point..
If she mentions anything tell her you don't know what she is talking about...
Good Luck
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reader, DiamondGirlx  +, writes (27 November 2009):
 you wont have the hassle if you block her
do it block her!! she wont annoy you then, otherwise she'll keep doing it, tbh i done the same to my ex just to see if he wud notice and write to me or sumfink *(i know it sounds crazy but women find it hard to get over it) and then once he blocked me i realised that i cudnt do it anymoore and then left it to that,
:) D.Gx
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