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writes:I have a girlfriend, long distance relatinship, who i really love. She is amazing. But we have been fighting for past 3 months, got thru all of the fights, and we love eachother, but recently, she dumped me becos she cudnt take the fighting stuff anymore. But then a couple of days back, she called me to want to get back together again, and i said yes. everything was great for 2 or 3 days, but now suddenly she is being short/distant to me, no txts, no fone calls, no emailing or anyhting. Its only been 2 days since she started been short, and i know its not much, but for us it is! its abnormal for her to do this to me, and im getting concerned, i dont know if she loves me anymore.. and its killing me! What should I do. i cant really confront her because she will get angry, and said this was the last chance she wud give us as a couple. Is she really devoted even to me, or shuld I give up now... I dont actually know if she would care if i was to end the relationship i really dont...
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents  +, writes (30 August 2009):
 I have always thought that a long distance relationship is an oxymoron. I am not surprised that you are experiencing difficulties. When you are not together there is an important aspect missing: sex, touch, closeness, and all that comes with it, it's important. So unless you have been together for a long time and have a deep time-surpassing love for each other, it will be difficult. Even if you have been together many years, something like this is difficult. Do your best, and if it doesn't work out don't beat yourself up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): Hey,
I was (and am again) in a ldr, and I know how important communication is for a relationship like this to work as smoothly as possible. Thats what you have to get her to understand, For some reason she is annoyed or mad at you and is trying to make a point by not sending you any form of communication.
I have to explain to her that communication is all you guys have now to make the relationship work, or else all the fights and the sourness will continue, leading to a point where there wont be more turning back.
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