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Miss.M-P

Been through more problems than I should have at this young age.

In a relationship. (1 year and 11 months)

I've had a pretty crap life and I know what pain feels like so I want to make a difference.

Am I Just Going Through Baby Fever? Any thoughts ?

Q.   Hey everyone! I didn't know where else to get advice and you all always help me through everytime so I'm going to give it a whirl again. I am 20 years old going to be 21 in 3 months and I think I am going through baby fever! Everyone is havin...

A.   13 January 2013: I can't tell you to settle down and then try for a baby but I have to tell you that you should sort out some personal issues first. Go to the doctors and tell her about the herpes if you haven't already. Go jogging or buy something like Wii fit or ... (read in full...)

My sister is verbally and mentally abusive to her children. What can I do?

Q.   I have an older sister that emotionally, verbally, and mentally abuses my 13 year old niece and 15 year old nephew. Every day she calls my niece all kinds of nasty names and calls my nephew everything but a child. She mocks their looks, tells them...

A.   3 January 2013: This is a form of child abuse! Document everything she says it even buy a voice recorder. You need to involve social services or what ever child protection you have in the US. I know it will feel like.betraying your sister but these children will... (read in full...)

Enough is enough! His alcoholism has resulted in him threatening me and make me feel insecure. What can I do and where can I seek help?

Q.   I have been married for 13 yrs, my husband had been drinking since I met him it didn't use to bother me at first. This is because he will act nice and become nicer later. But lately he had become aggressive. Everytime he drinks he will start acti...

A.   27 December 2012: I have a lot of experience with alcoholics and situations involving children. Could you message me?... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's mother has died and now she is pushing me away, what should I do?

Q.   My girlfriends mother has passed away on tuesday,so she had to go back to where she comes from,I could not go with her because her family doesn't really like me,so now I'm consolling her via texting and calling but she just keeps pushin me away and ...

A.   20 December 2012: My mother died when I was 16 and I needed weeks before I could talk to my partner. Give her time. It's very raw still. ... (read in full...)

She cheated. I don't want to lose her, but at the same time I think I should leave. What should I do?

Q.   ive been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years. we live together, we're not married and have one child(10 months) together, and two more that she had in a previous relationship(8 and 4), that i now care for. i fell out of love with her a while ...

A.   18 December 2012: I don't know if I'm just miss reading it but if you've been with her for 5 years yet she has a 4 year old from a previous relationship, does this mean she cheated on you? Anways, I think It's best if you move on. There might be too much water u... (read in full...)

I had a vasectomy 4 years ago...so why was my wife was taking birth control pills?

Q.   Quick question for any women out there. I am married for 12 years, 3 kids, no "issues" per se. I’m a good dad, provider, etc. My wife is a good mom, hard worker and loves me. We went through a period though about 2-3 years ago for around 12 ...

A.   14 December 2012: I do take the pill mainly for my periods. For some women it does help. ... (read in full...)

How do I create a good impression when I meet family of my boyfriend next week?

Q.   OKAY Development: my bf's brother invited me round next week after 5 months and I want to make a good impression and look good. Do you have any amazing tips other than 'being myself' he is still very embarrassed and I am terrified. My bf's b...

A.   8 December 2012: I'm not sure why you're so worried. Will you be meeting his parents? More info would help me help you. ... (read in full...)

LDR of 3 years--she sent me fake photos of herself from porn sites! Why did she lie to me?

Q.   I feel like such an idiot. I've been in a long distance relationship for more than three years. I'm in the UK and she's in Australia. We met on the internet, but quickly moved on to talking on the phone, and we'd talk for hours every day. For v...

A.   8 December 2012: I've been there darling. It's hard because you'e wasted 3 years on a lie. Let's suppose it a lie of course. I think it's best to move on sweety. It's been 3 years and there's no meeting each-other and the fact she's being ignorant is ... (read in full...)

I'm a nice guy is that why I get friendzoned?

Q.   I'm what you could call a nice guy. I hold doors open for girls, always treat them with the respect they deserve, and my friends that are girls say that I'm sweet, ask why more guys aren't like me, and why I'm not dating anyone. Yet, even when I ...

A.   27 November 2012: Girls your age want the bad boys. HOWEVER... It's not all of them. You're just stuck thinking its because you're nice that you can't get a girlfriend. It's not I'm dating a nice guy and like nice guys more than bad boys. It may be someth... (read in full...)

What am I supose to do here ? Don't want to be a part time girlfriend.

Q.   So im having some problems lately with my boyfriend that have escalated from his new job. Needless to say at the moment i am currently and unfortunatly unemployed something iv never experienced before as ive worked since i was 15. this is a trying...

A.   25 November 2012: I have to disagree with DV1. I think your boyfriend does want to be with you but he has a busy life! HOWEVER, I do think he takes you for granted but possibly doesn't realise it. Have a talk to him calmly. Maybe ask him if he could start lo... (read in full...)

