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*inky16
writes:im 16 and have been having problems at home with my mum and i usually talk to my boyfriend about it but im worried im putting to much pressure on him to be there for me. because about 4 hours ago i had an argument with my mum and she walked out of the house for about an hour i got someone to text him to ring me but because it wa important but he never i just want to know do you think i am pressuring him to much?
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reader, iSmil3y  +, writes (29 March 2009):
In my opinion, you're not putting too much pressure on him. But, if this is really bugging you, maybe you should just ask him. But boyfriends are supposed to be there for you, no matter what. So, just ask him. Don't be afraid.
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reader, pinky16 +, writes (29 March 2009):
pinky16 is verified as being by the original poster of the question but he never likes totalk about his problems to me he always like i an deal with it on my own and i still want to be there for him but i feel as though he pushes me away in a sense because he never tells me anything even when hes kind of in a mood with me he just goesd quiet and ignores me to let me figureout why hes gone like that with me. its just so confusing
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): honestly i do this to my b/f all the time to me and my mum dont get along at all i use to wonder if i was putting to much pressure on my b/f but one night i just finaly got up the courage to ask him. after i asked him i felt so much better. personally i dont think you are putting to much pressure on him as long as when he has a problem you are there for him to. the best advice i can give you is to talk to him and ask him. hope it all works out
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