We've been together for a short time and he wants a threesome for his b-day! Should we do this?
Q. I have a BF that wants a threesome for his birthday we have been together only a short time is this a good idea...
A. 1 November 2007: Personally I never think three somes are a good idea as they can cause all sorts of trouble. If you are just starting out in your relationship i'd say this is a big no no. Do you love him? Does he love you? Has this been established yet. Is it ... (read in full...)
We fight, but I want him to fall in love with me
Q. hey me and my boyfreind have been together 2 months ago and we fell in love within 1 week i think at that time i couldn't live without him anyways when time passed we started having more fights ( i still love him to death) but i know that he ...
A. 29 October 2007: well if you think your boyfriend fell out of love with you so quickly, it's pretty obvious that he wasn't in love with you in the first place. arguing is a normal thing for couples, are you sure you're not worrying too much? ask him out right if he ... (read in full...)
I need my ex - but my boyfriend can't cope with it
Q. Hiya i wrote up afew days back about the fact that my bf did not like me being friends with my ex husband although i was clean about it from the start and he was ok now he's changed. This is the link to my last question: ...
A. 28 October 2007: Well to be honest I can definitely see where your boyfriend is coming from. It's completely natural for him to be jealous I mean you were married to this other man and have a child with him. Your boyfriend sounds very insecure and I'm not surprised ... (read in full...)
I am so depressed when I'm not with him - please help me
Q. Me and my boyfriend ryan are 15 and we have been on and off goin out with each other for about two and a half years. I have tried going out with other lads but i end up finishing with them because i like ryan too much. Just recently i went ...
A. 28 October 2007: This guy obviously doesn't love you or even care about you. Forget about him. I know its a bit harsh but its the truth. He has no respect for you at all and obviously no feelings for you. He is just using you and it sounds like he's using this other ... (read in full...)
We have oral sex but she doesn't want a relationship. What should I do?
Q. my girlfriend broke up with me 1month ago.she say's she is not happy and I am not the one. we have been talking on the phone 3 times a week. We decided to go out we went shopping then dinner then to my house we had oral sex. But she still says ...
A. 28 October 2007: Well if she says that you are not the one she obviously doesn't love you as this is a very hurtful statement. She knows that you still love her and she is using you for sex. Don't fall for it. You are far too good to be used in this way. Although ... (read in full...)
I'm not only in love with him, I'm attracted to him.
Q. I've been with a guy for a year now and he annoys me a lot.. he doesn't give me attention, he doesn't like to talk to me on the phone he always ignores me he cheated on me the first couple of months and he blamed it on alcohol now he doesnt drink ...
A. 28 October 2007: i understand completely that it is hard for you to leave him but it really has to be done. just leave him with the thought that there is someone much better for you out there who will feel the same way you do and who will treat you with the respect ... (read in full...)
I had an affair, no love in my marriage.
Q. Im married and had had a affair for 4 and a half years. He is married too. Im 33 and he is 44. Weve been having a great time, really excellent sexual relationship - no comittment - no pressure - the all of a sudden he said he thinks it time to call ...
A. 23 October 2007: You are not making a very good impression of us women are you? I understand completely that love in a relationship can die with time but it is totally unfair for you not to let your partner know this. How would you feel if you found out your husband ... (read in full...)
I got upset by his "weight" comment. What should I do?
Q. Okay So I'm seeing this guy I met online...it's been almost a year now, and recently I noticed a few small comments about weight..."oh you should have seen this guy at the mall...he was HUGE!" things like that...My BF is in Japan and I am in the U...
A. 23 October 2007: GET OVER HIM. He is a complete loser. He is shallow and not good enough for you at all. In fact he doesn't sound good enough for any woman. He talks to you like crap and makes you feel awful. He has no respect for you whatsoever and there is ... (read in full...)
I'm not only in love with him, I'm attracted to him.
Q. I've been with a guy for a year now and he annoys me a lot.. he doesn't give me attention, he doesn't like to talk to me on the phone he always ignores me he cheated on me the first couple of months and he blamed it on alcohol now he doesnt drink ...
A. 23 October 2007: You sound like a glutton for punishment. You've gotten yourself into a rut here where you "think" you love him. This doesn't sound like love at all. It just sounds like you can't let go of him because he is always there and you're frightened of what ... (read in full...)
What am I supposed to do to get over it?
Q. Do I leave him? If not, how do I get over the fact that he was a member of a sex chat site?? Tagged as: Breaking up, Pornography Previous question Next question Question - (22 October 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2007) A fe...
A. 23 October 2007: DO NOT WORRY! You are completely normal and to be honest if my boyfriend was doing the same as yours was I think that I would be exactly the same. There is no reason why he should be even remotely interested in these websites when he has a girl like ... (read in full...)
