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My best friends BF has been cracking onto me, what to do?
Q. I love my boyfriend. I love my bff as well, but her boyfriend kissed me. He also flirts with me when my bff and my boyfriend aren't around. He's always touching me and trying to hug me. I want to tell my boyfriend, but I'm too afraid that he'll ...
A. 14 July 2009: What a sleaze. Maybe bring it up in front of everyone, and start off by telling both your boyfriend and your best friend what Mr Sleazy said about them not believing you over him. If they blame you for his behaviour then they're not very good ... (read in full...)
Why stay married if I don't feel loved? Then again, is divorce always the wrong choice?
Q. What is the main reasons of staying a marriage if it does not work? When is the limit of bad things? What if it's not bad enough to leave, but not good enough to stay? I have security, and stabilty. But I don't have affection, joy and fun. Am...
A. 14 July 2009: The three most common reasons for staying in dead marriages are finances, children, and a misguided sense of loyalty. Different people have different perceptions of what makes a marriage bad enough to leave. My personal belief is that if there's no ... (read in full...)
I cant tell him why we cant have anal.
Q. so my boyfriend wants me to have anal sex with him but i just keep saying no i don't to and not telling him the real reason. The real reason is because since I was little I have had IBS (Irritable bowel syndrome) (http://...
A. 11 July 2009: Bottom's are meant for one thing, and anal sex isn't it. Maybe you should ask him why it's so important for him to be a turd burglar instead of worrying about what he will think of you for having a common problem. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has put me through so much, yet still I remain at his side. Why?
Q. I need to tell somebody - anybody who is willing to listen. I have things bottled up that I need to get out in the open, so I can really spend some time and think about it. Thanks to all those who take the time to read this. My boyfriend is r...
A. 7 July 2009: Run, run, run. You're too young to have an asshole dragging you down. That hideous feeling of emptiness goes away after a while, and trust me, even if he finds someone else he'll treat them like crap too. You can't be in love with someone who treats ... (read in full...)
I don't know what he wants. We haven't fought, but he's ignoring me. What's going on with him?
Q. Met him on FB and we have been emailing each other for 6 months till we met and really like each others qualities. I am confident that he is a genuine person. The only issue is that he has a girlfriend. It was at the beginning stages when we got to ...
A. 7 July 2009: I'm going to be brutal here, and I may be wrong, but.......it sounds as if he thought that maybe just before you left might be a good time to get into your pants, as it would mean that he could get away with it and his girlfriend wouldn't find out. ... (read in full...)
When they tell me they love me I start to feel trapped. What can I do?
Q. I'm not sure what to do about this, I've thought about it a lot and I think I always want what I can't have. Lately I've been seeing a new guy, and until he said he really likes me I was feeling very attracted to him, but now not so much. And about ...
A. 7 July 2009: I have to be rude and ask what kind of relationship you had with your Dad? Perhaps your Dad, (or maybe both parents), made you feel like you were never quite good enough? If that's the case, as a result of that kind of relationship with parents, ... (read in full...)
There is a bad atmosphere between me and my boyfriend's sister. Should I do anything?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together nearly a year and we got pregnant pretty fast (after 4 months) but we are happy about it and have kept the baby which is due next month. Anyway everyone was fine about it except his sister. She started telling ...
A. 5 July 2009: If your boyfriend is happy about the baby, then his sister should be happy for him. Sounds like a case of jealousy and spite to me, and if everyone 'treads on eggshells' around her, I would take that as a sign that they all know how nasty she can be ... (read in full...)
Does she love me ? and other issues...
Q. I've been living with my wife for the last 16 years, married since 10. Two years ago, I realized I did not love her any more and had to do something about it (ie. had to separate). We separated for about two months. She was broken hearted and I felt ...
A. 5 July 2009: As far as the other woman is concerned, maybe you should ask her outright how keen she is. If she knows you're married with a small child yet is still pursuing you, and it sounds like she is, then she's either smitten by you, or she's one of those ... (read in full...)
Is watermelon a weapon?
Q. I am a 27 year old with a 50 year old boyfriend that I met two years ago. We met as I moved into the house he was subleasing, relocating far away from my friends and family, and have been dating him for a year. He is by far the best guy I have ...
A. 5 July 2009: Take a permanent break, he has no respect for you. He's fifty and you're twenty-seven, who's got the better deal here? Throwing stuff at anyone is just plain immature, and if he thinks it's funny to make you the butt of his juvenile humour in front ... (read in full...)
I love him but I'm not attracted to him...he has hygiene issues!
Q. Hello Reader's My boyfriend and I been together for 4 1/2 years when I meet him I was only 18 and he told me that he was 26. After a year into our relationship he started looking older then he said he was. After snooping through his wallet I...
A. 5 July 2009: He has breath which could stop a herd of buffalo, he has erectile dysfunction, he's jealous, he lied to you as soon as he met you, you're not attracted to him any longer, but he "spoils you to death". Don't mistake pity for love, you aren't ... (read in full...)
Really forgiven or a panacea for her pain?
Q. I have been married for 25 yrs. My wife is 57 and I am 45. Our marriage has gon stale in the last 5 yrs, which led to me seeking love elsewhere. I left my wife and the other woman to start a new life. My wife found out about the affair since ...
A. 5 July 2009: You've already made the move to start a new life, and if you left both of them that was a gutsy act. Why not just offer your wife friendship and wait until you are sure of how you feel before making any renewed commitment? If you were only going ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn have respect for me!
Q. Let me start by saying I am very much in love with my girlfriend, and I believe she is very much in love with me. The problem is I don't think she has very much respect for me. She has a history of lying about little things, she gets upset with me ...
A. 5 July 2009: Yep, you're right, she has no respect for you. She also has a drinking problem and is incredibly immature by the sound of things. She may tell you she loves you, but actions speak louder than words. You say she shows very little affection, throws ... (read in full...)
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