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*iket389
writes:So part of growing up means admitting your wrong and realizing when you made a mistake.. I was seeing a girl last summer whome i liked but at the time it was the wrong time for me.. I thought i was doing the right thing by ending things to be fair to her. Well here we are a yeat later and i realize how much i really care for this girl.. And have all along. Only problem is shes got a boyfriend now.. Ive told her my feelings and she still has feelings for me.. Maybe stronger than she leads on.. So my question is.. If she feels the same.. And isnt very happy with her current situation.. What to do? The last thing i want to do is be the reason for a break up.. Because i know it doesnt end well.. Its hard when the ball is in someone elses court and you have move to make.. Just trying to do the right thing here.. I really care about this girl and think we really have something. I dont want to contact her too much but i dont want her to think i dont care either.. Please any advice would help!
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reader, Miket389 +, writes (6 June 2011):
Miket389 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI appreciate the advice.. I guess ill stay in touch but try not to pry or get.involved with her business when it comes to him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011): I agree with ironman777. Be honest and clear about your lesson, how you feel about her, what type of relationship you would like to have with her and assure her that you're not informing her to sabotage her relationship but because you believe she's mutually wanting to rekindle with you. Don't pressure her or ask her to rekindle a relationship with you. If it's you she wants a relationship with and not her bf, it has to be her free-willed decision, not yours. She needs to be sure it's you she wants so that a relationship between you two will work forward smoothly, free of past baggage and potential ex drama regret. I say go for it respectfully, and keep in mind she might want to remain with her bf. Best of Luck.
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (6 June 2011):
Hi - I would tell her how you feel but leave it at that - you shouldn't push this because she has moved on and you could be reopening old wounds for her - if she wants to do something with you then she will or the timing is off once again. If your convinced shes the one, then just keep in contact with her once in a while and see how she is and dont meet someone yourself.
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