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writes:What did this mean...? Right well background information - there's a guy that me and my mates always thought liked me because he stared at me a lot and he really showed it, then when asked about it by someone he denyed it but the way he said it seemed very weird, since then hes liked someone else in the class who seemed to like him back so he went for it and asked her out and then she told him she was only in it for the chase and it wouldn't work. All throughout this he's still stared at me abit but even more these past few months. he also seems to have some problem with talking to me and won't really mess about with me don't know why. It can't be because he knows i like him because he knows a lot of people like him and he aint any diferent with them.Anyway we was at this party and yeah we were drinking but he wasn't that drunk he knew exactly what he was doing and saying and he was watching my best mate play on a game and he just started rambling on about stuff (like this girl in our class thats made my life hell, he said how she'll never learn to grow up) and then he just went on and said "(my name)'s nice but it'll never happen. You know.."What did that mean normally I'd just think he;s saying it'll never happen but its the "you know..." bit at the end. Seems to me abit like soemthing was going through his mind. What do you think it seems abit weird.
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reader, DLover  +, writes (29 March 2009):
I'm a guy and "(my name)'s nice but it'll never happen. You know.." makes me think it could be 1 out of 2 things:
1) I really love her, but there is no way I can get a date such a smart and gorgeous woman
2) I really like a lot of things in her, but there is one or two things that make it 100% impossible to get together: I don't think she would ever cross the friend zone, she doesn't look single, she's a religious fanatic and I'm not...
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (29 March 2009):
i dont think the guy really knows what he wants and when he was saying what he said i dont think his head was in the right place. hes unsure and doesnt know how to come across, i dont think he really knows what he wants so let him get on with it, its pointless trying to read someone who doesnt yet know what he wants. you cannot second guess someobody and to be honest if he did like you he would of said so by now and done something about it, he doesnt come across as the shy type. the you know but was him trying to connect with you in some way maybe him hoping you had feelings for him? i dont think youll ever know what he really meant, my advice move on from him and find some stability an security this guy is offering you nither.
good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): he thinks you're nice but he'll never go out with you is what he said. you probably want to stop all the wishful thinking and find a new crush that returns your affections.
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