Have I got something unsavoury?
Q. Hi, have a really embarrising thing to ask. I've just starting seeing a guy and things have got really heated between us and he wants to make me cum. However I noticed that when i was wet there was some white discharge. Is this normal? We're not ...
A. 23 October 2007: Could be a yeast infection. If this is the case I suggest you stop having sex with your boyfriend as it is easily passed on and can be extremely painful for a man as it can cause the skin on the end of his penis to become red raw. It's also very ... (read in full...)
He doesn't ejaculate during a blowjob!
Q. I love giving my boyfriend oral but I sometimes feel a little disappointed afterwards as he has never cum during a blowjob. He definitely reacts to it and it makes him quiver and there is a climax of pleasure but nothing ever comes out. I usually ...
A. 23 October 2007: thanks everyone for your advice! :)... (read in full...)
I have a phobia about letting him see my vagina. How can I get over this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been hitting on 8 months, but i'm too self-concious to let him see my vagina, we have sex often enough but i dont let him see it. how can i get over it, its like a phobia, i shake and go insane if he tries to go near it!...
A. 20 October 2007: I can fully understand where you are coming from with having a "phobia" about your boyfriend seeing your vagina. It's a very private place and there won't be one woman out there who isn't self concious about it due to it being so varied. All women's ... (read in full...)
He didn't climax during the bj! Am I crap?
Q. When I gave my boyfriend a blow job, he didn't ejaculate. Am i crap?...
A. 11 October 2007: Don't feel bad! You're man sounds like mine. My man doesn't cum during just mouth action alone. There has to be some wrist action in there also. If you're just using your mouth try and incorporate your hands into it also. And remember that a blowjob ... (read in full...)
My bf put his penis in and pulled it back out, I'm 14 - how do I get a pregnancy test without my mum knowing?
Q. hi im onli 14 years and i would like to ask a question me and my boyfriend didnt want to hav sex and he put his penis in and pulled it back out, it was 5 days ago when i done it what shall i do and how do i get a pregnancy test at my age without ...
A. 9 October 2007: you could book an appointment to see your doctor without your mum knowing and explain the situation to him/her. they will give you a free pregnancy test there. or you could even nip down to the chemist and buy one over the counter but i'm not sure ... (read in full...)
My bf of 2 months told me to F%*K off in front of his friends and I left the bar in tears! Should I move on?
Q. I had a row with my bf last nite (we have been together only 2 months) and it was over nothing - mostly my fault. But when I tried to apologise he told me to F%*K off in front of his friends and I left the bar in tears. Usually when we argue I ...
A. 14 September 2007: You are more than "under the thumb" girlfriend. He obviously has no respect for you whatsoever and I think that you should "move on". He doesn't sound like the type of guy any woman would actually WANT to be with. If my boyfriend had told me to do ... (read in full...)
I am 13 so, why do I want sex?
Q. yah i'm 13 i know sex isn't worth it in the end but i still want it for some reason any help...
A. 9 September 2007: Everyone feels a little bit like this at your age. Its the time in your life that you start to become aware of your sexual self but it isn't the time that you act upon your impulses. You aren't ready for anything physical yet so please don't get ... (read in full...)
He wants to date others but misses me when we're on a break...is all this worth it?
Q. Here is my problem...My boyfriend who I've been with for almost 5 months now is having feelings of wanting to date other people. He's had these feelings for a month or so and now we're taking a week "break". I miss him so much though, and for some ...
A. 9 September 2007: It's obvious that he hasn't a clue what he wants at all. It definitely doesn't sound anything like love as he is not certain of you at all. If he is thinking of dating other people at any time at all in your relationship then its quite obvious that ... (read in full...)
My mum wont let me stay over at my boyfriends house. Should iI keep trying to convince her?
Q. I'm 19 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for one year and 3 months. We are very much in love, and can see our futures together. He gets on really really well with all my family, my parents completely adore him!! Only problem is my mum ...
A. 5 September 2007: You should definitely tell her whats what. I mean I bet she is having sex under her roof so why can't she let you do it underneath someone elses? If she has raised you right she should feel secure enough to know that you will be careful in whatever ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my twin sister's husband. Not sure if I should tell my sister or wait to see if I'm preganant...
Q. Hi my name is Stacy. I need some advice. I have had sex with my twin sister's husband. I do not know if I should tell her or not. I know it is wrong for me to have done that. The first time it was only anal sex just because I was curious and my ...
A. 4 September 2007: Either way you should have kept the condom on or be taking some kind of contraceptive pill. How could you do that to your twin sister? Just because your sex life is boring with your husband does not mean you should get more exciting with it ... (read in full...)
