True or False: Men always think the grass may be greener with someone else?
Q. This is a question for men to answer true or false. If you're female, do not answer. This is an unanswerable question by a woman. Here is the back story, or skip to the bottom for the question. Last night while watching t.v. a character we both...
A. 14 September 2011: option A...... (read in full...)
How long should it take for someone to introduce you to their kids?
Q. Hi All, I have been dating a guy for six months, He is separated with three kids under 13. He has not introduced me to them yet.Is that normal? He sees them regularly. Thanks. :o)...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi - its a case by case thing and also how comfortable each person is with the idea of meeting the others kids.
Meeting the kids is a huge step for some people while others thinks its natural and not an issue.
I agree with the others, if the m... (read in full...)
True or False: Men always think the grass may be greener with someone else?
Q. This is a question for men to answer true or false. If you're female, do not answer. This is an unanswerable question by a woman. Here is the back story, or skip to the bottom for the question. Last night while watching t.v. a character we both...
A. 14 September 2011: Hi
I can honestly say that you dont fantasis about other woman sexually unless you have had heaps to drink then you may think about it a little.
BUT - a man in love will remain faithful 99.999% of the time even if a woman throws herself a... (read in full...)
How do I soften up my pubic hair?
Q. Hi I have a problem with my pubic hair, it used to be really soft before I trimmed it but I decided to trim it and now it's really coarse what can I do to soften it up?...
A. 1 September 2011: dont worry it softens up as it grows back - it feels coarse because all the ends are chopped off.
my chest hair feels funny if I man scape it but it also goes soft over time... (read in full...)
Is it too late? I went back to my ex but I cant get the other man out of my head....
Q. I am a mid 20 year old woman and have been a relationship with a man for 12 years. The last eyar was rough as far as he was being verbally abusive, fighting all the time and never around, there was a man who wanted me a mid 30 year old and I fell ...
A. 22 August 2011: I know you love him and cant get him out of your head - thats a good thing I think - you cant cheat how you have fallen for him.
My concern more is that you seem not able to be by yourself - you left on relationship, fell for someone else then wen... (read in full...)
How many lies are too much?
Q. Can anyone give me some advice from a non bias view point. I wanted to ask because my partner or ex now tells me im taking things the wrong way and he's so convincing about it i dont know if i am or not. We are long distance at the moment and h...
A. 22 August 2011: firstly - youre not over reacting to these actions by your partner and they have made you feel sad and thats not good - the fact that he's gotten defensive and started to fight back is not good.
you said you loved him and would have married ... (read in full...)
Do men suffer as much as women over a break-up?
Q. How many of the men actually suffer after a break-up? I don't mean SHOWING that they suffer, but do they feel for example in the beginning that it seems life can't go on without the person they were used to be with every day? Does it still hurt to ...
A. 21 August 2011: Of course men feel break ups very deeply - when youre in love and the other person breaks your heart, it feels like the world has ended and you mope for months hoping she'll take you back - men have feelings too!... (read in full...)
Is he being unfair expecting me to orgasm the same time as him?
Q. Is it normal for a guy to expect that if his past experiences have been with girls who have had an orgasm at the same quick time as him, to expect me to? I told him it takes me longer to get there and that I need oral and stimulation to get me ...
A. 21 August 2011: I would say he is being selfish - my first concern when I'm in bed is making sure my partner enjoys it as much or more than me - if we orgasm together great but in truth it only happens occasionally - people are different and need different types of ... (read in full...)
Husband wants a divorce, saying he's not sure if he ever loved me!
Q. Married 23yrs and have 2 children 20,21 husband got in shape and gain self confidence he looks real hot, now came to me on Monday and said he wants a divorce.I had said i wanted a divorce last yr to him because I wanted him to wake up, on our 22 ...
A. 7 August 2011: I've been where your husband is also, after 14 years of being with someone. Dont make the mistake of thinking that he hasnt agonised over this as well. He's obviously been thinking long and hard about things. To change is mind now would be very ... (read in full...)
Separated from a 'soul mate' (the one that got away)
Q. I knew there was something special about this person from the first time I saw him. Call it love or lust at first sight, call it what you will but it was only until recently I began to think of the term 'Soul mate'. Subsequently after first meeting ...
A. 23 July 2011: My last girlfriend who I went out with for a year was my soul mate in every way except for timing! I am still deeply in love with her and dont know how anyone will measure up to the feelings I had for her - they run your life, your every waking ... (read in full...)
Is this a recipe for success, or disaster?
Q. Hi everyone, i'd like to thank in advance for help. This is going to be quite long so bare with me. I feel as though it's time to ask for somebodies advice about whether my relationship with my boyfriend is a recipe for success, or disaster. I n...
