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How can I seduce a married lady

Q.   i m a 26 yrs old guy..........i m havng affair with a 34 yr old married lady.....she has thre kids.....her husband is 50 yrs of age..how can i convince her for sex ......or seduce her.........as she doesnt like her husband.just with her for sake of ...

A.   28 November 2010: I agree with everyone else. This is wrong on many levels. She may not like her husband but that still isn't a reason to try and sleep with her. Don't be a home wrecker and find someone else.... (read in full...)

Wife has cheated on me twice, I'm struggling to take her back

Q.   I met my wife when we were both 19 which was 16 years ago. We were together happily for about 6 years and then one night my wife got drunk and kissed my best friend in front of me. I think I battled with that for a while but we worked through ...

A.   28 November 2010: It's like the saying goes "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me"... (read in full...)

He's a breath of fresh air, but I'm married!

Q.   I've been with my husband for going on 9 years, we've only been married for over 2. We have a little baby boy together. Recently we just haven't been able to get along. Ever. We constantly fight and argue and the sex, well .. it's pretty bad. It's ...

A.   14 November 2010: Well you have two, well three, options. 1.) You find out why you marriage went bad and how you can fix it. You could sit down with your husband and tell him how your feeling. Figure out if it's fixable, if you both want the same things, and figu... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and my girlfriend wants to have sex, if we don't she'll dump me!

Q.   I'm 13 and my girlfriend really wants to have sex. My best friend did it once and said it was a great experience. I'm breaking under peer pressure and need help. We've been going out for 10 months and I really like her. She said if I don't have sex ...

A.   14 November 2010: first off, you need to find out why she is so desperate to have sex. Most 13 year old girls aren't the ones that want to. So something doesn't seem right to me about that. Second, of course I'm going to say that I do not think you should have sex... (read in full...)

Do I tell her about this debt?

Q.   Hi, I am getting married in 2 weeks and in the past week some things have gone wrong. I bought a new TV and as I was setting it up, it fell and broke and unfortunately the warranty does not cover this, so I had to throw it away :( I haven't to...

A.   11 November 2010: Even if it makes her more stress. do you want to start off your marriage with a little lie. It obviously is bothering you or you wouldn't have asked on here so I'd just tell her. Especially since her money is your money once you getting married. ... (read in full...)

At the cross roads........

Q.   i am in my mid 40s married for 20years together for 25 years with 2 children over 18now. i have wonderful life with my wife and family but have fallen out of love with her about a year ago and emotionally diconnected from her. only resently i shared ...

A.   11 November 2010: It's exactly what you said, you need to make a choice. If you want to make it work with your wife you can. Go to counseling,end it with the other lady, take a vacation with your wife, spend some one on one time together, be intimate, and try to get ... (read in full...)

Inappropriate ex behaviour?

Q.   My boyfriend's ex comes to all his important events - birthdays, thanksgiving, Christmas, when his band plays. She is a good family friend but he cheated on her and that's what ended their relationship. I don't understand why someone who has b...

A.   11 November 2010: I dont think your wrong to feel this way, but you also said she is a close family friend. THat may be why she comes to all the events. If she was close to the family before hand then she may not want to cut his family out of his life just because ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend and ex-wife have terrible boundaries, I am not allowed to be around his child!

Q.   I have been dating a divorced guy for 2+ years. He has been divorced about this long as well. His ex-wife lived in another state with their child, but recently moved here to be closer by. She has known he was dating this entire time, and never had ...

A.   11 November 2010: I would talk to your boyfriend is you haven't already and express your feelings/concerns. Then I would have/ask him to ask her why this is? He's most likely going to have to be careful on how he ask (his tone, wording, etc). There may be an actual ... (read in full...)

Pregnant again!

Q.   How do I tell my parents that I am pregnant AGAIN!!..Im only 21 and I have a 18mth old son..I just found out that I am 6 weeks preggo...My oarents helped me so much with the first one and still help me a little..I live with my sister but my parents ...

A.   11 November 2010: You really really really shouldn't have an abortion just because your scared to tell your parents. You will regret it later. It sounds to me like you need to put your "pants on" and just tell them. Of course they are going to be mad. That's only ... (read in full...)

I feel more like roomates with my wife, I desperately want to feel wanted but she is so cold and it has led to me starting an affair....

Q.   I have been married for 21 years. My wife is a wonderful person. Kind. Caring. Hardworking. A great mother. She is a well paid nurse. I do well running my own business. We have two teenage children that are doing great in every measure. ...

A.   10 November 2010: You need to end the affair. Honestly I know your unhappy but having an affair isn't going to save you marriage and if your looking for a way to end it then just end it. If I were you and your wanting to try to change and fix your marriage... (read in full...)

How do I confront him? How do I tell him I snooped on his cellphone?

Q.   I am 27 and i'm in love with this tall handsome, fun guy. He is charming, gentle and really respectful. All the qualities you can think of the 'ideal man'. We spent this past easter holidays with my family paragliding and partying. My whole family ...

A.   10 November 2010: My opinion you weren't in the wrong for snooping. I think if you have that feeling or they are giving signs then why not? (You both realized your in a relationship if your talking about marriage) Your dating and you've committed yourself to him so ... (read in full...)

How much sperm is needed to get a girl pregnant?

