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writes:I am really feeling sad today and hope someone can offer some words of wisdom? In short, I have had a very close emotional and sexual relationship with a guy for 2.5 years. Due to unavoidable circumstances we have to part our ways shortly. He is moving to another country. For various reasons (irrelevant to this question)this will mean a permanent break of contact between us. It is hard to break up, but much harder to break up when the relationship and feelings are still very strong. My heart is shattered. How do I move on from here?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 Is he leaving for good or just temporary?
Far away in distance but not far away from the heart.
In today's borderless world , you can chat with him everyday online, MSN, Skype and e-mail.
He is always there even if you cannot touch him. His spirits will be with you.
Someday when you love each other enough , you may go to him , if not in this world , in the next world.
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reader, Brittni  +, writes (3 March 2008):
as much as you want to move on you will never lose that strong feeling but just go out friends help alot and just doing anything that takes it off your mind like anything just try your best not to listen to sad songs and just have funn because you will sure find someone you like as much as you did with him but friends help the most and work
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): We are on the same situation.. But I guess the best way to solve your problem is to stay good to yoursef. Don't lose your respect to yourself... Just love yourself more... Someone better will come your way...
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reader, gost8  +, writes (3 March 2008):
Use your newly former love as the benchmark for the future. What I mean. You will find other men, but you will find someone who will make you feel even better.
I wish you the best. I know it is a difficult time, but time will pass and time will heal the wounds and the hurt you now feel :)
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