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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met this girl through some friends, and I was quite attracted to her, however I am completely oblivious to any sort of signal from women so I had no idea how she felt about me. One of my friends told me she had had a bit of a crush on me. That's all the boost I needed and I immediately asked her out, which she very enthusiastically agreed to. So we went out for the first date and seemed to really hit it off, the conversation was great and we really had alot in common. She wound up coming back to my place and we talked until 3:00 am, she text messeged me afterwards to say she had a really good time. The next day she phoned and we made plans to see each other right away again.Things went really well, and I saw her several times throughout a two week period.Then one day I was supposed to have dinner with her and she messeged me saying she was really tied up with school work and couldn't make it, but wanted me to phone her the next week. So I phoned her and she talked about how busy she was with school etc, and didn't have much time, but asked me to phone later on in the week. I've felt really uncomfortable leaving messages because maybe she just wasn't that interested, but she kept reassuring me she would have time soon. I have left her a message just saying phone me when you are free and I have heard nothing back. Should I bother to follow this up? Should I leave it to her?My only fear is that I didn't make my intentions very obvious, so maybe she just doesn't think I'm into her. Although that should be pretty obvious by my willingness to put up with this.As of right now I just plan on leaving the ball in her court so to speak, and wait for her to contact ME, but I don't want to let this slip through my fingers simply because I felt creeped out leaving messages with someone who isn't returning them.
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reader, here_2_help  +, writes (9 February 2007):
 leave it to her she needs time and if she dosent get back send her one text keep it simple like havent talked in a while how are you xx if she dosent reply she is not worth ithope this helps xx
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