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writes: Hi. I am a 20 year old male and resides in the UK and i am having trouble with the opposite sex.I have never had any females friends, let alone girlfriends and i feel left out when my friends go out together with their girlfriends.I am a very shy guy and i can't spot signs of when a girl is flirting with me/ fancies me.I find it easy talking to a girl i don't fancy but its so hard talking to one i do.My question is what are the signs of when a girl fancies me and what shall i do?
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reader, oldromantic +, writes (30 July 2006):
oldromantic is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for everybodys help. I have the following situations:
situation 1.There was this girl at school who i really fancied and my friends both said she thought i was great but i was too nervous and scared to ask her out til 2 weeks ago when i rang her up and she was very nervous to talk to me and just wondered where i got her number from and all i can say is i gave her my number but she does have a boyfriend now (damnit)
situation 2. a girl called kate from work, who i do like, gave me over a second look and when i looked at her she looked away instantly but i dunno if she fancies me or not cos i am shy to talk to her and she is very pretty (looks like joss stone) but time will tell
(kate is my age btw) and last but not least situation 3. A girl called sammy, who is 17, whom i also like is very shy and when i try talking to her her voice is very slurred and she can't look at me and when i go anywhere near me she walks away nervously straight away. there you have it. what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006): well girls liek to approach guys who react back to them. If you get so nervous that you put off the appearance that you are ignoring/avoiding/not talking to her then she will quit playing the flirting game with you. Other wise if a girl is blantantly flirting she will make eye contact, smile ( a lot!) laugh, perhaps fiddle with something in her hands or her hair, probably touch your arm or ask you questions about yourself. It is difficult to determine sometimes though which girls are just nice to everyone and are very social and which ones are actually really interested in you. Also lots of girls stand around waiting for the guy to approach them first although that is being reversed in modern day society. It doesnt hurt to get yourself out there to coffee shops or a concert or the book store or a bar those nights when your buddies leave you for other girls. You can be proactive about it as well. Or, join a club or take a class with others that have your interests and you might find someone throught htat too while learning things yourself. If you get totally desperate- then just go on a big date with a whole bunch of your guys girlfriends and guy friends- if anything they might know someone or set you up with someone or have some networking skills to help you out. Hope this helps and keep an open mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006): A girl really fancies you when she goes mega talkative, trying to impress you or when she does the complete opposite and can hardly look at you becuse she keeps blushing nd smiling.
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reader, finchy  +, writes (29 July 2006):
 There are not always signs when a woman fancies you. But if she smiles alot , always seems to catch your eye and touches you on your arms etc that usualy means she is intrested. If you think someone likes you make a move but only if you are sure. XxX
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