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I'm a 17-year-old girl with an oddly complicated relationship past for my age. I had to learn a lot very quickly. I want to share the lessons I've learned from a troubled history to help other people. Living what I've lived, I grew up fast. I'm very blessed, so don't think I'm complaining--just explaining.
Since I'm young and probably naiive, I try not to butt in on older people's business, but if I do, I usually feel pretty strongly about it.
I love this site because it can help anyone and everyone. All the aunties are so accessible; they're real people. I'm here to do my part!
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I can't move on from my first love and it's tainting my relationship
Q. I've been with my bf cumulatively about 8 months while we've been on and off for about a year and a half. My feelings for him are definitely growing and now they are to the point that I do love him. The problem is, I can't tell if it's in a romantic ...
A. 21 January 2010: Thank you so much!
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I can't move on from my first love and it's tainting my relationship
Q. I've been with my bf cumulatively about 8 months while we've been on and off for about a year and a half. My feelings for him are definitely growing and now they are to the point that I do love him. The problem is, I can't tell if it's in a romantic ...
A. 20 January 2010: Thank you all so much for your insight.
Thethingsthatyoutellyourself, I really appreciate your detailed answer, no worries about the length. I asked for help and you gave it!
I know I need to push him away, you affirmed that for me, but I'm scar... (read in full...)
Why is it that a girls virginity seems to be more important than a guy's?
Q. Something I've been wanting to know for ever is, why is it that a girls virginity seems to be more important than a guy's?...
A. 17 January 2010: Think back through generations and consider morals--parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, and so forth. Sexuality in many cultures was very different than it is today. What about the times and places when a daughter being married off was like a ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love someone at 15?
Q. Do you think it is possible to love someone at 15 i honestly think i do..its something i can't explain and then its like there is nothing i could do to change it?... what do you think it would be very helpful...
A. 12 January 2010: Yes, I do think it's possible. I fell in love with my best friend just before I turned 15. I'll be 16 in a few days. I don't claim to know everything or even a lot, but I do know that love doesn't know an age.
If you want to call it "love" thou... (read in full...)
Sleeping together without the sex
Q. A question more for curiosity than experience: My boyfriend and I have been on and off for around a year and a half. I'd say, of those eighteen months, we've together cumulatively seven or eight months. I love him, despite our broken relation...
A. 12 January 2010: I would also like to add that while I was on vacation last summer, he came to stay with me and my family. He stayed in a room with my brother and two cousins, and I was in a room with my baby sister. I was pleasantly surprised at how trusting they ... (read in full...)
Sleeping together without the sex
Q. A question more for curiosity than experience: My boyfriend and I have been on and off for around a year and a half. I'd say, of those eighteen months, we've together cumulatively seven or eight months. I love him, despite our broken relation...
A. 10 January 2010: Thank you for all your comments! What you said was what I thought, but I just wanted some affirmation. I know this makes no difference, but I'm gonna be 16 in a few days--so 13-15 is a bit misleading. =) --GG... (read in full...)
The majority of questions on here are so trivial
Q. I've been frequenting the site for quite a while now, and although I believe people can gain insightful advice and in its concept its great I've noticed of late how trivial the majority of questions are. This isn't a post to have ago at certain ...
A. 10 January 2010: Hahaha, heartfullalove, I doubt you're pregnant! I hope these eases any fears you may have had!
;-)
--GG... (read in full...)
Our song is his and his ex's song too...what does this mean!?
Q. Please help even if this is a silly question! I don't know what to think. I've just found out the mine and my boyfriend's song was his and his ex's song! What does that say about him? Should i worry that everyone time we listen to it he is thinking...
A. 5 January 2010: Very similar issue--one of my closest friends just found out that her and her ex's song is now his and his new gf's. She was crushed. She felt like everything he ever said to her was a big scripted lie. She worries that he never loved her and was ... (read in full...)
Should I wait until they break up to tell her how I feel?
Q. Ok well I liked this one girl since spring and we always had this line we said to each other because in track we were both good at stuff and we'd watch each other and say one up. Well when i was going to finally ask her out she walked up and told me ...
A. 4 January 2010: I respectfully disagree with the first poster. I don't think you should tell her until she's single. To tell her while she's in a relationship will put her in an extremely awkward position.
It's like asking her to leave her bf for you before you ... (read in full...)
The majority of questions on here are so trivial
Q. I've been frequenting the site for quite a while now, and although I believe people can gain insightful advice and in its concept its great I've noticed of late how trivial the majority of questions are. This isn't a post to have ago at certain ...
A. 31 December 2009: Thank you very much!
I'm sorry to say that 'he' is no wise teacher, though I've learned a lot from him--just an ex that broke me.
But I did gain... Life experience?
Hahaha
--GG... (read in full...)
