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my name is Scarlett i am 26 years old and i am on here to help thats my calling in life if you like.
i am a full time drama teacher and love drama. lol
love to here from anyone. i am singel and blonde and love to make friends from all over.
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Do you think my boyfriend really likes my "love handles?"
Q. heya im 16 and have a boyfriend, we have been going out for just over a month. i am small for my age (about 5 ft 1) and i am average weight i think (around 8 stone). i have quite a curvy figure around my hips and i have love handles! (curvy ...
A. 9 February 2007: ok god the question every girl wants to no the answer to charlotte church or victoria beckham but in tests most blokes say C.C men love a curvy woman its how we are ment to be. its got the godess factor you are the woman how she should be not a ... (read in full...)
Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !
Q. Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...
A. 9 February 2007: i think the website is grate the only thing i would say is that i think you should be abel to pick the colour of are back grounds on are column ... (read in full...)
What did I say that annoyed him so much?
Q. Ive been seeing this guy for a year and we are friends who sleep with each other but to start out with we were just sleeping with each other. Over the past few weeks Ive asked him if he wants things to go any further and he said he didnt but didnt ...
A. 9 February 2007: it just sounds like maby he wants to know what you want and if you dont mind me saying what do you want do you know? sit down and think do you want the reletionship develop? it sounds like he likes you and wants to know what you want he sounds like ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to contact her or wait until she contacts me?
Q. I met this girl through some friends, and I was quite attracted to her, however I am completely oblivious to any sort of signal from women so I had no idea how she felt about me. One of my friends told me she had had a bit of a crush on me. That...
A. 9 February 2007: leave it to her she needs time and if she dosent get back send her one text keep it simple like havent talked in a while how are you xx if she dosent reply she is not worth it hope this helps xx... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend refuse to kiss me in front of the receptionist?
Q. Quick question. My boyfriend had started new job and had taken the receptionist mobile number and was texting her when i wasn't about. I told him i knew and he was to put a stop to it cos there was no need for it. Today we got dropped off outs...
A. 9 February 2007: you need to remind him what a great woman you are and you are a fantastic woman remember that, pull all the stops out, text him saying what you would love to do to him in the morning so he thinks bout you all day. if he dosent want to kiss you after ... (read in full...)
I think my fiance has fallen out of love with me. How do I know for sure?
Q. i love my fiance so much but i think she has fallen out of love with me. she says she hasnt but how do i find out if she dont talk to me?...
A. 9 February 2007: tell her you need to talk to her and that you love her with all your heart she may be getting worried about the wedding cold feet but it is normal spend a night to geth watch a move open some wine hug and let her know just how much you love her and ... (read in full...)
He can't get over the fact I've given myself away so cheaply in the past, we have different morals and I see sleeping with someone as just sex.
Q. Hi I've got a problem. I really love my boyfriend who i've been dating for around 5 months. I made the mistake of telling him about my sexual past, including a series of one nite stands which he finds repulsive because he has high morals. He w...
A. 9 February 2007: tell him it was the past and it never ment anything to you and i know how you feel i was like you once the i just turned my life aroun and told my self i mean more then that. you can still change sex is a way of bringing to ppl who love each other ... (read in full...)
I met him on the internet and I liked him but he sent me a reccent picture and now I don't find him attractive! How do I break it off with him?!
Q. Dear cupid I am in a very difficult situation right now. He lives in Chicago and I live in England and I'm 18 and he's 27. Ok well basically I've been talking to this guy on the internet and we've agreed to meet up and everything, I've seen his ...
A. 9 February 2007: this is going to sound bad but get a new e-mail and cut him out send a long e-mail saying that you have realised how foolish you were and you just dumped your long time boyfriend and you have just got back with him and your so sorry and can you ... (read in full...)
I don't think my husband loves me anymore! He looks at porn and then lies to me about it, we are barely speaking. What shoul I do?
Q. I have been married for 3 years, however i feel my husband is not in love with me anymore, He hardly ever pays any attention to me and on the odd occasion he does want to have sex, i feel that that is all it is - that he just wants sex - not that ...
A. 9 February 2007: 3 years the passion sounds like it has gone! so suprise him in the bedroom mak things intressting for him!!! go out get some food in make a nice meal the dessert get some new night wear thrill him make him beg for more become like you were when you ... (read in full...)
Worries about my weiner, my wife's lack of sex drive!
Q. hi i am wondering is a 6in penis a good size or is it to small? what is a good size that women prefer? i also have a very high sex drive and my wife dont. i have been thinking about going else where to help my needs/ i have tried talking to her a...
