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... Send *inchy a private message | | | *inchy's profile:well i am 20 f and i live in scotland but i was born and raised in a small place called bolton.
i came on here as somebody recomended it to me, and i am a regular visitor to it.
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Is he shy, is he gay or just given up on the relationship front?
Q. There's this bloke I really fancy. Seems to know everything about music, and everything else, but talks to me as if I've a brain in my head, he's sweet and the least sexist bloke I've ever met. I've dropped alsorts of hints and I'm sure he fanc...
A. 7 September 2006: hi, its spelt blonde btw.
I think he likes you and you have made it clear you like him too. So go for it!. Tell him how you feel.
If it goes well, try to talk to his kids and then he will see you aren't bothered about him having kids.... (read in full...)
Is there really a chance this long distance relationship could pan out ?
Q. I'm only 16 and i met this boy around 3 months ago. I'd just started hanging around with these people and one day at this barbecue an extra person was there. He wasn't great in attraction but after he spoke to me for over 5 hours, both us and ever...
A. 7 September 2006: well, if he is moving to england in 3 years why dont you say to him that you want to break up till then cause it's upsetting u?!?!?!... (read in full...)
Why is she saying all this stuff when she has a bf?
Q. erm........stuck in between a rock and a hard place again lol got bk of me hol and i was on msn and a girl i have liked was on 2 she said since she has been away she has missd talkin 2 me and that she is sorry 4 all that bad stuff that she said b4 ...
A. 7 September 2006: maybe she just means all that as in a friend way!?!?!
maybe you should ask her what she ment about the email! ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between 3 guys!
Q. I'm torn between 3 guys!!!!! guy # 1: this really perverted but nice guy that goes to my school, we went out once last year....but it didnt really work out, but this time he really actually seems to like me more! and hes actiucaly putting effort i...
A. 7 September 2006: lol i like yos's answer.
anyway, yeh nobody can tell you what guy to go for just go for the one u think you will get along with better.
myself guy 2 seems like a good choice.
but again it is up to you!... (read in full...)
Help! My periods are very heavy!! What can I do to help it ?
Q. I Have a major Period problem. atleast thats what i think. I'm a teen and i started my period 2 and a half years ago, and i suffer so badly when they come they last for 5 days and i spend atleast 10 minutes in the toilet each time. When im ...
A. 30 August 2006: you should just go on the pill i got prescribed microgynon 30 cause i had the exsact same problem... (read in full...)
Any Sheffielders? Say "hi"
Q. Just curious if anyone else is from Sheffield, England? xx...
A. 29 August 2006: lol im from bolton lol. Its near manchester anyway and theres nuffin wrong wie ppl from manchester xD... (read in full...)
Can I be pregnant even though I have 'not' missed a period?
Q. Hey... I was just wondering if it is possible for me to be pregnant even although I haven't missed ah period? Thanks x...
A. 21 August 2006: yes, some people countinue to have periods all the way through there pregnancy ... (read in full...)
Men... Need your views on a third nipple!
Q. Dear cupid, i no this may seem like a very stupid question but i was wonderign if i could get the opinions of some guys. I have a 3rd nipple and i was wondering whether it would put you (a guy)off having sex with me? i would like an ones opinion but ...
A. 20 August 2006: to be honest if a guy dosent like you for who you are then he isnt worth it.... (read in full...)
My daughter, her father and me
Q. well in a few weeks my daughter will be legal 18 that is iam feeling that,that will be the end of my relationship what ever distant with her father. i know that this is my issue and not hers how do i deal with this as she will always be his daug...
A. 15 August 2006: hi, i think that even though she will be turning 18 if she wants to keep in contact with her dad she can if not well she wont. So you are worrried that you and him will drift appart?..i agree with anon, you should ask him to meet up with him once in ... (read in full...)
Is 18 considered late to still be a virgin ?
Q. I'm 18 never had a proper girlfriend and never had a proper kiss with any girl and obviously never had sex. I'm getting fed up of all this pressure to have sex (there was this thing on BBC Radio 1 about sex) and it just brought back all this pre...
A. 15 August 2006: i dont think 18 is late.. im 17 im a virgin and i intend on staying one until i meet the right guy!.. enjoy your life and when you meet the right person its up to you..... (read in full...)
I'm only 14, I'm in a serious relationship, problem is he has kissed girl!!
Q. I am only 14, but i am in a serious realtionship to a guy i lost my virginity to, but yesterday i found out he kissed another girl, but it was in a game of truth or dare, and he is really sorry, i told him to delete their numbers off his phone but ...
A. 9 August 2006: well at 14 you shouldnt be having sex. its illegal. If it was in a game of truth and dare i guess it is alright but i think he should have said i have a gf so no thanks, i dont think you should delete his numbers as that will just drive him away. If ... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant and it might not be his
Q. Im worried about something. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years he has a child from a previous relationship and i no he doesnt want another for a while yet. Im 19 he's 23 im six weeks late and terrified im pregnant whats worst is iv ...
A. 7 August 2006: i dont think an abortion is the way to go but w/e, Tell him the truth about you cheating and see what happens you never know he might have a change of heart and if it is his he might help you bring up the baby.... (read in full...)
Sexual experiences wanted...or rather info on them!
Q. Im concidering having sex. Is there any girls out there who can give me as much information on the pill as possible from experience?...
A. 7 August 2006: If he as another gf he obvioulsly doesnt respect you, u dont think you should have sex with him.. but in the end it is your choice.... (read in full...)
Scared to have sex since I lost my baby
Q. 5-6years ago i fell preganent. And i lost my baby at 7-8 months. I've been with me man for 4 years. I'm so scared to have sex. I think about making love every day. But i'm to scared. How can i not be scared???? ...