Q.   How much sperm is needed to make woman to be pregnant? Is there a minimum amount of sperm required to make a woman to be pregnant? ...

A.   10 November 2010: Like others have said you only need one. However that doesn't mean you can have sex and if you don't cum or if you pull out that she can not get pregnant. (she can still get pregnant from both) There is something called pre-cum. This too can get a ... (read in full...)

I took off my ring after he admitted to cheating!

Q.   I really need some advice here..i have been with my boyfriend from february 2007. we both met in college and had an instant bond. we graduated from college in 2008 and took jobs overseas. so we both lived in different countries from november ...

A.   10 November 2010: Honestly I do not understand it either. But the facts are he did and like you said it he did not once, not twice, but SEVERAL times. Doesn't that tell you something. ... (read in full...)

My lover is threatening to tell my wife everything and have me beaten up if I don't leave my wife for her!

Q.   I have been having an on off affair for 3 years, and I just don't know what to do, I have a good wife I have been with since I was 17 and 3 beautiful daughters, the woman I am having an affair is loving and the sex is just fantastic.... but ...

A.   9 November 2010: You need to tell you wife. Not even for the fact that you don't want to supposably be with this women anymore and she's threating to tell your wife, but because out of respect for your wife. You've disrespected her so much already so I think you ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend trying to get me pregnant?

Q.   So I got the birth control shot and the doc told me I had 2 wait a wk. My bf was happy cause we agreed we didn't want any accidents especially when Im younger than him (not ready) and he said he doesnt want kids. I told him, you cant cum inside me. ...

A.   9 November 2010: I agree with maverick, you both are being careless. The doctor told you to wait a while for a reason. Also, you told him to not cum inside you however you can get pregnant even without him cumming inside you. Theres a thing called pre-cum. Alot of ... (read in full...)

A person I loved is really mad at me! When do I try to make contact again?

Q.   Hi everyone...I'm really sad and sometimes depresion gets over me.A person who I really loved is mad at me I guess she doesn't want to talk to me.That person said it will comeback wen its ready to come. Yet months have passed n its still not here. ...

A.   8 November 2010: I agree, five months is a long time to be "mad" at someone. I would move on. ... (read in full...)

6 nosebleeds in the past 2 weeks since being with this guy, is it just a coincidence?

Q.   to anyone who can lend some advice, i must begin by stating that my period is quite irregular. (i might get it 3 times a year, and it has been that way since i first got it at 15 years of age.) i had sex for the first time 4 months ago and i go...

A.   8 November 2010: That is really interesting. For the nose bleeds I have no idea. I would ask a doctor. Better to be safe then sorry, right? As for your irregular periods there could be several different reasons. Again, I would see a doctor. I am assuming it is ... (read in full...)

I love her and I'm ready for sex. Should I go ahead with it?

Q.   Ok....Heres the situation me and this girl are deeply in love. We are not 18 we are both within a year of each other age wise. This past weekend we where close to having intercourse when I stopped us. The only reason I stopped us is I didn't want ...

A.   8 November 2010: I can't say if you guys should or shouldn't have sex. I think either way your going to do what you want to do. You say you both are ready to make that big of a decision. I think you both are young and you will have plenty of time for that and if ... (read in full...)

How do I get my husband back?

Q.   How do I get my husband back? My husband and I have been married for almost 13 years. The marriage has had some pretty rough moments and I screwed up big time on 2 occassions by putting my friends first. I thought I wanted out, but I DON'T! He ...

A.   7 November 2010: Sounds kind of silly but maybe you should ask him to let you be that friend. If he needs someone to talk to then maybe you two can text. Just like he would with her. If you do this not only will it bring you two closer becuase your sharing your ... (read in full...)

So should I tell her and end the friendship. Or just suck it up and see what happens?

Q.   Hi. So I met this guy online about 3.5 years ago. Both of our profiles said looking for a serious relationship. We corresponded via email for a couple of months and then dated for about 4 months. I am a single mom and at the time I worked 2 jobs. ...

A.   7 November 2010: The whole thing sounds fishy to me. It's almost like he's living a double life. He goes home to the "family" and then on weekend or what not he fly's out to spend it with you. And that fact that he is willing to cheat says a lot. I'm sorry but I ... (read in full...)

Mature enough to have sex!

Q.   am 15 and ready to have sex but everyone thinks am too young, i look at porn but it doesnt resolve my cravings, im very mature, i do everything on my on, i really really want have sex because im ready! ive always be over sexual and am on birth ...

A.   7 November 2010: Not to sound like everyone else but I agree you should wait. Atleast until you are in a committed faithful relationship and even then you should wait atleast 6 months. And as for doing it with an older man that's kind of silly. You can still get ... (read in full...)

He's in love with my best friend, but still wants to date me..

Q.   I'm 14 and this guy who wants to date me is 17. I admit I do like him a little. But he also admits he loves my bestfriend, and she loves him back. But, she is with a guy, who the love eachother. I don't wanna date him, cause he's in love with my ...

A.   7 November 2010: You said it yourself. You don't want to date him so why are you still thinking about it? You shouldn't worry about hurting his feelings. Next time it comes up just be honest and tell him exactly what you said on here, that you don't want to date ... (read in full...)

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