Should I still remain in a marriage that I am in, just for the satisfaction of my family?
Q. I have been married for 18 years and we have 3 teenagers. I have only been "content" in my marriage, not really happy. I have been friends with a another man for about 7 years. He was in a bad marriage and is now going through a divorce. Seven ...
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Hi Andi. I might get hammered on this one. But, what the hey. I cannot help but feel sad for your husband and children. I feel he (at least, depending on the ages of your children) deserves to know the biggest reason in ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, he's 27. I'm falling for him, but know it can't happen. Any opinions?
Q. Well this is the first time I seek help on anything of this such, however I do believe it needs to be done. As the story goes: I am a 17 year old female, soon to be 18 this September. As far as my dating history goes I have always been the younger ...
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Hi my young friend. Yes, you do appear to be quite mature for your age. First of all, I pray that this guy is not married. You stated that, "I know it can never happen, and I know he's feeling the same way." There was a ... (read in full...)
My husband and stepson have physically abused me. I want to leave, but fear hurting the children we have together. And where would I stand financially?
Q. I have been married for 17rs and have suffered some physical abuse from my husband and from my stepson, whom my husband stuck up for. We no longer have any common interests and i need the courage to leave but am frightened to lose everything. We ...
A. 6 January 2007: HERE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Totally Unexceptable! Where the heck is my shoe??!! First of all honey, I applaud you for being so brave as to come on this site for advise for this particular matter. You will probably get lots of comments. I, for one, ... (read in full...)
We only have sex once a week he stares at porn the rest of the time!
Q. My significant other watches a lot of porn and we have sex about once a week. I want to be with him more. I feel like hes cheating on me because he is fantisizing about other woman. I feel very low and disgusting although I have very men hit on me ...
A. 6 January 2007: HERE ARE MY THOUGHTS: First of all, your feelings are REAL, whether or not people agree with what you believe or not. You stated that YOU FEEL that it is a form of cheating. Therefore, in your point of view, he's cheating. Now, you have a ... (read in full...)
Snooped a look at my hubby's emails and didn't like the flirty messages I found!
Q. My husband left for a 3 day business trip a couple days ago. He was in a hurry to leave and forgot to log off his work email. I sat down at the computer and there it was. My curiosity got the better of me and I peeked. I found that he recently ...
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Well, I guess that I am from the "old school" of reasoning. I do not feel that you have done anything wrong by viewing what was on his computer. Besides, it was the reason as to WHY he was running late for his business trip ... (read in full...)
Someone in my family is watching animal porn. Is there something wrong with him?
Q. Should I be concerned if someone in my family is watching animal porn? Is there something wrong with him or is there a reason why they like to watch that? It makes me feel sick about it, but i'm not sure what i'm supposed to think about that. ...
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Run Forest, run! Steer clear dear. There is a reason why he is watching animals and humans as oppose to humans and humans. I wouldn't hang around to understand why either!... (read in full...)
Got pregnant. Going to terminate. Should I tell him I had an abortion while he's on holiday... or wait until he returns?
Q. I have just find out I am pregnant. My boyfriend is away on holiday on the other side of the world for another month and I am going to terminate the pregnancy, which I am happy to do. I was wondering whether I should tell him while he is on holiday, ...
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Oh dear. This is gigantic. Please, do not do something you might regret for the rest of your life. PLEASE PLEASE, talk to your mate. After all, you didn't get pregnant by yourself, you had his help. Get his thoughts and ... (read in full...)
I don't want her back, but is there is a way of putting it so she will still sleep with me?
Q. Ok Got a Problem. my Ex girfiend txt's me yeserday and ask's me if i'm really over and she think's i don't love her anymore. i told her i still care and love her. but i'm well over her. she tell's me she's horny like mad now. so i offer n...
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Where the heck is my shoe?? Is this for real? Ya know what? YOU are not over her. Trust me. If it is over why the heck are worried about her sleeping with other people and giving them the wrong idea? Why should you care? ... (read in full...)
Have been unable to lose my virginity to my husband...
Q. I've been married for a few months now and I can't lose my virginity I feel like it is something so traumatic that I cry. And I love my husband very much please help....
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: This question is a bit confusing. I believe that you already have lost your virginity, but not yet had an orgasm. Losing your virginity hurts like hell (for a female). That's a part of life. Now, on the other hand, an ... (read in full...)
I have Dd boobs and I hate that guys like them more than ME! What can I do?
Q. i have DD boobs and yeh ok i don't mind but it makes having a bf really difficult. Boys say they like me gain my trust end up having more of a relationship with my boobs then me and then finish me, i want more then this. im not confident at all but ...
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Honey, your double d's are a part of you keep that in mind. I can't say that I know how you feel because I'm sportin some hellified C-'s...haha. Just look at it this way...if guys were to sport their "packages" outside of ... (read in full...)
After 5 years I am still completely crazy about him. Do I ust forget him?
Q. With pain and in tears I'm writing this, feeling like my world has been torn to pieces. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We are both young (20 and 21), probably too youngh but it did work out well, we both love each other deeply and we ...
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Oh angel. The only one thing this guys stated to you that is absolutely true is the fact that you are "long term" material. You are, in fact, such a gem to keep. Long term. And he knows this. Honey, you have a wonderful ... (read in full...)
We've dated a few times and he's telling me to change my hair! Should I be wary and do I need to change for him?
Q. Iv been seeing this man a few times and we get on really well,he told me that he found me very attractive and intelligent.Now my problem is this,a couple of times he has said that i would look better without my fringe and to cut my hair shorter and ...
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Sweetie, you are fine just the way you are. What the heck attracted him to you in the first place? EXACTLY! Some men tend to appear to be secure with themselves when they are really not. Maybe, just maybe, he wants to ... (read in full...)
Why do they always shoot their load so soon? Is it me?
Q. Why is it that everytime i have sex with a man they always ejaculate too quickly? Is it me or what? Im getting rather frustrated over this....
A. 6 January 2007: THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Honey, please consider yourself lucky. Apparently, you ARE the reason why. The reason why is because you are getting them so excited that when "the time" comes, they cannot control themselves and they "explode". Good for ... (read in full...)
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