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What are the best styles to go for?

Q.   it is my first time with my new boyfriend and i didn't no what type of down below hair style he likes and i feel silly asking hime what shall i do and which one is betterr` hllp plz xxx...

A.   6 August 2007: i suggest you leave a strip of hair. not a big one but just enough to suggest that you are not a little girl. if you just keep it nice and tidy, so to speak, then your guy won't mind.... (read in full...)

He's my best friend's guy, they have 2 kids, I live with them but...I am falling for him! Any advice?

Q.   Hi, I'm falling in love with my roomate and it's my best friends boyfriend. They have 2 kids together and have been together for 4 1/2 years. For the most part they get along, but they struggle like everyone else. It just seems so natural when I'm ...

A.   4 August 2007: I'm sorry to say it but you should have stayed away from him in the first place. I'm not saying it's all your fault as he is the one in a relationship and he gave in to something he shouldn't have also. I think you should make a clean break and tell ... (read in full...)

Do I tell my fiancee that I slept with another man, a long time ago?

Q.   My fiance and I have been together for 7 years(since 8th grade) but we've broken up a couple times since we got out of highschool. We were each others first, we live together now and we're getting married this October. But I slept with someone ...

A.   4 August 2007: No you shouldn't tell him. If it had happened whilst you were together then this would be a different story as I would understand why you feel so guilty, but it didn't, it happened whilst you were on a break. There is no point in upsetting your ... (read in full...)

can someone please give me some advice on my failing marriage.

Q.   can someone please give me some advice on my failing marriage.we have being together for 17years and for the past 5years there has being no sex or real affection shown to me ,i have tried changing my apperance loosing weight but nothing seems to ...

A.   4 August 2007: All I can really tell you is that I think you should sit down and have a really good talk with your husband. He must have his own thoughts on the whole thing. I know you've been together a long time but if you can't sort things out through ... (read in full...)

Where's my girlfriends clitoris, how do I find it?

Q.   how do i know where my girlfriends clitoris is or when i find it ?...

A.   3 August 2007: I shall answer this as plainly as I can and give you directions as I see you are in desperate need here! The clitoris, firstly, is a small what some people would say, ball or lump above where the girl pees out of. You don't really need to look for ... (read in full...)

What's the difference between a best mate and a lover?

Q.   Hi, I'm 16yrs old and am going out with this guy i've liked 4 ages now. The relationship is perfect except one thing: I'm scared to sleep with him. I want to there's no pressure there it's just i'm not sure how to go about doing things and if i get...

A.   22 July 2007: A best mate has a key word, "mate". A lover is someone who you have sex with. If you aren't doing this with your "mate" then you aren't lovers.... (read in full...)

my boyfriend likes for me to give him a handjob while I sit on his lap and kiss him.. and I got the moving up and down part pretty good, but how can I make the hand job better?

Q.   ok, my boyfriend likes for me to give him a handjob while I sit on his lap and kiss him.. and I got the moving up and down part pretty good, but how can I make the hand job better... are there certain things I can do?.. and please dont think I'm ...

A.   15 July 2007: buy some lube, durex do a fantastic one called tingle, its a green small bottle and it adds heat to a handjob. it will make the experience ten times more pleasurable for him.... (read in full...)

I sometimes have flashbacks to previous bad sexual experiences

Q.   I just have a few questions. First of all, let me say that I'm in a wonderful relationship and we have lots of fun together. All right, recently my boyfriend has stoped telling me that he loves me. His 24 year old cousin and Grandmother think that ...

A.   15 July 2007: If your boyfriend is expressing his love for you then I think you are a very lucky girl because most men will just tell their lover they love them but these are just words! As long as he is making you feel loved then that should be enough until he ... (read in full...)

I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't.

Q.   I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer....

A.   13 July 2007: Have you ever been put with the idea of having to suck a penis? I clitoris is a much easier thing to approach and pleasure than an erect penis as there are issues such as pleasure points and deep throat to consider. It is a very scary thing for a ... (read in full...)

My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex.

Q.   My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex. Is this true anyone out there done that? I'm a virgin and they also told me that I could get sexually transmitted disease from my girlfreind even though she's a virgin 2. Can anyone ...

A.   13 July 2007: You cannot catch a sexually transmitted disease from someone who hasn't had sex, fact! About the masturbation, watch out you don't enjoy it too much and release too much otherwise when the main even comes you might disappoint your other half with ... (read in full...)

I want more of a commitment from him before having sex. How should I proceed?

Q.   My bf has had sex with two of his ex gf's and I've never had sex at all, not even with him. He wants to have sex with me and I want to have it with him too but the fact that hes been with someon else before me unsettles me a lot. I don't like the ...

A.   13 July 2007: I think this choice is totally up to you. It's understandable that you feel that such a precious moment should be shared between two people who are experiencing it for the first time but life isn't always as perfect as that. However, I was fortunate ... (read in full...)

I'm almost 15 and I bleed after sex

Q.   im 14 going 15 and i bleed after sex..i had sex twice already and the bleeding wasnt that bad after the second time..what should i do???...

A.   21 June 2007: Don't worry, this is totally normal. I myself did not bleed during my first or second time having sex but I know plenty people who have. Also, it's not only women who bleed, sometimes the mans foreskin can rip and cause him to bleed too. Once u have ... (read in full...)

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