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I am 20 years old,have a boyfriend who i have been in a wonderful relationship for a lil over 3 years. I might not be the best person to give advice but im glad to help anyone that i can answer their question.

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I'm pregnant and no longer want to feel like I'm in line for him!

Q.   Ok, i have been happily married for a year now. My husband is about the most wonderful thing that has ever happend in my life. But now im pregnant. Not really a shocker. We have been unprotected for about two years now. But the thing is, we have ...

A.   14 August 2008: i know it hard to leave someone u love and carring there child.its easier said then done.maybe he just wants to have fun b4 the baby comes?u really just tell him if he loves u he needs to listen and then tell him what would happen if he got ... (read in full...)

3 SUMS, and spiceing up the SEX!

Q.   dear aunts and uncles, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and i just told him i wanted a 3 some but i dont want any1 anyround my area(living)i live in a very small town and i dont want it to get around.how do i go about ...

A.   14 August 2008: thanks!i guess ill just keep trying and try to get over the feeling..thanks!... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and no longer want to feel like I'm in line for him!

Q.   Ok, i have been happily married for a year now. My husband is about the most wonderful thing that has ever happend in my life. But now im pregnant. Not really a shocker. We have been unprotected for about two years now. But the thing is, we have ...

A.   13 August 2008: u need to tell him and yea ur scared but u need to do whats best for the baby.does he want ur child to have an std? If he doesnt listen to u or just stop doing what he is doing then u need to just leave.move with a good friend or with ur ... (read in full...)

I feel betrayed that husband socialises whith people who hatee me!

Q.   Hi, I just got married last year August 2007 and my husband and i lived with his family for couple of months until things went wrong his sister does'nt like me beause my husband had a relationship before me and a child,now my sister inlaw thi...

A.   13 August 2008: u need to sit and talk 2 him.u never said he couldnt go but for him to be rude and not call thats wrong. U didnt do anything to his family so he needs to relize his family is very mean and somehow just try and talk everything out and tell him if was ... (read in full...)

I want a baby but I'm concerned about giving it a good life. I'm thinking maybe we should live off state benefits. Am I being naive?

Q.   Hello, I am 22, and happily married. Been married for a year, We both work full time, rent a lovely house and love each other very much. My problem is that at the moment, i can't stop thinking about having a baby! At the moment, we could afford a...

A.   13 August 2008: i totallly agree with u.theres ppl out there that dont even try 2 work and is popping out kids from left to right.and there is ppl like us that bust our ass off to make it and then go see if we can get help and they tell us we make to much money! So ... (read in full...)

While he was in jail, I found out that he lied about his age! What do I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months. we fell in love during the first month of our relationship. I have loved him ever since and believed he loved me too, but lately things have been a little rocky. There has been a lot of ...

A.   13 August 2008: i think u need to wait till he gets out and talk to him face to face.if u guys love each other then u guys can get over this and u better tell him he better not lie 2 u anymore.good luck.like always say 2 ppl love conquers all!honey i know its hard. ... (read in full...)

Am I pregnant?

Q.   ok, were do i start. i did the most stupid thing ever. I was on the pill but came off in june becasue i ran out and was too busy, to go and get some more. i had a random period which start early on the 14th of july, which was not normal for me and i ...

A.   13 August 2008: Take another test if it comes out neg again then go to doc and get checked out.u could have just stressed out about it and that stress could have messed up ur period.idk only the doc can really tell u.good luck... (read in full...)

3 SUMS, and spiceing up the SEX!

Q.   dear aunts and uncles, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and i just told him i wanted a 3 some but i dont want any1 anyround my area(living)i live in a very small town and i dont want it to get around.how do i go about ...

A.   13 August 2008: i tried anal but it hurts so much and i know its going to which i can stand the pain it the feeling that im pooping.i get scared that im gonna poo on him and do u have any tips on anal?thanks a lot.... (read in full...)

Financial, Work Related and Family issues, is having this overwhelming effect on both of us. Any advice please?

