A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:me and my ex were doing good and had many future plans, then at the click of the fingers she broke up with me. i asked her why and she wouldnt answer me truthfully. what should i do?
View related questions:
broke up, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe said that because she is going to school she didnt want to hav a relationship at the same time. what im confused about is that we had many plans set, and we seemed so happy till i was forced to work nite turn for two weeks and we didnt get to see each other as often. then after that she broke it off but still wants to be friends. im just confused
A
female
reader, appygal81 +, writes (7 February 2007):
 I agree with all the aunts as well, however what exactly did she say? are sure she was lying? you would have to give us a little more info. other than that, i agree just let her go, you deserve someone else that isnt lying to you.
...............................
A
female
reader, here_2_help  +, writes (7 February 2007):
 have you ever thought maby she her self dosent know? some ppl think there partners are happy until they just leav. it could have nothing to do with you or it could be she is worried about somting. whatever it is love dosent just die and as hard as this is if you love her then give her space to think things over and try to let her come to you. hope this has helped xx
...............................
A
female
reader, cd206 +, writes (7 February 2007):
 She owes you an explanation. It's completely unfair what she's done to you because until you know what's going on you can't get closure. All I can do is echo what the other aunts and uncles have said, that you're better off without someone who can't even find it in their heart to be honest with you.
CD
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): It does not matter why. I know how you feel (it happened to me too) but really at the end of the day it just does not matter.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): well being a gal i think she probably fancied someone else or maybe u have something she dont like n she dont want to tell u becoz she dont wanna hurt ur feelings or maybe she wanted to see u actully loved her so dont worry...n plus thats wot happened with my ex bf he asked me out n after he just dumped me n never told me why but i try n forget him n i just cant.....
...............................
A
female
reader, mel_22 +, writes (7 February 2007):
 If your ex cant be honest with you and give you an explanation as to why she ended the realtionship you are better off out! I know it is hard when you are in love with someone but it has to be understood at the same time she may not have loved you, she may have found it hard to break u with you because she knew you loved her and the reason she cant be honest is because she knows how much it would hurt you to tell you simply that she didnt love you any longer, you are both young and to have long time future plans can be a bit scary maybe she felt too much pressure and just needed to escape. Whatever happens I hope I have helped you and do understand how traumatic it is to lose someone you love I have been there myself it will take courage to move on but you are young and maybe you should have some fun and enjoy being young free and single
...............................
|
