How do people in their 40's hook up?
Q. How do people in their mid-40's hook up? I married young (19) and spent most of my life with someone (25 years) so I cam completely out of touch and I'm not in my 20's anymore so hitting the bars and being coy doesn't work at my age. But I am ...
A. 4 April 2011: Hi - I'm not so sure on line dating is what you want becuase the people on there speaking from experience are most often not what they pass them selves off to be. Its easy to lie when not face to face, but harder if you are meeting face to face. ... (read in full...)
I want my fiancée back, but she has decided to move on...
Q. I was 3 months from marriage and my fiancé broke up with me. She decided to give up her life in another state and move to be with me. In a brief discussion about what she would bring from her exisiting home from to the one I live in, which would ...
A. 4 April 2011: Hi - You dont describe how long you have been broken up for or the strength of your relationship at the time - although reading between the lines, it sounds like she wouldnt have decided to make the move to be with you unless she loved you and ... (read in full...)
Guys: at what point in a realtionship can an audible fart be forgiven?
Q. This is a pretty silly question, but at least it's light and funny and fairly easy to answer. Guys, I have noticed, have no problem running around with all of their bodily functions flailing in the breeze. Many ladies are not quite so comfort...
A. 29 March 2011: Its so funny when your girl friend farts especially if you need to fart as well becuase it lets you do at least a couple in her presence before she gets pissed off with it.
And becuase your girlfriend gets embarassed, its fun to take the piss out... (read in full...)
Has anyone ended a marriage to pursue what was an affair? Results?
Q. Ok so I have a question for anyone who has ever ended a marriage or serious relationship to solely be with the person of your affair instead of your spouse. I know statistics are really low in the favor of it actually working out and I always hear a ...
A. 29 March 2011: Hi - I'm going to say that if the two people leave their partners for each other, then in the long run the trust issues are going to be huge because you will always wonder if they will remain faithful after that.
But - in some circumst... (read in full...)
Why is no boy even slightly interested in dating me?
Q. I know will sound like every teenage girls dilemma but I have tried all te usually advice about wait for the right guy and it still doesn't help me. When I was younger I had a tendency to be a bit standoffish with boys but im not like that now. But ...
A. 26 March 2011: bollocks - there are heaps of people who love sarcastic wit! and english sarcasm is practically the national pastime. Americans dont like it becuase they dont understand it....
Anyways, I agree you havent met the right boy yet and just to wait bla... (read in full...)
We just broke up. Any ideas of what she might be thinking or what to do?
Q. my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago and we're no longer talking. She said a day after breaking up (in an annoyed tone) that she doesn't love me anymore and there's no chance of us ever being in a relationship again. I did noth...
A. 23 March 2011: Hi - move on from this girl - in my experience breaking up heaps and getting back together rarely works in a relationship - shows that there is underlying issues one or both of you are unwilling to work at or even discuss. If the trust isnt there ... (read in full...)
I can't hav sex with my gf...because she reminds me of a horse.
Q. Hey aunties I feel really terrible about something about a dashing lady that I've been seeing for almost 7 months. That's why I'm here looking for advice. We get on well, have lots in common and here lately we've been getting frisky. We haven't had ...
A. 23 March 2011: definately dont bring the subject up - she know's what they are like and shes probably really happy she's found someone who doesnt mind them. Your leading her on by not telling her why your not attracted to her physically and if its a deal breaker ... (read in full...)
The woman my ex cheated with sends me photos of them together
Q. Help please. I broke up with my ex about a year and a half ago. It ended badly (I caught him cheating) after 5 years of being together. I contacted the other woman (that's the nicest I can say about her is that she is a woman) and told her what he ...
A. 23 March 2011: Hi - the man in this scenario sounds like a complete drop kick too. Leaving a pregnant woman for his mistress? I know it happens all the time but where is this guys sense of responsibility. I would start to focus on getting the financial support ... (read in full...)
Is this guy in love with me?
Q. When a guy tells you he 'loves you to bits' does he mean he is in love with you or loves you as a friend? Ive being in a relationship for 5 month and my bf has being telling me this. He has only said 'love you' a couple of times. As I dont see him ...
A. 23 March 2011: Hi- Without knowing more information when a person says they love you to bits,I would suggest that they do indeed love you. Is he following up his words with actions, treating you nicely, giving you flowers, smiling alot when he see's you? If he... (read in full...)
How to sort myself out for my relationship sake
Q. me and my fiance are having a hard time at the moment and i dont know if she wants to be with me she has already split up with me and got back with me but she says im too obsesesive with her by texting her and ringing her everyday. i think i have t...
A. 22 March 2011: Hi - if you've read my posts I'm in the same position as you and listen you love her deeply and madly and just want to be with her. Do your self a big big favour - learn to be self reliant. She will still love you but yout also allowing her to ... (read in full...)
What does "I care for you" mean to a man?
Q. What does "I care for you" in man language mean??? We've already said I love u. Is this another way of saying I love you? He doesn't say the "L" word a lot he says the word scares him. ...
A. 22 March 2011: I'm very sorry but I have quite a different take on this, I care for you means just that I only care for you - your nice but I'm not in love madly with you... He will want to protect you and comfort you and will have sex with you, but maybe someth... (read in full...)
Married 2 years and we're both still virgins!
Q. I've been married for 2 years and my husband has a pre-ejaculation problem. I am a virgin and so is he. I am getting frustrated every time we try to make love and he would ejaculate before he can even penetrate inside me. He just cannot control it, ...
A. 20 March 2011: Hi this problem is difficult for you to understnad and after two yeaars I would guess both of you are sick of the hassle of trying yet again and failing. He needs to start working out ways to control himself around you. You probably need to get ... (read in full...)