Q.   Hey there dear cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for going on a year now. Here lately things have been rocky between us due to alot of things going on for both of us outside of the relationship. Financial issues, work related issues, and fami...

A.   13 August 2008: ok im so sorry to hear this but when a couple has money or family issuies then that makes the relationship harder.trust me.my boyfriend and i was liveing 2gether then his gpa passed away(which he was super close to) then we got into debt so that ... (read in full...)

Acne- Anyone know any products that REALLY DO WORK?

Q.   hi :) so i've always had problems with acne. i have it on my face and shoulders/back. and my doctors have perscribed me lots of medicines for it. lotion and pills. and it seems as none of them really work. so does anyone know any product...

A.   12 August 2008: sorry i use to have it but i was to poor to buy things for it.my mother has it ...yea werid. Anyways she uses pro-active that stuff from t.v that the stars use and it worked for her and my best freind brother had it really bad and he used it and it ... (read in full...)

I am 14, he is 18. Should I date him?

Q.   dear cupid well im seein this guy ive known for a long time now and he is understanding and he would never pressure me to have sex he told me he wud wait for me when im ready but thats the thing im 14 and he iz 18 and he iz realy nice but i dont ...

A.   12 August 2008: i totally agree wit sammie.but just be carefull! When i was 13 i dated a 20 yr old and he was understanding just like ur guy.but i still was young and had a lot of growning up to do and i relized that now days but then i didnt.even if u guys dont ... (read in full...)

My husband adopted my daughter, now his son wants to date her.....

Q.   I married my husband in 2004, he adopted my daughter in 2005 as his own; she was 14. This year my husband's ex-wife kicked their 17 year old son out of the house in March and he is now living with us. My daughter and his son want to dat...

A.   11 August 2008: the most u can do for now is look up laws and stuff. I understand how u feel. My best friend when we were like 13 started dating this boy and they went all the way to having sex then they broke up and her dad married his mother a year or 2 ... (read in full...)

My husband cheated--is there any hope for us to move forward?

Q.   My husband cheated on me. I am heartbroken, but still in love with him. He loves me too, I know this for certain. Has anyone out there had a spouse cheat, then eventually move forward into a loving and faithful relationship with that spouse? I need ...

A.   11 August 2008: yes sorry this is very painful sitution no 1 will understand unless they have been in ur shoes and the only thing u both really need to understand is that u can work it out if u 2 really luv each other and it will take a long time to forget and ... (read in full...)

We were starting a relationship and he went back to his ex. Should I stay angry? Or should I move on?

Q.   This guy at work liked me and we were starting to develop something between us when his ex came along when she saw what was happening and he went back with her. This happened a few weeks ago and I'm finding it very difficult to be anywhere near ...

A.   11 August 2008: i would just move on.if he was with her then basicaly dumped her for u then dumped u for her again.then y even care cuz if u guys did ever get back 2gether he will most likey dumped u again for some1 else. He sounds like a damn pig. U are better ... (read in full...)

Why am I hardly ever in the mood for sex?

Q.   Is there something wrong with me? I am hardly ever in the mood for sex and i am only 23 years old. Does anyone have any advice for me, to help me have more of a sex life with my boyfriend?...

A.   2 August 2008: my boyfriend and i have been datin about 3 years and just a couple weeks ago the same thing happen 2 us. It not that we dont like sex it just the same so we watched some porn (which we do if this happens to us) well we still just was not into ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex or should I wait???

Q.   hi im 14 yearz old and i ive been talkin to a guy i known for 6 months the bad thing iz that he iz onli 18 years old and im scared that its not rite but i lke him so i dont care but he asked me if i would have sex with him and i said i maybe wu...

A.   1 August 2008: honey dont do it! If he loves u he will wait. U have saved urself for a while so why not just wait to make sure its love or untill u marry give that special part of u to someone u know u love! Please be carefull!best of luck hon~ xoxoxo~ ... (read in full...)

Why do tears come out during sex? Do men like it?