A. 12 July 2011: Hi- it sounds like even though you meet him online and he promised the world, as youdo... you have quite different values. these take time to come out and you discover that maybe you werent as compatible as you first thought. His drinking sounds ... (read in full...)
Moving on. Is two montha long enough to wait before I start dating again?
Q. I have just broke up from my girldfriend of 1 year, but to be honest the last 2 months I may as well have been single. The first few months went well, but then I started to get very judegmental about her past, and I was nasty to her about it and aske...
A. 9 July 2011: from a male perspective - I agree it seems like if your still thinking about her then your not over her. On the other hand and this sounds terrible I know... if you start dating and make it very clear to the people you meet you are just having fun, ... (read in full...)
Why did she kiss me?
Q. Me and my ex [both 18] go out clubbing together a lot because we have the same friends. Last night we were out and were both quite tipsy, and I bought her a drink. She said 'thank you, sexy' and quickly made out with me, not too ferociously, ...
A. 9 July 2011: totally correct! the other two aunts are so true. Also I was just thinking that in this circumstance, if your a bit hung up still on her it might be good idea to start developing new friends - hanging out with her all the time wont allow you to move ... (read in full...)
Girls like jerks and reject the nice guys?
Q. I posted this a week ago but didn't get any replies. So I am trying again today cause I want some advise. I m really down. After being dumped by my gf of 4 years for another guy 5 months ago and after most of the healing process, when I tried to ...
A. 4 July 2011: unfortunately if we knew the answer to your question about if you treat someone like a jerk does she like you better you would be a very rich man becuase I think most men who say that they respect woman and who like doing nice things for them are ... (read in full...)
She hasn't been reaching her "max climax" and it's starting to make me feel bad!
Q. So me and my gf talked about our previous sex lives. I was a virgin for our first time and she was not. She told me her previous boyfriend was able to make her reach her "max climax" most of the time they did it. For me she she said that im able to ...
A. 2 July 2011: Hi - you sound like you like to please your girlfriend, and I would have thought thats exactly why she is with you and not her ex - being the best sex she has ever had is not the be all and end all of the relationship - be the best boy friend shes ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused! What are the real reasons behind his behaviour? Does he still have feelings for me?
Q. He's liked me for almost 6months. I tried to open my heart, got to know him, and after a while I fell for him a little more and more each day. Besides, seems like some of my actions got him confused and hurt as well. Suddenly right when I tho...
A. 28 June 2011: I reckon a card and a letter are so nice - he's a lucky man - if he doesnt melt at that he's a fool :)... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance to get my ex back?
Q. My ex broke up with me nearly 1 month ago and to be honest i'm still struggling, feeling wreck, we were together for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 month and we're in long distance now.... So this is one of the reason that she broke up with me i ...
A. 28 June 2011: If I were you i'd start playing a game with myself. I'd start of journal and write all your feelings down for her and also how your feeling. Then I'd wait two days and write more, then 3 days and gradually space it out. when you write about her, you ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused! What are the real reasons behind his behaviour? Does he still have feelings for me?
Q. He's liked me for almost 6months. I tried to open my heart, got to know him, and after a while I fell for him a little more and more each day. Besides, seems like some of my actions got him confused and hurt as well. Suddenly right when I tho...
A. 27 June 2011: Hi - dont beat yourself up about this - you did what you thought was right and took little steps along the way - the fact that it didn't match up with your boyfriends is unfortunate but happens all the time and suggests you werent as perfect ... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance to get my ex back?
Q. My ex broke up with me nearly 1 month ago and to be honest i'm still struggling, feeling wreck, we were together for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 month and we're in long distance now.... So this is one of the reason that she broke up with me i ...
A. 27 June 2011: from what I understand some people you just cant see them again - thry are like drugs - once your clean you just cant go near them otherwise it starts all over again. Chemistry is chemistry and it works all the time to bring people together... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance to get my ex back?
Q. My ex broke up with me nearly 1 month ago and to be honest i'm still struggling, feeling wreck, we were together for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 month and we're in long distance now.... So this is one of the reason that she broke up with me i ...
A. 27 June 2011: God knows if we are together or not - if doesnt sort her head out, then we arent and thats what she said. So officially its a break and not been talking to her, only make me feel worse. Course I think about her all the time, and I miss her like ... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance to get my ex back?
Q. My ex broke up with me nearly 1 month ago and to be honest i'm still struggling, feeling wreck, we were together for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 month and we're in long distance now.... So this is one of the reason that she broke up with me i ...
A. 26 June 2011: You said it yourself, you do recover and meet other people. 6 months is resonable - if being at home is the worst bit, i would organise it so your never at home. dont listen to love songs either!
good luck... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my boyfriend will meet another girl at university. How can I be more confident, and overcome the unease/trust issues that distance brings?