How can I stop getting jealous?
Q. How can i stop getting jealous so easily? i've only been seeing this guy for a month but i get jealous so easily (although i make sure i dont show it in front of him). im really insecure so simple things make me jealous. like yesterday i went to a ...
A. 3 September 2007: It's not something you can control. It's to do with your self worth and ego. I have a very low self esteem also and get very jealous as well. As long as you trust your partner theres nothing to worry about.... (read in full...)
Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Advice please!
Q. Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Is there any way to have anal sex without hurting my wife?...
A. 2 September 2007: This isn't very fair. Just because you like it doesn't mean you should be looking for another way to do it. If it hurts your wife then leave her alone and appreciate the other "two" entrances to her body that are less painful and more suitable for ... (read in full...)
Why was I so wet??
Q. Sorry if this is graphic but im really worried! I had sex with my boyfriend last night and we used a condom but afterwards i was really really wet, alot wetter than usual and when i went to the toilet, it looked like semen was in the toilet ...
A. 27 August 2007: Could the condom have burst maybe? Could you have a yeast infection? The substance that secretes out of you when you have a yeast infection looks a bit like semen, a yogurty cream kinda substand. Or it could just be your discharge!... (read in full...)
I don't want to be "that girl," but I really like a married man
Q. Two years ago, I met a guy who I ended up falling for. He had literally just got into a relationship, so I didn't try anything, and I certainly didn't say anything about how I felt about him. His girlfriend ended up getting pregnant- so they ended ...
A. 24 August 2007: Yes you should wait for him to leave his wife and until that point you should stay away from him. Even though he says the only reason he married his wife was because he thought "it was the right thing to do", he did it all the same didn't he? There ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a virgin and I want to make her first time as enjoyable as possible
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for close to a year now, and she's been a virgin the whole time. She wants me to be her first, and I am looking to make it as enjoyable or at least pleasant as I can. Any advice from a woman's perspective on how to go ...
A. 24 August 2007: Okay well here goes. There are different ways you could approach this. You could make the place you are going to do it as serene and cosy as possible. Maybe with some nice candles and some nice sheets and comfy cushions. Massage oils and creams ... (read in full...)
My first time and I didnt orgasm, is there something wrong with me?
Q. Okay so yesterday my boyfriend (of over a year) and I had sex for the first time. I didnt orgasm although he did. I guess it felt nice, but there wasn't even a sign of one building. We tried again a few hours later and again he orgasmed, and I ...
A. 24 August 2007: Of course there isn't! Don't be silly! Did you know that only 30% of women can actually orgasm through penetrative sex alone? Plus this was your first time and a women should never expect to enjoy it. If you want to orgasm there are other things you ... (read in full...)
What is lubricant?
Q. When my boyfriend and I have sex, sometimes it's hard for his penis to get in my vagina. Don't worry, we use condoms. I've asked people I know for some advice, and some suggest lubricant. But what excactly is lubricant? And how can it help? Thanx...
A. 24 August 2007: Lubricant is a gel like substance that you can buy from a chemist or places like Ann Summers to help aid vaginal sex. Women don't get "wet" most of the time unfortunately and so we need a boost and this is the thing. It's just a gel basically but it ... (read in full...)
I almost kissed someone else, do I tell her?
Q. Hi, I am in love with my current girlfriend and we have been together for a little over a year, i went out with some friends and got really drunk, i ended up dancing with this girl, normal flirting, and at the end of the night i almost kissed her, ...
A. 22 August 2007: No you don't tell her. It's like saying " I almost climbed Everest" but I didn't actually climb it, so what's the point in mentioning at all? It will only upset her that it was an almost but I'm sure she would be more pleased to here that than "we ... (read in full...)
He wakes up and reads porn like it's the newspaper and masterbates...what can I do?
Q. my boyfriend gets up in the mornings before me sometimes i do wake up to find him reading porn stories like its the sunday paper and masterbating i dont want to but i get mad because i would rather him come wake me so that i can please him i need to ...
A. 22 August 2007: That is awful. God I think I would kill my boyfriend if I caught him doing that! He soo should have woken you up. Tell him, it's me or the morning porn!... (read in full...)
Is big best, if so why?
Q. hi i am a male and not well endowed is big best if so why ...
A. 22 August 2007: Big is not best, where did you here this? Why do you think the saying "it's not what you've got, its how you use it" is so popular? A woman's most sensitive spot is only just inside the vagina so why does the length matter? Stop worrying!... (read in full...)
Help me! I want to have sex with my own sister
Q. hello i need advise i am 16 years old and i want to have sex with my sister she is realy attractive i dont know wat to do plz help...