A. 9 February 2007: ok lets brake it down first question: is a 6in penis a good size or is it to small? well most men avrage 5-6 inches
2 question : what is a good size that women prefer? well its not the size its what you do with it and the avrage woman is 5 inches... (read in full...)
I have a really bad anxiety problem, especially when I'm with a girl!
Q. i need help big time! im 20 years old and i think i have a severe anxiety problem! i have a girlfriend and have done for 6 months now. im just going to cut to the chase as this problem is pretty much ruining my love life now! everytime i have had a ...
A. 9 February 2007: hey its normale to get butterflys but you have them big time. so next time you see this girl tell her about the problem it may make you feel better and take things
s-l-o-w-l-y so your not worried when it comes to sex.
hope this helps xx... (read in full...)
How can I ask him out?
Q. I fancy this boy who's one year younger than me (he's 14), but dont know how to ask him out. we were on talking terms untill he decided to "zap" me every time he saw me(he pokes me hard in the waist so i-embarasingly- collapse). how should i ask him ...
A. 9 February 2007: i know how you feel and if you want to ask him out i will give you a few points you need to think over
1) get him alone around mates boys change
2) the outfit should be just right
3) flirt with him first flick your hair ask if he wants to mee... (read in full...)
Who should I go with?
Q. hi, i just want to ask some question. whom would you prefer to go with in the church, your bestfriend or your boyfriend? ...
A. 9 February 2007: bestfriend, then you can listen to the mass without looking at your partner
hope thios helps xx... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my math teacher! Help!!!
Q. Ok so I just wanted to see what peoples opions on this were. I have a crush on my math teacher (hes a graduate student) and I am in college- so he cant be too many years apart from me im guessing 2-5. I know I will not pursue it because it is ...
A. 9 February 2007: oh god i know how your feeling i took art in collage and this really really hot art teacher said i was the best student he had ever had and i was beaming when he asked me to stay after class. but it was onkly to talk about art i mean lots of eye ... (read in full...)
I can't stand anyone else being with my mum
Q. how can i tell my mum i no longer love her and i want to move out? im 13 and hate my mum to bits, people say its impossible to hate ur mum, but i really do, she has really hurt me ((not in a abusive way)) and shes been with this man a year and ...
A. 8 February 2007: Sometimes, there are reasons to hate a parent- however, they are very extreme.
Shy of being abusive or putting you down, there is no reason to outright hate her. Sit down and have a long talk with her. A calm, level headed discussion should h... (read in full...)
I can't get a boyfriend
Q. hi,im really upset because i cant get a boyfriend and every one else can what can i do?p;ease write back a.s.a.p thank you xxxxxxxxxxx...
A. 8 February 2007: I understand how hard it can be when all your friends have boyfriends and you don't. I've been there! Part of it is beyond your control but there is something you can do about part of it.
Girls and guys your age randomly hook up and unhook on a week... (read in full...)
We're really good friends but I want to be more thn that
Q. I love this guy and i want to start a realtionship with him, we are really good friends but i wnat tobe more thn that, how do i find out if he feels he smae way? i dont want to make a move and thn mess up our friendship too... plz help...
A. 8 February 2007: you really need to look at this website it will help you so much
http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio1/onelife/personal/relationships/justgoodfriends.shtml
hope it helps xx... (read in full...)
Is this normal?
Q. i lost my virginity last night! and i was so shocked it didnt really hert! was abit awquid and compforable but was ok! however im kinda sore 2day is that normal? and i had a little bloody 2day but didnt last night?...
A. 8 February 2007: when i had sex for the first time..i didnt bleed much during it but next morning i noticed quite a bit of blood and for rest of day .. by the next morning it had stopped so yes it is normal! Also sumtimes if ur period is due soon it can make u come ... (read in full...)
Torn apart by jealously and rejection!
Q. My boyfriend dumped me because of my jealousy and also because i believe that he misses that excitment you have at the start of a new relationship thats why i now know why he has had a lot of girlfriends. How can he buy me flowers and a teddy on...
A. 8 February 2007: First of all you need to talk to him and maby you need a littel time apart. And if he is you solemate then things should get better but the last ting you want to do is get him thinking your needy so keep a distance to start off with.
like the old ... (read in full...)
He thinks that because I don't "moan" that I don't like it (sex).
Q. Me and my boyfriend have sex quiet a bit.. I enjoy it but i never have a orgasim .He dont believe me that i enjoy it because i dont Moan or anything either.. Is there something wrong with me? He thinks that if a girl dont moan than there is ...