I hate having sex with him, is this normal?
Q. I hate having sex with my husband,but I still love him even after 13 years of relationship. He was my first and only sex partner...Is that normal? What should I do?...
A. 16 March 2011: Not being interested in sex is very common, and research has shown that woman experience on average two periods of life where they have low or non existant interest in sex. I agree with the other aunties - talking about it and reading books will ... (read in full...)
Am I just wasting my time here?
Q. hi. Please could you give me some advice? My boyfriend gets depressed often although it hasn't been for a while. I have tried being as understanding and loving as i can as i too can get like this. Only thing that is bugging me, when i felt down a ...
A. 15 March 2011: Hi, This guy sounds like he is depressed and believe me if your going to be depressed its when you think the other person doesnt love you. You sound like your spirally into a pattern - he's depressed becuase your not giving enough loving signals o... (read in full...)
Affair advice please... however wrong it is? I am in it!!
Q. Well here goes again I have asked advice now twice on this matter and have taken advice in different degrees. My story is long but i will keep it short. I promise this will be the last phase. I have been seeing a married woman now for 6 years. I...
A. 15 March 2011: I understand where you are totally, I'm in the same position except that she did leave her husband and her kids are younger. Listen - I cant tell you how it will work out becuase I have the same problem but I think the answer lies with yourse... (read in full...)
Oral sex...how can I "wow" him??
Q. so me and my boyfriend are going on three months now, and we have talked about takeing the next step... oral sex. and we are completely comfortable with eachother and im only slightly nervous because it will be my first time giving/recieving it. any ...
A. 14 March 2011: hmmm this is a difficult question becuase I'm sure just by giving your bf oral sex 4 the first time between you, he will be wowed anyway.
and the answer is individual to the man....but if you ask my advice, tease him first alot - wear your sex... (read in full...)
I feel used. why do people fake love for you just to make love to you?
Q. hi why do people make like they're into you but they really aren't secretly because all they really want from you is use you for sex while they sneak behind your back to find a bf or gf then they dump you and don't feel bad, wrong or guilty for ...
A. 13 March 2011: have to agree with the previous guy, 93% of guys wouldnt dream of playing with someonews emotions in that way. Look through the other posts there are heaps of men who have girls who dont love them or cheat on them or just wont committ and they get ... (read in full...)
What does 'fighting for him' mean? I don't understand what he wants
Q. So I met my boyfriend, let's call him Dave, through my ex-boyfriend, who we'll call Bill, on an online game. After Bill and I broke up, we stayed in contact and have become good friends. I've known Bill for almost four years, and I've known Dave ...
A. 6 March 2011: Hi there - first thing I want to say to you is your very young and the notion of fighting for someone at your age seems a little silly. You should be free to meet heaps of people and experience lots of different personalities. This boy does not ... (read in full...)
My husband pays full maintenance for his kids from his 1st marriage, and that leaves him with hardly anything for our household!
Q. My husband has 2 children from his first marriage, I don't have any and we do not have children together yet. He pays maintenance for the kids regularly and in full. The problem is that there always seem to be extra expenses and things they nee...
A. 5 March 2011: Im in the same situation as your husband. he will want to pay maintenance in full because its the best thing for his kids. Believe me, the formula really doesnt compare with what the kids would of had if they were still a family. If you were to... (read in full...)
Is giving her space all she needs?
Q. Ok, I have posted a question about my girlfriend before who wouldnt introduce me to her kids, her parents or her friends. I can accept the situation with her kids becuase I have kids of my own and I can see you wouldnt introduce them until you where ...
A. 4 March 2011: thanks a lot for that advice, it was what I was thinking as well, but how long should I wait, she was saying stuff like a year and that seems ridiculous to me - I have needs as well for support and comfort....btw we have been going out for 8 months... (read in full...)
Married for 23 years, and I think I may be in love with a younger woman...
Q. Hi, I am a man married for 23 yrs. The marriage has had many ups and downs. For the past few years I have been feeling as if we are growing apart. I have never cheated on my wife. I havent even kissed another woman since the day I met my wife. ...
A. 20 February 2011: Ok I'll tell you my story because its quite similar to yours. I was with my partner for 14 years and I felt like we had grown apart and there were too many differences between us. Then I meet this new girl from work who was smart, attractive into ... (read in full...)
I want to understand this. Could a guy get a girl pregnant even if he never put his penis inside her vagina?
Q. if a boy masturbates himself and gets his seminal fluid (cum) on his fingers and immediately afterwards performs cunnilingus on a girl, and puts his wet fingers in her vagina while he fingers her, could that pass on diseases or cause pregnancy? ...
A. 19 February 2011: Hi, In theory it's possible I suppose, but the chances are really very very low. There's a reason that a man shoots out 60 million sperm because only about 100 of them finally reach the egg (if it's the right time of the month for the female).... (read in full...)
How can I boost my confidence about my body?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now and I enjoy every waking moment with him. I losy my virginity to him after 3 months but he didn't know I was a virgin. It wasn't even like actual sex. We just sort of had a quicky in my friend's ...
A. 17 February 2011: Ok I'll tell you a little secret....dont ever be ashamed of your body - most men will still love sex with even someone who is massive - one of my girlfriends got very large during the time we were together and I still enjoyed sex with her - she ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of always being the romantic one!
Q. Hi everyone, I am feeling a bit neglected. I am the one who does all the romantic things in our relationship like flowers and planning nights out. I planned our last anniversary and even was the one who proposed. ( I had to go and pick up my own r...
A. 16 February 2011: you need to decide if your need for romance in the relationship is a deal breaker. There is no way you will change this man's view on it going forward even if you roll model it all the time. You are hoping he will reciprocate but he never will I'm ... (read in full...)
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