Q.   During sex i cant help but my tears came out, what is the reason for that? is it because im over whelmed, happy or what? is man happy to see when their partner have a tears when they have sex?? please answerrrrrrrrrr...

A.   29 July 2008: i cried after sex a couple times i think its just being like over whelmed. Im not that sure i always wondered that to but im just over whelmed cuz the sex was so ..........loving instead of f***ing ya know?my boyfriend dont like it cuz it makes him ... (read in full...)

How do you know your in love?

Q.   How do you feel when your in love? Is it diffrent for everyone? How do you know if someone is the one? I have never been in love so anyone in love please share how you feel about it. Thanks ...

A.   28 July 2008: you know when your in love bcuz you will see the crazy things that you do like if you guys get in afight and its one of those fight that you know you just have to leave and never come back but you dont u stay no matter how bad it is(unless it like ... (read in full...)

Disappointed in myself because it took me months to get over it and then when I've finally gotten over it I go back to him!!

Q.   ive recently started to date my ex again. i first went out with him 4 years ago for 6 months. i fell in love with him but he hurt me bad by finishing wiv me for someone else. He started going out with this girl and they moved in together. It took me ...

A.   26 July 2008: hey hun after 2 years my boyfriend told me he wanted to break up we was living 2gether and everything well he wanted to date another girl. I was depressed i couldnt get over it and then we ened up back 2gether and i couldnt trust him and i was ... (read in full...)

I want people to tell me about the implant...

Q.   Ok, last question for tonight. How many woman out there are using an implamon for contraceptive method (or know anything about it?) and what side affects have occured?...

A.   25 July 2008: hey my best friend got it and she bleed for like a month.but other then that she went back and the docs just told her just wait it out it normal for some ppl cuz it was like a lite period for a month then the last week like a heavy one then it ... (read in full...)

Any sex advice for a larger lady?

Q.   I'm very overweight and not very "attractive" but I've met a fella who accepts me as I am. We're now having regular intercourse for the first time in my life.To be honest I'm just glad to feel wanted and satisfy a man's needs in bed.Look...

A.   25 July 2008: hey hun im big myself and wonder all the time why my boyfriend is with me. But that guy who said u need to lose weight for u and ur boyfriend is an ass. Yea it would be healther for us 2 lose some but i love my body. I never thought i would say it ... (read in full...)

He used a condom and didn't come, could I still be pregnant? My period is late!

Q.   i lost my virginity two weeks ago, and i'm supposed to get my period today. i haven't gotten it yet. im usuallly very on schudle and it usuallly arrives by noon on the day im supposed to get it.. but it hasn't. im very worried. we used a condom, and ...

A.   21 July 2008: honey wait for couple weeks and if it hasnt came then u need to go buy a test and take it.if it comes out neg and u still havent had a period then u need 2 see a doc. Go to an adult that u can confide in and tell them what happen and see if they ... (read in full...)

I feel unappreciated. Am I only staying with this guy because I feel obliged to?

Q.   I am getting married in less than a year ( I think so anyways)and my fiancee and I have been together for almost 6 years now and have a 4 year old. I am completely stressed with everything that I have to do. I do not feel appreciated at all and some ...

A.   21 July 2008: honestly my friend was in ur position and of course she left him and he wanted her back but she felt free and better bout herself. You dont seem like a dumb girl! U know deep down side u should leave. Just follow ur heart but use ur head.u stressed ... (read in full...)

Should I not contact him for a while? I'm afraid he'll forget me.

Q.   hiya. well me and my boyfriend were going out for almost 3 years. he recently told me he wanted to go on a break. he wanted space. i tried to give him space but it was so hard. we finally hung out to see if we can fix anything, but it only became ...

A.   21 July 2008: I totally understand what ur goin thru. Ive been in ur shoes. Just go with the flow. Go try 2 take ur mind off him.hang out with friends or something(of course no matter what u do he will be on ur mind) luckly my boyfriend came 2 his senses and came ... (read in full...)

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