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writes:hi .i am 28 years old. i am a mum of 10 months baby and i have been married for 2 years.i feel cofused in my feelings and i want to understand my self and how do i react like this.i m happy in my life and my husband is very good with me .the only problem is that he is very busy at work and in weekends he works partime as well.before marriage i loved another guy and he loved me but the story finished 7 years ago..i found him on face book ..i spoke to him in a friendly way but i feel that i have many feelings towards him..i check his pictures every day and i am missing him...i prefered not to tell that to him becos i am married now..but i feel confused and keep feeling sad ..what can i do to be neutral to him ..what can i do? =(
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reader, holikdad  +, writes (8 June 2009):
Dump the ex if everything is that great with your husband.If it's not great with your husband then dump him so that he can move on and find someone that will be faithful to him and appreciate all the hard work he does to provide for his family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): If you really want to be fair to your husband and your baby, you should remove your ex from fb and move on. Stop living in the past and appreciate all you have now. Nostaligia is one thing, but moping about something that was a long time ago is not healthy. And you say your husband is good to you, so why mess up a good thing.. I'm guessing he's busy with work because he's trying to provide a good life for his family so it isn't fair that his wife is sitting at home thinking of what could have been.. Think of it this way, how woud you feel if things were the other way around??? Hope that helps.
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