The majority of questions on here are so trivial
Q. I've been frequenting the site for quite a while now, and although I believe people can gain insightful advice and in its concept its great I've noticed of late how trivial the majority of questions are. This isn't a post to have ago at certain ...
A. 30 December 2009: Hahaha, thank you very much male anon. I am 15. Personally, I think writing in complete thoughts is a matter of respect. If I'm asking for help or I'm giving advice, I want people to read what I write and respect it as a legitimate thought or issue. ... (read in full...)
Does masterbation cause health problems?
Q. hi there again, this time i want to ask that do masterbration effects health?? I mean i masturbrate 2-3 times daily and day by day i am feelling weaker! I asked a friend and he told me that masterbrating too much can also cause AIDs! So i want to ...
A. 28 December 2009: Masturbation will not give you AIDS.
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Is it wrong to tease my female best friend when I only like her as a friend?
Q. hello everyone, just a simple question, is it wrong to tease a female bestfriend? like hugging too much, acting romantic toward her a lot, being overly nice to her, holding her hand. i only want to be friends and only like her as a friend though...
A. 26 December 2009: Good luck.
My best friend did the same thing to me. I love him, but he didn't mean much of any of it.
A word of warning: please don't say things you don't mean. If she uses the "L" word, please don't until you're ready. It hurts if he doesn't ... (read in full...)
The majority of questions on here are so trivial
Q. I've been frequenting the site for quite a while now, and although I believe people can gain insightful advice and in its concept its great I've noticed of late how trivial the majority of questions are. This isn't a post to have ago at certain ...
A. 21 December 2009: Recent male anon:
k_c100 makes an excellent point in that every situation is unique. In each set of circumstances, each variable matters. If a girl asks if she could be pregnant, are you going to refer her to someone elses question? That woul... (read in full...)
The majority of questions on here are so trivial
Q. I've been frequenting the site for quite a while now, and although I believe people can gain insightful advice and in its concept its great I've noticed of late how trivial the majority of questions are. This isn't a post to have ago at certain ...
A. 21 December 2009: From the perspective of a 15-year-old girl: My mother is deep in her Christian faith, and I have a great respect for that, despite my beliefs' inconsistently with hers. I'm unsure about relationships like any other teenager! Some teens can go to th... (read in full...)
He makes my heart go boom diddy boom but he is an ex!
Q. An odd question, but I'm desirous of an answer nonetheless: My ex dumped me 7 months ago, basically cause he just didn't love me. I had really deep feelings for him and I firmly believe I love him, even though I'm just a teenager. Anyway, I was ...
A. 18 December 2009: 1. Hahaha, I didn't come up with the title.
2. Thanks very much. I thought it'd go away after 7 months, but it still feels like cleaving layers of muscle from each other...
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I am 14 and wishing, and hoping and kinda wondering if I might be pregnant
Q. hey, my name is jena. around september 25th maybe i had unprotected sex with my kinda boyfrind. a couple days later we had unprotected sex again. i havent takin a pregnancy test yet...but im not feeling any of the symptoms except being tired and ...
A. 16 December 2009: Hi, Jena
You've heard what all the Aunts have said thus far. You realize that they're all correct, right?
I'm going to be 16 next month and I know exactly where you're coming from. I've wanted a baby since I was 11. My baby brother was born jus... (read in full...)
I haven't been able to contact my online g/f for a few months, I think she is cheating on me
Q. For the past few months my girlfriend and I have lost contact. I've not been able to get hold of her at the best or worst of times with the constant reasoning that she's sleeping. I do understand some people have sleeping problems, however I call ...
A. 16 December 2009: Honey, you know the answer to your own question.
She used to act interested, now she doesn't. This sounds like she's just lost interest--maybe the distance is too much for her. Calling every 4 hours won't help either, because that gets really anno... (read in full...)
My brother raped me when I was in 4th grade
Q. When I was in fourth grade, my brother (9th grade) had been touching me a lot lately and saying sexual things and putting on porn while I was there in the room, showing me his genitals. I would try to cover him up but he'd uncover himself again. I ...
A. 16 December 2009: You have. And I believe that I speak for all of us when I say that you'll be in our thoughts. We're all hoping that you'll come to realize the truth about this occurence and that you are in no way at fault.
We wish you the best on the road to reco... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to tease my female best friend when I only like her as a friend?
Q. hello everyone, just a simple question, is it wrong to tease a female bestfriend? like hugging too much, acting romantic toward her a lot, being overly nice to her, holding her hand. i only want to be friends and only like her as a friend though...
A. 14 December 2009: It's not wrong, per se. But if she misinterprets your actions, it'll wrench you apart before you can say "oops". Emotions are fragile--treat them as such.
If you value her friendship, be upfront about why.
--GG... (read in full...)