A. 1 August 2006: were you seven to eight months pregnant.. so it was still born? my brother and sister both died from stillbirth, my brother died 18 years ago and my sister last year. i dont think this is the website for you.. my mum is a member of sands ... (read in full...)
I lied and told my girl I was 20, so she wouldn't think me too old. But I'm 24!
Q. I lied about my age because my girlfriend might think I was too old for her. I met this girl 2 months ago and she told me she was 15 just a couple weeks ago. I wasn't sure what to do because I told her I was 20. She's 16 later this year but the ...
A. 31 July 2006: Tell her the truth, that way she knows you love her and want to be with her despite the age differance.
i am worried a bit about the age differance though i think you should talk to her about it and decide what is best, (if you should both date... (read in full...)
Too young to be in a committed relationship - I want to play the field
Q. I have been in a steady relationship for almost a year now, although I think I am too young! I am only seventeen and want to go out with my friends an have a good time. I really like another person and I know he likes me and I don't know what to do ...
A. 31 July 2006: I dont personally think you are too young if you really like the person, although i am worried that you dont really like this person you are seeing.
You say you are attracted to this other guy but think to yourself are you willing to give up a heal... (read in full...)
I'm having periods but I'm worried that I'm pregnant
Q. iv just turned 14 but wen i was 13 i went out with this boy and i had unprotected sex with him at least 4 times and he came inside me cos he assumed i was on the pill but i wasnt i cant remember this was about 3/4 months ago i am getting periods ...
A. 29 July 2006: some of the things you have said are wrong maxsteel. You can get your periods whilst pregnant and also i am nrly 17 and i have been on the pill since i was 16 so they do hand it out. but if you think your pregnant georgina get a friend to... (read in full...)
Im pretty shy around women, and know how to tell if they fancy me or are flirting ?
Q. Hi. I am a 20 year old male and resides in the UK and i am having trouble with the opposite sex. I have never had any females friends, let alone girlfriends and i feel left out when my friends go out together with their girlfriends. I am a very sh...
A. 29 July 2006: There are not always signs when a woman fancies you. But if she smiles alot , always seems to catch your eye and touches you on your arms etc that usualy means she is intrested. If you think someone likes you make a move but only if you are sure... (read in full...)
My daughter wont talk to her father after his affair, but I want her to talk to him, how should I tackle this ?
Q. hi there please help how can i get my daughter to commuinicate with her father.? she has refused to talk to him since she was made a part of his affair againsnt me (he took her along with him while he had his last affair on me) she now feels she ow...
A. 29 July 2006: i think the best thing to do is let her decide, i am 17 and i dont talk to my dad. He is a bully and an alcoholic. I already decided years ago when me and my mum moved away i would have nothing to do with him and i have. If one day i do need him i ... (read in full...)
A teacher is letting me get away with a lot of offenses. He winks and stares at me and I'm getting freaked!
Q. I am very confused by the behaviour of one of my teachers towards me. He is a very strict teacher who never smiles and always seems annoyed and a lot of people find him scary. The problem is he behaves completely differently towards me. His face lig...
A. 26 July 2006: I believe there is something not right here. you should tell your parents about this. and also tell a member off staff like your guidance teacher. He shouldnt be staring at you and treating you differantly. tell someone.... (read in full...)
I feel left out, everyone else has boyfriends except me!!
Q. Im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend. All my friends have and i feel really embarrassed. When i see them hugging or kissing their boyfriends i feel sad and lonely. How can i get a boyfriend? Im not a slut, it just i feel left out. Plese help!...
A. 25 July 2006: You don't really need a boyfriend because your friends have one, you should wait until you find a guy you care about and know and trust. You should enjoy being single in the meantime and have fun with your palz. xx
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I don't really fancy the guy I was snogging, but I hate to hurt his feelings!
Q. I'm one of the uncool girls in my school and recently we went on an end of school trip to an activity place, where we stayed for the week. There, one of the popular lads in my year asked me out, and because I've never had a boyfriend before, I got ...
A. 25 July 2006: Hey chick.
just say to him that you are not looking for a relationship at the moment i know it might be a little white lie but its a way of telling him without hurting his feelings. xx... (read in full...)
I dont know why hes not going near me all of a sudden ?
Q. Dear Cupid, I was going out with a really nice guy for a couple of months. We were getting on great together and were in love. Suddenly he never talks to me and never goes near me. I try and ask him why is he not talking to me but he always walks aw...
A. 22 July 2006: the same thing is happening to me and i dont know whe he is doing it either ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin, started my periods about a year ago but haven't had one for 6 weeks! What's going on?!
Q. Hi, I started my period about a year ago (not even that) and i havent had one for about a month and 2 weeks now! I am getting worried, whats goin on? I am a virgin, never done anything with a boy, not even kissed one! so whats goin on? is this ...
A. 17 July 2006: there is nothing wrong with you. your periods will just be irregular. i missed a period for 4 months (heaven lol) and im still a virgin so i went to the doctors and he assured me nothing was wrong that i should just go on the pill because it will ... (read in full...)
When I meet a girl I want to wait until we have sex, what's wrong?
Q. Hi I was hoping to get some advice from females but males welcome too! I seem to have this reoccuring problem when dating girls, basically I am not interested in having sex on a first date, and probably not until I have really got to know ...
A. 14 July 2006: I wouldnt say this makes you gay or make you seem like you have issues. I think that sex is taken to lightly you should indeed wait till you know the person and at least care about them. xx... (read in full...)
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