I've been without my ex for almost as long as I was with her. Why do I still think about her?
Q. I went through a break up just under four months ago with a girl at university. I was in my final year, she in her first. As much as we were in love and our relationship was intense, it only lasted four months. Our break up was circumstantial in ...
A. 14 June 2011: Maybe you should occupy the space she had in your life by keeping busy with stuff like personal improvement activities ie going to the gym,take a cooking or dancing class,do volunteer work,go out n talk to other chicks-and this is a big one..not ... (read in full...)
Why did he lie to me about breaking up with her?
Q. I've been talking to this guy for like eight months. He has had a girlfriend for the whole time at first we weer just friends but then we started hanging out and flirting.he kept telling me that hé was going to break up with her. A little whilee ago ...
A. 14 June 2011: Telling you what you 'wanted' to hear increased the likelihood of him getting into your pants,no more no less... (read in full...)
Should I get married?
Q. This is going to sound ridiculous, some of you will probably ask why I am even thinking about doing it if I have doubts. I used to think exactly the same. The thing is, I feel like I have so much to loose if I don't; I get on great with his fami...
A. 14 June 2011: You clearly know the answer to this,what i dont know is why youre looking for validation. Marriage is serious business,so regardless of how much money was spent in preparation,no matter how much you dont want to hurt him,no matter how 'friendly' he ... (read in full...)
How can I solve this situation with my wife without it ending up in divorce?
Q. The wife has been getting a bit crabby lately because of her work schedule. She's a tour guide and they are paying her less money now for the same number of hours. She's picking on me every spare minute she can: i'm sick at the moment with the flu ...
A. 13 June 2011: Sure no problem... (read in full...)
Girlfriend claims she got an STD from a towel or mat from her yoga class!! Is that really possible or is it more likely that she cheated on me?
Q. My girlfriend had a vaginal discharge for some time which worried her greatly. She was worried she had some sort of cancer. We had not been sexually active in quite some time (more than a year). She went to the doctor and she diagnosed her with tri...
A. 13 June 2011: Seems possible...but highly unlikely...i think she dogged on you,and worse still without protection. But dont go all acusatory afterall you say the two of you havent been active for a while, just keep your eyes open for red flags,perhaps she had a ... (read in full...)
How can I solve this situation with my wife without it ending up in divorce?
Q. The wife has been getting a bit crabby lately because of her work schedule. She's a tour guide and they are paying her less money now for the same number of hours. She's picking on me every spare minute she can: i'm sick at the moment with the flu ...
A. 12 June 2011: Her behaviour towards you seem to indicate that there are major underlying issues in your relationship,most of which you seem to be unaware of and not the work aspect or pressures you both are facing. Ill be blunt and say maybe she is so cranky alot ... (read in full...)
Was he asking to be friendly or was he jealous?
Q. This guy i like asked me who my uncle and my uncle's friend were when he saw me out with them ( my uncle's friend is male too ). Do you think he was asking because he thought i was going out with one of them, and he was possibly jealous, or do you ...
A. 12 June 2011: Yep i think he is still into you,to what extent i dont know..... (read in full...)
Wife cries out alot during sex. Am I hurting her?
Q. I am 39 year old man. Happily married for 12 years. We are having very good life. We are having great sex life. Atleast thrice a week. My wife cries a lot during the intercourse. After that, she does not remember anything and she is telling ...
A. 12 June 2011: Dude everything is fine,your having great sex with her n thats just her way of expressing how much she likes it,you couldnt imagine how many men would crave n even get turned on by their woman screaming like a mad woman...so just relax n enjoy,its ... (read in full...)
Partner says my butt is too small!
Q. My partner keeps saying my butt is too small and that I need to eat more to make it bigger. However, a few years ago before we got together and were just mates, he once let slip that his ex had the best butt in the world. Now I'm getting anno...
A. 11 June 2011: i agree with cerberus on this,if he isnt making you feel good n +ve about your being in a rltshp with him,over time it will break down,you know women are experts at overlooking mens flaws after being with them a while to the point complacency kicks ... (read in full...)
My mom says I have to pick either her or my ex
Q. My ex and I broke up while I was 3months pregnant mainly because he did not have a job and my mom and him did not like each other even before I got pregnant. I have always loved him and wish I could be back with him and have a family. He now has ...
A. 11 June 2011: First of all you need to tell your mum that 'YOU REFUSE' to pick between her and your guy coz despite her being there for you...bless her soul,what she is doing now is using instruments of manipulation..the bad kind to get you to comply with her,and ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned that fiance may not be strongly attracted to me
Q. I'm engaged to be married in a couple months, but I'm concerned that my fiance might not be strongly attracted to me sexually. When I've asked her, she says she is very attracted to me, but she only wants sex 1-2 times per week (she's mid 30s, ...
A. 11 June 2011: Sorry about what youre going through,it seems you really love this girl,from my past relationships ive learnt to never ask my partner if she is still attractd to me,if she still loves me,ive learnt not to expose my weaknesses to her coz,i cant ... (read in full...)
I bruise really easily and people think I'm being abused!
Q. Hey, I do martial arts training and I'm the dojo's assistant. I've recently become good enough to be used to demonstrate techniques, and although I land safe enough I always end up with bruises in very difficult to conceal places. I use...