A. 21 August 2007: How can you even look at your sister in this way? It is possible to have very attractive family members but to have sexual feelings towards them is disgusting. I'm sorry but you must have some mental condition as you should feel nothing for your ... (read in full...)
Tips on oral sex please?
Q. ok so i need some tips on going down on a girl. i mean like something she will never forget.any tips?...
A. 20 August 2007: Well first of all there are plenty of websites on the web that can help you out with this such as sex101 and even the cosmopolitan website. You have to know that the most sensitive part of a womans genitalia is her clitoris and this is the main foc... (read in full...)
I slept with a guy who's engaged at a party... should I tell his girlfriend?
Q. There is a boy i really like, i was at a aparty last night and i ran into him, he took me upstairs and into his friends bedroom, we started kissing and making out, and i gave him head and he tity f***ed me, we then ended up having sex, and then ...
A. 19 August 2007: This is all up to you i'm afraid. The blame does not lie on you as you had no idea that he was engaged or that he was even with anybody so therefore he is the one who should be feeling ashamed. However, I think you did rush having sex with him!
I... (read in full...)
There was a burning sensation when he fingered me.
Q. My boyfriend fingered me but when he stuck his finger in it was a burning sensation then it felt the same with two fingers just more burning is this normal or is it just cause its my first time?...
A. 19 August 2007: Yes this is perfectly normal. If his fingers were quite dry this could be one explanation and because this is your first time this is probably the other. The friction caused by fingers or a penis when it goes inside a vagina can sometimes be painful ... (read in full...)
I recently realized I am in love with my wife's best friend.
Q. I recently realized I am in love with my wife's best friend. I do not feel any less in love with my wife. I love her with all my heart, but I also love her best frient with all my heart. Luckily her friend lives clear across the country. How do ...
A. 16 August 2007: Personally I don't think it is love that you're feeling for "both" of them. Love is such a powerful emotion and can only be felt truly for one person. When you love someone your whole world surrounds that one person...not "two people". I think you ... (read in full...)
We've done most things, "sexually" together, except actual intercourse. I'm a virgin and he's only had sex once, through peer pressure.
Q. Hi, I've been with my current boyfriend for 5 months but I've known him a few years. We're both completely comfortable with each other and we feel that we love each other and we actually want a future together. We've done most things, "sexuall...
A. 16 August 2007: Believe it or not "not being able to get it in" is quite a common problem and even happened to myself the first time. Something that can help with this problem greatly is some sort of lubrication. Durex have a wide variety but I suggest as you are ... (read in full...)
How can we be more discreet with our lovemaking?
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly a year and a half. I moved in with her a few months back due to situations at home. Her mum lets us slep together because she trusts us and she's known me all my life and me and her daughter ...
A. 16 August 2007: yes there are! my favourite position for this type of situation is spooning. you both lie on your side, the man lies behind the woman and you both face the same direction. basically you slide your penis in from the back angle, she may have to be a ... (read in full...)
How can women want to touch someone with a small penis?
Q. Is it wierd to go from wee-man to Andre the Giant I have a serious problem, Im not a virgin but See i fear sleeping with women alot cause i have a terrible fear of being seen....well... soft. I have a very tiny thingthang when im soft ...
A. 13 August 2007: It's a known fact that the smaller the penis when it isn't erect, the more potential it has to get bigger. Stop worrying about the size of it when its not erect! 7.5 inches is a very good size, and after all this is what you'll be using, not you're ... (read in full...)
I'm slim, but I have love handles! How do I get rid of them?
Q. Hey I was just wondering if any of you girls had any tips for getting rid of those unwanted "love handles?" I'm a very slim girl but for some reason I have little love handles and I can't seem to shift them. Anyone got any exercise tips or anything?...
A. 9 August 2007: thanks guys for all your help. i think i'm just gonna keep em. my boyfriend doesn't even notice them and he thinks i have a really sexy body, i only wanted to get rid of them for myself. i suppose the guy has to have a least a little of something to ... (read in full...)
I'm Bi and married but I can only seem to orgasm when thinking about women. Opinions please??
Q. i'm Bi married and am very attracted to women i have been in a lesbian relationship prior to meeting my now husband but when we are being intamite i find myself always thinking about women and i fantasize about being intamite w/them while i am being ...
A. 8 August 2007: Are you sure you're not just a lesbian?... (read in full...)
What are the best styles to go for?
Q. it is my first time with my new boyfriend and i didn't no what type of down below hair style he likes and i feel silly asking hime what shall i do and which one is betterr` hllp plz xxx...
A. 6 August 2007: i suggest you leave a strip of hair. not a big one but just enough to suggest that you are not a little girl. if you just keep it nice and tidy, so to speak, then your guy won't mind.... (read in full...)
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