Q. Hi, I'm in an LDR and my boyfriend is going into first year university next year at a specialized school for people who share his talents and interests. We are very different, the whole "opposites attract" idea. I am worried he will find a girl...
A. 26 June 2011: OP - I know you love him and he loves you, but in my opinion I would really give serious thought to staying in a relationship with him. I know when I went to uni in Auckland, your life changes and you do meet so many new and different people. Its ... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance to get my ex back?
Q. My ex broke up with me nearly 1 month ago and to be honest i'm still struggling, feeling wreck, we were together for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 month and we're in long distance now.... So this is one of the reason that she broke up with me i ...
A. 26 June 2011: look even you admit that what she has said has hurt you and thats why you flow from hating to loving and back to hating and back to yearning again all at once and making you feel so confused and uncertain about the future. Thats what breaking up ... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance to get my ex back?
Q. My ex broke up with me nearly 1 month ago and to be honest i'm still struggling, feeling wreck, we were together for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 month and we're in long distance now.... So this is one of the reason that she broke up with me i ...
A. 26 June 2011: Hi - your email is full of blame language. Read how many times you say the word you in it. Now its natural and part of the breaking up process and actually a sign that your starting to get over her.
However if you dont want to feel bitterne... (read in full...)
My husband can't seem to ejaculate during oral. Is there something we can do?
Q. My husband can't seem to ejaculate during oral. As I've researched this it seems like it's a pretty common problem, but the reasons seems to be it's not enough or oral isn't done long enough. I have never timed myself, but I know I have gotten him ...
A. 23 June 2011: Hi - I'm the same, never ejaculated through oral, although I wonder what a real pro at giving oral sex would be able to achieve....it does feel good, but one thing I worry about and it probably does affect my ahhhemmm performance is the old swallow ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as love?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have never been inlove. Is there a such thing as love? And if so, is there a perfect man out there for me?...
A. 16 June 2011: Hi - I can gaurantee you there is such a thing as love - its a feeling you have when you stare into your partners eyes and see your own happiness looking back at you, its a smile on her face as she looks also, time slows down or speeds up, its hard ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the reason for a break up but I still like her and she likes me too!
Q. So part of growing up means admitting your wrong and realizing when you made a mistake.. I was seeing a girl last summer whome i liked but at the time it was the wrong time for me.. I thought i was doing the right thing by ending things to be fair ...
A. 6 June 2011: Hi - I would tell her how you feel but leave it at that - you shouldn't push this because she has moved on and you could be reopening old wounds for her - if she wants to do something with you then she will or the timing is off once again. If your ... (read in full...)
Why should I care? She dumped me!
Q. my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and we were on pretty good terms.i started hanging out with an old friend alot(a girl)and when my ex asked me if i was seeing anyone i lied(my mistake i know) and told her that i was interested in someone ...
A. 6 June 2011: You were being pretty immature about this - she was hurt and still cared for you and perhaps wanted you back - no one who really cares for someone will go out with someone three weeks after breaking up with them - both of you are probably too ... (read in full...)
How do guys fancy a girl who they don't know much about?
Q. I'm interested to know how guys can fancy a girl without knowing much about her or her interests. I know there's physical attraction, but i'm talking about them actually being attracted and fancying you as a person... Because a few of the guys ...
A. 6 June 2011: Hi - there is chemistry which takes over sometimes - you dont need to know much about the person, the attraction is there instantly and it doesnt really matter what the other person is into.
but if you want a long term relationship obviousl... (read in full...)
Is it normal for sexual attraction to fade?
Q. Hi there. My and my bf of almost 18 months have just recovered from a massive argument. Basically what started it is that I tried to initiate sex last night and he didn't want to. We had had a few drinks at home and I asked him if he still fancied ...
A. 6 June 2011: Hey - I was in a relationship for 14 years and yes it does fade down - once a week was about what it was later in the relationship. The reason is many boredom - you do the same things over and over again after a while - its good for both of you but ... (read in full...)
BF feeling down, but it's not normal depression. Why won't he just tell me when he feels it, so I know it's that and not something else
Q. I need some advice on how to help my bf out. We've been seeing each other for quite some time and we've talked openly about him having depression. He's been to counseling and it's never been figured out. It's not like normal depression, he says ...
A. 2 June 2011: Hi - I didnt think I had depression but looking back now I definately was feeling not my normal self for ages. So I broke up with my partner of 14 years and I thought that would make me happy, but it didnt in fact it made the depression so much ... (read in full...)
I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?
Q. I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...
A. 31 May 2011: Ok I will give you my experience, since I was caught cheating and I know that its better your partner puts their cards on the table. The other person will of course lie through their teeth or in some circumstances come clean. It might be a massive ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me feel less cynical about love?