A. 11 June 2011: Thats prett cool..the karate n all,any way you are doing something that you are passionate about,id bring them along one day to a practice session n let them see you in action,it should change their opinion... (read in full...)
We keep our social lives separate, is this normal?
Q. I live with my boyfriend (lived together for 3 years, dated for 7.5 years) and we spend a lot of time together. In fact, we're probably only apart when we work and when I go for yoga. We don't really have any friends here (we're only here ...
A. 11 June 2011: It doesnt seem normal..but whatever works for you. for me id prefer to include my partner in other areas of my life,not necessarily always...and vice versa to help with our bond and to make each feel involved,but as i said whatever works for you,all ... (read in full...)
She left me for another guy, we got back together but couldn't make it work.
Q. Ok so this isn't much of a question but more of a way to vent and hopefully some of you will give me a word of advice or encouragement. I recently broke up with my ex and this time I don't want to go back. What happened is we had a good relationship ...
A. 11 June 2011: You made the right decision by you and the hardest part normaly is the emotional highs n lows that follow such a choice. You were loyal but she decided to risk it all for moments of pleasure and the hope that it would lead to more with this other ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up with me after he slept with someone else...and said I have a heart of stone! Do I?
Q. Hello Everyone, My friend has let me borrow her account for this problem, I'm 19 not 15. I am at university working towards my degree, and I have had a boyfriend for about six months - he is my first - in my opinion six months isn't that long ...
A. 10 June 2011: I absolutely applaud your actions,you are totaly in the right,stood by your principles and drew out his real agenda towards you,youve seen his true character and now you have a choice to make as to whether he deserves more of your time or just move ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is avoiding me, what should I do now?
Q. dear all , i need you help here ,,, my story like Romeo and Juliet. Im 30 and my girlfriend is 24 and we have been together for neary 4 years. she live in Indonesia and i live in another country, we deal to married but because the rules of the...
A. 10 June 2011: your actions currently are suffocating and pressurising her,how? well the overt gestures of supplication,being excessively nice buying her flowers constantly and sending all forms of sweet messages,being excessively available and that sort of thng ... (read in full...)
Did my wife have sex with her lover during her affair?
Q. Me and my wife are married for 3 years we have a son together. Recently we've been having alot of arguments and i could't take it so i moved out. during that month my wife met a guy from her new work place and they started talking a lot. my wife and ...
A. 9 June 2011: Dude i think she is totaly playing you for a fool,she wants to have her cake n eat it too,shes walking all over you,youre tolerating substandard behavior..not good! find a good wooden floor,use it n put your foot down. You share a kid n it seems you ... (read in full...)
Are my feelings justifiable? Or am I just scared of comittment?
Q. So I have been in a long distance relationship(which is how we met) for three years and I'm starting to have doubts. I feel in a lot of ways like I'm missing out on the relationship that i want. He is a lot different then i but we also have a lot ...
A. 9 June 2011: Not letting him know how you truly feel now for fear of hurting him and losing his friendship is selfish and bound to hurt him more much later,you cant imagine how many times id wished a chick had let me know how she felt only to find out later what ... (read in full...)
Can your movements be tracked by your mobile phone, and how is it done?
Q. This issue has been playing on my mind..... The question is.... Can your movements be tracked by your mobile phone. And how is it done. Can you tell if your has been tracked. I think am sounding a bit paranoid here. But a friend recently that her...
A. 9 June 2011: Unless you have something to hide, i see no reason to worry.But to answer your question yes i 'think' its possible depending on ones ability to access info from your service provider bearing in mind such info isnt open to scrutiny by any1 from the ... (read in full...)
How do I flirt with a very reserved man?
Q. Hi everyone ,can anyone give me some tips how to flirt with a very reserved man online ,also how can i tell if he likes me .He said i was a very nice person and i look good ,he asked me if i'm ok with emailing ,so i said yes ,he asks this question a ...
A. 8 June 2011: he is probably very shy...n might need a friendly little nudge just to get things rolling so take initiative n see how it goes, good luck... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to get a mistress to do the sexual things that I can't do!
Q. My boyfriend wants me to squirt or give him a golden shower, but despite my best efforts I can't do either. He now wants to get a 'mistress' that can do these things. I know what ur all thinking 'get rid of him and find someone that loves me etc' ...
A. 8 June 2011: You seem to be a pretty ok chick,but you also seem to have deep rooted insecurities n issues which make you highly dependent on your man n blinding you to some of his faults and even red flags. To the issue here,i think its up to him to make you ... (read in full...)
I found some texts to his ex that have made me worried...what should I do?
Q. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. When we got together his ex fiancé was pregnant with his child, she kicked him out not long after she found out. Recently they have been getting on better, for their daughters sake. I don’t k...
A. 7 June 2011: He clearly has baggage,both emotional in that he still seems to have feelings for his ex and physical attachments to the ex in that they share a child together,ive learnt to trust my gut as it rearly leads me astray as you have seen in your ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend troubles.........
Q. So I'm with my girlfriend for the second time after a break. But it turns out the first time at a party we went to , together, she kissed and tossed someone else off. I left earlier then her as I was up early the next morning. But months after ...
A. 7 June 2011: Dude this girl clearly doesnt respect you or feel anything for you...she has cheated on you,broken up,shes later back n u just accept her...man she is walking all over you and until you stand up for yourself,set and follow through on standards you ... (read in full...)
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