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anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have sex quiet a bit.. I enjoy it but i never have a orgasim .He dont believe me that i enjoy it because i dont Moan or anything either.. Is there something wrong with me? He thinks that if a girl dont moan than there is something wrong with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): it isnt wrong not to moan. and there isnt anything wrong with you or him. hell when me and my boyfriend have sex i dont moan at all hes asked me why and then asks if i enjoyed it. its like if i didnt enjoy i wouldnt do it and he shut up. so yeah
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reader, cd206  +, writes (8 February 2007):
 Every girl is different during sex. Some moan, some scream bloody murder and some make no noise at all. Personally I always feel a bit silly making noise during sex unless it's instinctive and it tends to be directly related to orgasms if I do moan. Most women don't orgasm through sex alone anyway. They usually need foreplay to orgasm and if your boyfriend is willing to try you'll almost certainly be moaning more and more.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (8 February 2007):
 First of all, not all women have orgasms while having sex. I'm not saying they're incapable of it, but sometimes we have thoughts in our heads that get in the way of the big "O".
For some women it takes a couple of years of an active sex life before they get to the point of relaxing enough to have an orgasm.
None of this means that the sex isn't enjoyable!!
You need to explain to your boyfriend that you very much enjoy your intimate moments, but just as there are people who make a lot of noise in bed, there are those who prefer to not make much noise at all, and you're one of them.
Your boyfriend seems to evaluate his performance according how much you moan, so if you want to make him feel good about himself (stroke his ego, so to say) you can let him know while he's doing something that it feels really good. That will make him feel appreciated.
Just a thought: I am also a quiet type, but I discovered that if I let go and moan or say whatever comes to my mind, I get more out of the intimate moments with my boyfriend.
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (8 February 2007):
 hey its ok some girls are working so hard to keep there man happy we forget about are selfs but next time you do have sex and he dose somting you love after tell him say i loved it when you....... it made me feel really good.hope this has helped xx
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