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writes:My boyfriend and I were laying on his bed today and he started asking me if we could "do something" and we've been together for quite awhile now and last time he tried to get me to do something with him, I did a little and told him to stop because I felt wrong about it.Well, anyways, we started making out and he started touching my chest cavity, (you know, my breasts) and then he put his hand down my pants and started fingering me and then he made me jack him off..At the time... it felt okay and I thought I was pretty much fine with it but now that I did it and it's a few hours later, I keep going back and fourth saying that I want to keep doing that with him and then I think about it and it makes me feel absolutely DISGUSTING.
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reader, KorR?whotochoose +, writes (30 March 2009):
I felt exactly the same way after I had my first kiss (I was 13). We were only kissing, but later, I felt like I wanted to die......I was just so guilty. I think it was mostly because I grew up in a house where sex was never talked about. Now that I am older, a sexual relationship is much more natural, and I don't have any feelings of shame.
Oh by the way, if you did feel any sort of pressure from your bf then don't do sexual activities, it just isn't worth it, and you will really regret it later.
Good luck in all of your decisions,
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): It's because your brain is at a diffrent place than your body is. You know it's wrong in your mind. Don't allow yourself to be pressured again
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): Wow! That just shows that you are too young to have a boyfriend. Do him a favor and leave him.
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (30 March 2009):
Sounds like you weren't ready. Just because it FELT good, doesn't mean you were for sure ready. Think it over when he asks you to do something with him, even if he has to wait for an answer, then tell him NO If you don't feel right doing it just yet. Never do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. You'll regret it.
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