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Married man wants me all for himself, what do you think?

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Question - (8 June 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i met this guy at my job...who was sexually attracted to me and everyday he kept bothering me until finally he kisses me and we have a deep long sexual moment. the problem is that his with a girl and has two kids with her. i dont care and never expected him to be with me...but he keeps asking for me and gets really personal with me..he even cried.

he said that his very unhappy and he cant leave because of his kids..he tells me he wants to have my baby and that he respects me and wants me all for himself. we even had amazing sex..what do you guys think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

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the truth is that i dont want to be with him...i just want his sex...thats all his the one getting all attached and emotional!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009):

"the sex is fabolous" - blase and couldn't really give a shit. very very childish. and he wants to leave his wife for you? no morals. you are welcome to your married lover. he will do the same to you as he is doing to his wife. this is called life. good luck

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2009):

Denizen agony auntAnd it doesn't have to just be about the sex. However the benefits of having another partner must be balanced against the hurt it might cause. As I said earlier, in some countries it is not unusual. In others it results in an immediate call to a solicitor and divorce proceedings. Then the children have to be cared for. There's visiting rights and a whole other mess of things that don't see important when you are in the white heat of a romance. Watch out!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

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the sex is fabolous

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (8 June 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntWhat I think? That you would be very intrested in this amazing bridge I got on offer. Just $1000, no questions asked. Deal?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

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your right

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A male reader, holikdad United States +, writes (8 June 2009):

First rule, Cheaters are liars, and that's a fact. They will say and do anything to get what they want.

And the person who sleeps with someone who is married isn't any better. Go somewhere else to get sympathy for a situation that doesn't warrant it.

Try being an honest and trustful person for a change.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

Please tell me you're not serious? He's married! Would you like to be is his wife's shoes? Would you like to be the kids that have a father like him? If he's so unhappy, let him be a MAN and get out. But you need to do the sensible thing and move on. You're young and you think you can get caught up in this lovely romance but trust me in 10 years you'll be thinking "what the hell did I do?" Think of all the women around you.. Your mother or your sister, best friend. Would you like to be the one that broke up their families. Why would you do this to another woman? She has feelings, she's a mother, don't you think you should have a little more respect for her and yourself. I'm sure you're not the first he's tried to stray with and you won't be the last. Please have some dignity and tell this man to grow some balls!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

second best

other woman

mistress

lover

home wrecker

the list goes on regarding women that have affairs with married men. if you decide to give it a shot with this worthless piece of married material then plse choose one of the words from above. remember this will stick with you and you too will be viewed as nothing better than a *hore. and i think you are not this person, are you.

you are so young, i am sure there are many single men available to you..

why did this married man cry - because he is married with two kids? wow- imagine this. and later he will be crying to his wife, when he is caught lieing about you and she kicks his sorry ass out. crying is for guilty people and i am wondering whether he has anything to be guilty about.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2009):

Denizen agony auntDo you want to be the other woman? In some countries like France the idea of a mistress is acceptable if it doesn't interfere in family life. In other countries the revelation of the other woman can destroy a home.

Do you think he would he be prepared to tell his wife that there is someone else? Could you stand being second best? Remember, at all the important dates in the year he is going to be with his family and you will be alone. Is that OK?

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