A. 8 February 2007: hey its ok some girls are working so hard to keep there man happy we forget about are selfs but next time you do have sex and he dose somting you love after tell him say i loved it when you....... it made me feel really good. hope this has helped x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend prefers to masturbate than have sex with me any more!
Q. Hi Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a bit years now, and i love him very much, but.. at the start of our relationship we had sex every nite we spent together then it steadied off until it was once a week now we barely have sex a...
A. 8 February 2007: wow! well when your in the move have a bath put your bast underwear on and while he is in bed do what you knows turns him on. I just wanted you to know that sex is not the most important thing in a relasionship and there is trust and love. however ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my wife's sex ban will drive a permanent wedge between us...
Q. My partner of 6 years and I recently split up. There were a couple of problems, sex (or lack of it) being a major cause of a lot of them. She wouldnt have sex with me for months at a time and I basically cracked and left her. We have had 3 kids ...
A. 8 February 2007: hiya,
i know you have needs and i know how hard it is for you but you neeed to be there for her. she has let you back in her life that means she wants you and no matter what she is your wife and there is love there because love like what you ... (read in full...)
Are inter-racial relationships a bad thing?
Q. I am white and i have a black boyfriend is there ANYTHING wrong with that? ...
A. 8 February 2007: god no your lucky you have found a guy you like you go for it!!!!... (read in full...)
Will he ever love me or is he stringing me along?
Q. I do have a bf who likes gambling, "cockfighting" to be specific. This is basing with the nature of his work as a sales specialist that this is somewhat needed as a get going activity with his clients. He told me all of this stuff beforehand and i ...
A. 7 February 2007: hey i can only help you with one of you questions "Is it ok to ask him if his thinking for a future with me then?" and yes its ok bot you have to talk to him let him know how you feel no one on here can tell you what the answer to the other ... (read in full...)
My heart is broken!
Q. my heart is broken and i cant bare the pain..........help...
A. 7 February 2007: its hard i know but you need to know you are not alone that would be the worst ting for you at the moment so please know that the pain wont go away but in time it will get better and and easer to cope with. if i were you i would think of the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he can't ejaculate... should I help?
Q. Hi im a 15 year old girl. My boyfreind recently told me he cant ejaculate! I'm not sure whether this is just down to him not having developed enough yet or whether he has a problem. He is quite immature for his age in physical terms so im wondering ...
A. 7 February 2007: this must be hard for you! i mean all the stress of you G.C.S.E'S but if your boyfriend told you this he may want help. i would leav it for now and if he says anything more about the topic you will know weather you should try and have a chat for ... (read in full...)
Things were fine, then she broke up and wouldn't say why.... Why!?
Q. me and my ex were doing good and had many future plans, then at the click of the fingers she broke up with me. i asked her why and she wouldnt answer me truthfully. what should i do?...
A. 7 February 2007: have you ever thought maby she her self dosent know? some ppl think there partners are happy until they just leav. it could have nothing to do with you or it could be she is worried about somting. whatever it is love dosent just die and as hard as ... (read in full...)
Becoming more than friends with an older lady... but scared because she's said in the past she likes guys who are well hung!
Q. I've been friends with this older lady friend of mine for three years. Even though the age gap is about seventeen years is doesnt matter as we get on so well. I've started to like her more than a mate and I'm getting signs that she's starting to be ...
A. 7 February 2007: hey you
you know what you could do so much better then that and size dosent matter. Its not a good sign when she has been with a guy for 5 years and they split for that. further more sex should be between two ppl who love each other and you ... (read in full...)
After only 3 months, he is going out with someone else.
Q. I started dating my bestfriend 3 years ago. Now he has broken up with me and is now after only 3 months being apart is going out with someone else. But he still wants to hang out and he knows that it hurts me for him to be dating someone else. Im ...
A. 7 February 2007: hey you
i know it seems like the world has fallen down but it hasent! you know get a boyfriend show him what a sexy butiful woman you are! so go out there 3 months is a long time why dont you arrange to meet up with a group of friends let ... (read in full...)
I am now married but my feelings for him havent changed
Q. i have met with my ex boyfriend after not seing him for the past 8 years. even though now that i am married and have a child, my feelings for him havent changed. he's going through a divorce and we just met as old friends. i dont know what to do....
A. 7 February 2007: You love your child and i am sure you must love your husband every one likes to see there ex's and i am sure he will have seemed like a blast from the past but think of what your be doing to you child and husband. Is it a real love or is it just ... (read in full...)
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