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We were starting a relationship and he went back to his ex. Should I stay angry? Or should I move on?

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Question - (10 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

This guy at work liked me and we were starting to develop something between us when his ex came along when she saw what was happening and he went back with her. This happened a few weeks ago and I'm finding it very difficult to be anywhere near him. I can't talk to him, look at him, I feel like such a fool because he treated me like crap just before he went back with her, and I want him to feel bad about this. Should I continue to be angry or should I pretend that I'm over him and move on?

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A female reader, Vanessa1983 United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2008):

Vanessa1983 agony auntIf you continue to be angry you'll only cause bitternes in your own life. It wont affect him, and it wont change the sitation. Your best bet is to try and let go of this, you owe it to yourself more than any one else. You dont want to go to work everyday ad feel that tension. He probably didnt want to hurt you, but its a lot easier to go back to an ex. Its not his fault or yours, he should have just handled it better x

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A female reader, junebug United States +, writes (11 August 2008):

i would just move on.if he was with her then basicaly dumped her for u then dumped u for her again.then y even care cuz if u guys did ever get back 2gether he will most likey dumped u again for some1 else. He sounds like a damn pig. U are better then that dont waste ur time on a loser.he cant make up his mind or he just dont care about anyones feelings.just get over him.sorry it sound harsh but he sounds like a guy i know and i hate him . He will just keep hurting u better 2 get out now then waste some more time and feeling in him.good luck

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A female reader, GuardianAngel United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2008):

GuardianAngel agony auntThat's easy sweetheart just find another man for him to be juealous of maybe another person where you work and you could flirt with this other guy in front of him he will feel jealous and he will hate himself for letting you go

Yours Sincerely

Guardian Angel

p.s Hope this helps and if you need anything else or more questions just write me a message Best Of Luck Hunni xx

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