My brother raped me when I was in 4th grade
Q. When I was in fourth grade, my brother (9th grade) had been touching me a lot lately and saying sexual things and putting on porn while I was there in the room, showing me his genitals. I would try to cover him up but he'd uncover himself again. I ...
A. 13 December 2009: Reading your post, I cry for you. You were raped. You were very young. I promise to you that this isn't your fault. I attend church every Sunday, and anyone there would tell you the same thing. You were raped.
Please talk to your bishop--maybe talk... (read in full...)
How do I finger my girlfriend?
Q. My girlfriend is coming over to my house today. She might give me a hand/blowjob for the first time. I might also finger/rub her. Need some advice though as to what to do....
A. 13 December 2009: Not the answer you're looking for: considering your age listed, don't you think your need to ask this question says something about how ready you are? You're 13-15. I'm going to be 16 next month. I know I'm not ready for a step like that, are you? ... (read in full...)
Tips for a heartbroken insomniac?
Q. Tips for a heartbroken insomniac? Dumped by the guy I love + long-time insomniac = not very stable version of me I'm too young (15) for many sleep aides according toy parents, but as I try to sleep, I can't help but to think of my ex that dumped m...
A. 9 December 2009: Thank you!
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Its not fair on my boyfriend to still be in love with my ex, how do I get over him?
Q. Hi My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. I'm currently with a guy who treats me far better and loves me far more than my ex. I can't seem to get over my ex, no matter what I do about it. 1.) is there anything I can do to try to get over him? 2.) I...
A. 8 December 2009: Thank you so much for your responses. I really appreciate them. A few things I thought I should clarify: -my ex broke up with me because my feelings were singficantly stronger than his. I think I really was and am in love with him (though I've bee... (read in full...)
How do I go to sleep without thinking of the ex?
Q. I have had mild insomnia for a long while. Lately, my thoughts before falling asleep are all and only of my ex. We broke up 4 months ago, but he's still my very closest friend. How can I sleep without thinking about him? Thanks! -GG ...
A. 21 September 2009: I have tried music, journal, etc. Hypnosis works, as does the Red Sox post game. ;-)
is there anything else worth trying?
How can I get over the hope that we'll get back together? I think it's standing between us.
Thanks!!!!
-GG... (read in full...)
Broke up with the guy who was my best friend. I can't sleep!
Q. Hi! My best friend also happens to be my exbf. I have deeper feelings for him than I could ever imagine, especially being in high school. We broke up 4 months ago and I'm still a mess over it. I've dated a few guys since, but I couldn't get very emo...
A. 18 September 2009: Thanks.
But... How do we stop being friends? He's the person I'm closest with in the world. He sits next to me in a few of my classes as well... How would all that work? (Ive never not been friends with an ex afterward)
I don't know to what the... (read in full...)
How do I get over him but keep him as my best friend?
Q. Hello, aunties! I've had feelings for a guy for what's now approaching 3 years. 34 months. We dated for nearly 5 months. I genuinely believe I've loved him for 9 months. (Though I do understand that my perspective is very limited, as I am only in ...
A. 14 September 2009: Thank you so much, 78ta09, you said that I should tell him how I feel. I've done this before. He claims not to like relationships, and I believe he genuinely means it. He doesn't have time for a girlfriend, and he never has. He's told me before a... (read in full...)
We both know we could be good for each other but are afraid to date one another
Q. A friend of mine last week revealed to me that she loved me. I have known for quite some time that she felt that way and never said or acted on it because I did not want to risk ruining what we have. Now that she has made it clear her feelings for ...
A. 13 September 2009: I'm no expert. Lots of people older than me don't appreciate advice from teenagers, but I'd like to help if I can. I dated my best friend when he told me he loved me--I can genuinely tell you that it was the best 5 months of my life. The highs we... (read in full...)
How the way he kisses you says more than you Know
Q. Most people say that there are no true aphrodisiacs other then human scent. You know the smell of a male or female and the effect that it has on one another. I disagree, I think that the one true aphrodisiac in the world is a kiss. Not the peck that ...
A. 12 September 2009: Wow. Your article made me cry! I don't know anything about love. I'm a teenager and I've been in 5 real relationships in 3 years. 1 of them, however, I'm head over heels for. He's my best friend. We broke up 4 months ago. We were together for 4.5 ... (read in full...)
Broke up with the guy who was my best friend. I can't sleep!
Q. Hi! My best friend also happens to be my exbf. I have deeper feelings for him than I could ever imagine, especially being in high school. We broke up 4 months ago and I'm still a mess over it. I've dated a few guys since, but I couldn't get very emo...
A. 9 September 2009: Thank you very much for the feedback!
I feel I stated my problem wrong, however. I love this guy (as best as my teenage brain can comprehend that, hahaha) in a romantic way, yes, as far as I know. But FAR more importantly is how I feel about him ... (read in full...)
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