Q. Can anyone help me feel less cynical about love? With all the celebrities in the news who have cheated on their wives, and my own experience of being cheated on by an ex-bf after we'd been together 8 years, I'm wondering if anyone has a relationship ...
A. 27 May 2011: Hey - you can always ask your man casually what he thinks about so and so cheating on this wife arnie and marie etc - the mans reaction to those things will be a good indicator to how he feels morally about cheating
However - if she does drugs, d... (read in full...)
Help me romance her with roses to show how beautiful she really is!
Q. hi I have a new gf, but I want to show her how beautiful I think she is, but I have a idea, but need advice on if its good or bad. basically im going to buy a bunch of roses(12 but take one out), and give them to her, with the one of followin...
A. 27 May 2011: what about keeping it simple -
"your holding in your hands 12 beautiful roses - but when I hold you I'm holding the a rose which is the most beautiful"
SR
Good on you for thinking romantically - its a very nice gesture and I bet its ma... (read in full...)
So why haven't I met someone who seems like a good match?
Q. So I'm 27, almost 28, and I've never had a real serious relationship. It frightens me, because I feel like there's something wrong with me! I date guys, but they never seem to stick around long (I'm not clingy, I'm actually pretty cool and funn...
A. 26 May 2011: Hi - dating must really suck - there's the pressure to meet someone new, be funny witty, look good all the time and laugh at lamearse jokes and things. Without know how you are meeting people, maybe what you need to do is do something you've... (read in full...)
I don't find my wife attractive anymore
Q. Me and my wife have been living together for nine years and married for the last six we have two children the youngest is four years old throughout our relationship her weight and appearance has fluctuated. in the last few years I have found her ...
A. 25 May 2011: Hi - you have had three excellent answers from ladies, so I thought I'd add a male perspective. I was like you with my partner of 14 years, we had two children and she put on heaps and heaps of weight, 120 kgs she weighed. I exercise alot and its ... (read in full...)
I saw a picture of a guy kissing her on the cheek. How can I get her back?
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up about two weeks ago... We saw each other once a few days after the break up to talk were she ended things completely for now. A week went by and she called me in Friday saying that she wanted me to bring all of her stuff ...
A. 23 May 2011: Hi - get some perspective - she was out partying because she feels low and wants to forget that she does feel terrible. the guy just kissed her check - no big deal...
what you need to do is not get desparate - remain calm and try not to let your... (read in full...)
Is ignoring my ex a good idea or will it push him away? I miss him!
Q. I feel silly but I miss my ex. we had a great relationship but towards the end it sucked. We took a break cos he got too busy with school and work and neglected me. He promised itd change but it it didnt. So I said we should take a break. Ever since ...
A. 23 May 2011: As you say its their choices - I chased after my girlfriend a number of times cause I'm head over heels in love with her, and even being separated for only a week is still really painful - its actually a pain in the pit of mt stomach cause I miss ... (read in full...)
Is ignoring my ex a good idea or will it push him away? I miss him!
Q. I feel silly but I miss my ex. we had a great relationship but towards the end it sucked. We took a break cos he got too busy with school and work and neglected me. He promised itd change but it it didnt. So I said we should take a break. Ever since ...
A. 22 May 2011: My girlfriend and I went on/off about ten times and it was her making the call all the time to break up - I got so gun shy I just couldnt stand it - its kinda a relief to clear the air - I still love her and hope we get back together for good but ... (read in full...)
Is ignoring my ex a good idea or will it push him away? I miss him!
Q. I feel silly but I miss my ex. we had a great relationship but towards the end it sucked. We took a break cos he got too busy with school and work and neglected me. He promised itd change but it it didnt. So I said we should take a break. Ever since ...
A. 21 May 2011: I would say ignoring him is best for the time being, and those random calls he's making shows he's desparate as well to get back together with you also. However if you are to get back together, I would say he needs to do some hard thinking and ... (read in full...)
Cheaters: Did you regret leaving your SO for the person you were cheating with?
Q. Hi, is there anybody out there that as cheated on their husbands/wifes, left their husbands/wifes and moved in with the person they were cheating on them with? How long did your relationship last and did you end up regretting it? The reason I a...
A. 21 May 2011: Hi - yes I been that man and I not afraid to say that I loved very very deeply the person I left for. There was no love in my LTR and I stuck around for far too long. The relationship I've just finished which led me here was a rollercoaster but one ... (read in full...)
Guys - do most of you struggle with committment and why?
Q. Hello. It turns out that the guy I am with and have been with for coming up to 1 and ½ years may have some commitment issues. don’t get me wrong, he’s great, we love each other and we are still together and have no intention of breaking up but he ...
A. 19 May 2011: its an interesting question - define commitment? if its a life long love and never leaving the other person there are heaps of couples I know who have been married 50+ years. At a certain point I believe you get comfortable in the relationship and... (read in full...)
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