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30 December 2012: “How do you know someone is right for you”? If most of us knew how to answer this question, you would tend to think there would be less questions posted to this site. Answering this question successfully does depend on a large degree of self-a...
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Boyfriend is getting paranoid and insecure since our relationship became long distance. What can I do?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for six years since high school. We went to the same uni, however I'm a med student so I'm doing my placement near my uni (Cambridge), my boyfriend has graduated already and he's back in London, we're finding it difficult ...
A. 26 December 2012: Your welcome :) if thats how your feeling then maybe it is. Your starting a whole new life, sometimes when things like this happen relationships die a natural death, sadly. Have your feelings for him changed as well?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is getting paranoid and insecure since our relationship became long distance. What can I do?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for six years since high school. We went to the same uni, however I'm a med student so I'm doing my placement near my uni (Cambridge), my boyfriend has graduated already and he's back in London, we're finding it difficult ...
A. 23 December 2012: Well I think you have obviously been together a long time, we can therefore safely presume that your relationship has been a constant throughout that period and now that constant has been disrupted by quite a sudden and dramatic change. Its not ... (read in full...)
Some things best left unsaid?
Q. I’ve posted a couple of questions in the past couple of weeks regarding my unresolved feelings for an ex-girlfriend of a friend of mine. As the previous questions mentioned, she ended up becoming a really good friend in her own right and helped me ...
A. 23 December 2012: Id tell her in this situation with the slight caveat that it is impossible to predict how she will react. The reason I think you should tell her is that the guilt is the last hook of an attachment that you have to her. While its still there you run ... (read in full...)
I broke up with her but now I don't feel right without her. I'm confused about my feelings. What should I do?
Q. i am sooo confused My gf and I went out for about 1 month and i broke up with her, as i didnt feel it was the right time. When I was with her i wasn't that bothered but when i'm not with her i really want her. I really have no idea what to do, ple...
A. 22 December 2012: The short answer to what to do is you have to make up your mind. Why did it not feel like the right time? I cant help you being 'not bothered' was a defence mechanism, you stopped yourself getting too close to protect yourself from being hurt and ... (read in full...)
I've had an epiphany regarding my past and present relationships and am wondering if anyone else has ever experienced this.
Q. I have been thinking a lot about my past and present relationships recently because I've noticed that I tend to stay with people for far longer than I sometimes should. I know it's not that I'm afraid to be alone, because I have been happily single ...
A. 21 December 2012: You dont have alot of confidence but you seem to have enough to be happily single and openly competitive with your partners. You seem a wee bit possessive of your partners affections even when they are ex's too which is possibly a symptom of low ... (read in full...)
How can I win him back?
Q. Ok me and my bf were the cutest couple. But one time a got a message from his ex saying I am away on holiday would she like to meet up etc. I was furious. I ended up forgiving him after his begging. We went back to normal. My ex was tryi...
A. 20 December 2012: In that case Kirsty, I stand by the end of my last remarks, everything about this situation is screaming this is bad for you. That you are like the proverbial moth to a flame here and that maybe you dont think you deserve better, you probably dont ... (read in full...)
I can't get past the fact that my husband had lap dances from strippers before we were married.
Q. I have known my husband for abt 10 yrs now, married for 6 and we both are very happy, committed and loving to each other, expecting our first baby now. But just the other day, I was talking of pregnancy stretch marks and he goes - dont worry ho...
A. 20 December 2012: It is a very intimate, personal, sexual act but then again so is having sex, something you freely admit to doing during this time frame yourself. I hope you can appreciate the fact that there is some irony here in what your saying. If he was ... (read in full...)
How can I win him back?
Q. Ok me and my bf were the cutest couple. But one time a got a message from his ex saying I am away on holiday would she like to meet up etc. I was furious. I ended up forgiving him after his begging. We went back to normal. My ex was tryi...
A. 20 December 2012: Ok, well that sheds a slightly different light on things, he sent them or she sent them to him? If they were from him to her I dont blame you for blowing up, you had every right too, sorry for my earlier comments. Still, now I think this is ... (read in full...)
How can I win him back?
Q. Ok me and my bf were the cutest couple. But one time a got a message from his ex saying I am away on holiday would she like to meet up etc. I was furious. I ended up forgiving him after his begging. We went back to normal. My ex was tryi...
A. 20 December 2012: He told you what the problem was. He hasnt forgiven you for dumping him. I cant help feeling there is alot missing from this. You had a go at him for a pretty innocuous text message asking if hed like to meet up then went and saw your ex behind his ... (read in full...)
I can't stop making out with my colleagues!
Q. I am 27 married 7 years and have a child! I haven't been happy for a very long time but kept in marriage for security and for child sake! Recently at a Xmas do, I got very drunk and made out with s work colleague! I then went home and brought home ...
A. 20 December 2012: Your 'head-fucked' because your caught between a rock and a hard place. On the one hand, your miserable in your marriage, on the other hand your too scared of the consequences of leaving to do anything meaningful about it, ie, except the marriage is ... (read in full...)
After a week on talking online he says he loves me and wants to marry me?
Q. I recently placed a personal ad saying i m looking for a mate, I had over 20 response , most of the guys were playing or seeking sex so I finally came across a guy who sound great anyways we chated though email then he gave me his number , we ...
A. 18 December 2012: What he is saying can sound intimidating and it is. However, I think what often happens here is that people fall in love with an idea. Because you haven't met, he can project onto you all his hopes dreams and wants and these can remain relatively ... (read in full...)
I agreed to FWB, but now I'm not so sure!
Q. 10 months ago my friend gave her friend from college my number, we got talking and arranged to meet up (me, him, my friend and her boyfriend) and go on a day out. My friend told me that he liked me however I didn't feel the same and somehow we ...
A. 18 December 2012: Dont do it. Your already invested in this guy enough to be jealous and FWB only works if there is total detachment and even then it usually ends up with one party getting attached. You said yes because you want to please him and think thats the way ... (read in full...)
I can't stop making out with my colleagues!
Q. I am 27 married 7 years and have a child! I haven't been happy for a very long time but kept in marriage for security and for child sake! Recently at a Xmas do, I got very drunk and made out with s work colleague! I then went home and brought home ...
A. 17 December 2012: I think you need to start from the top. Why are you unhappy in your marriage? From what your saying here, I mean in regards to enjoying the attention id summise you feeling your not getting the attention you need from your husband, your therefore ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend that a guy only dated her for a bet?
Q. A few days ago I found out my best friend was a victim of a bet. She dated a friend (let's call him X) of our very good guy friend for like two weeks and then he left her saying he has to focus on school, bla bla, some lame excuse like that. She ...
A. 17 December 2012: Yes it will hurt her but your missing the third scenario which is she finds out about the bet then finds out you knew which will not only totally destroy her self-esteem but destroy your friendship probably. You say the chances of her finding out ... (read in full...)
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