Gained weight since being in a relationship, it affects our sex life, and really want to lose it! Any tips?

Q.   Hey guys, this isn't really a dating question, but it does effect my sex life with my boyfriend. I am currently 180lbs at 5f 6 inches, and this is the heaviest I have ever been! Before I moved in with my boyfriend I was around 140/150 a...

A.   19 November 2012: By any chance did you go on the pill at the start of your relationship?... (read in full...)

GIrls: Do you like hairy guys?

Q.   Hi This question is for mostly for girls. Do you find attractive "hairy men"(hope you understand), who has hair in chest,back and legs,or maybe you will dump them.Also do you think guys with classic beard are attractive, even I think this depen...

A.   15 November 2012: I'm not a fan of chest hair and not back hair. A 'snail trail' is nice. ... (read in full...)

How old were you the first time you had sex? How was it?

Q.   Hello I'm curious to know in what age you had first time sex(intercourse), and how was it?...

A.   14 November 2012: 16. It was great. My first love and we have been together for two years now. :)... (read in full...)

Should I get a second ear piercing?

Q.   i want to get a second ear piercing because i think they are cute and catchy. i just really like them and almost obsessed with them. it's just whenever i want to go and get a second piercing i always wonder if it would ruin my ear, as i've always ...

A.   14 November 2012: I have my second and third done. I love them. I think it gives it a better look. However I wouldn't go past three as I think in my personal opinion, I would look like a tramp. Go for it. You can always let it close up. However, I got my ... (read in full...)

I think my dad is cheating on my mum - what do I do? 

Q.   I apologise for the length, but I am in a rather desperate situation and need help. So a couple of days ago, my 12 year old sister (and I am 16) came bursting into my room saying that she found things on one of the laptops we have. She was cr...

A.   8 September 2012: Why wouldn't she tell her mom guys? Here's the thing.. You say he's a good dad and he may be but that doesn't mean he's being a good husband. The job of father is so different to other parts of his life. Put yourself in your mothers position... (read in full...)

Step-dad is mean:( Please help!!:( 

Q.   My mom has been married to my step-dad for 2 years now. Whenever he gets mad at me my mom takes his side. He also told me to "shut-up" and "that no one including my mom doesn't care for me". He is truly rude and mean to me behind my mother...

A.   29 August 2012: Your life is hardly 'a mess' Just talk to your mam and see how things pan out. If she takes his side it's something you will have to accept and move on from. Talk to your sister and see what her opinions are.... (read in full...)

Does he need time or just being nice?

Q.   He broke up with me in a nice way. I still feel a little confused though. He said he isn't ready for a commitment so thats why he ended things so okay with that but @ the end of the break up email he wrote and I quote- "Hope someone gives you ...

A.   21 August 2012: He's being nice, it's over. Sorry.... (read in full...)

How can I convince my friend with benefits that we should be in a relationship again?

Q.   I dated this guy for a year and a half. We've been through a lot. Then he dated my best friend and it killed me inside a little. After she dumped him I started talking to him again and started being friends. Then we started being Friends with ...

A.   21 August 2012: I think he's being selfish. It seems he enjoy's this FWB thing and plans to keep it that way. I doubt he's considered your feelings or how you will feel. I don't think he really cares. I don't think you can make it work really. If you ... (read in full...)

My kickboxing teacher acts very weird around me. Opinions?

Q.   Okay well I don't want people saying a load of shit. So I go to kickboxing club and I'm a blackbelt. My teacher seems very flirtatious with me...... When we do fitness he seems too be looking at me, sometimes I catch him staring at me , but for ...

A.   21 August 2012: Report him! Something isn't right and he sounds like a bit of a 'sex pest'. If his girlfriend finds rape funny there is really something wrong. Perhaps find a new teacher? It worries me that if he did try something, he is a teach... (read in full...)

Does he love me? Want to dump me? Or just sickly obsessed with me?

Q.   Okay .. This is the first time that I'm doing something like this .. But I need answers .. So my boyfriend and I are now dating for about 8 months and I'm starting to noticethe jealousy . And its becoming more and more by the day hy doesn't want me ...

A.   21 August 2012: He's mental, that's what. You can't stay with him as it's going to end up with you having no life. You'll end up his slave! Please, please don't stay with him. He sounds crazy. If anything, he sounds like he's cheating! Those who do thi... (read in full...)

How can I fix this, we had sex and now she hasn't seen me much!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 2 years. And in that time, we've taken things really slow. Mainly because I'm the first guy she's ever dated. I've never minded the rate at which our relationship has moved because I love being with ...

A.   21 August 2012: I'm not sure why you have left it this long.. You have made it worse. Talk to her and ask her what she thought about it and if there's anything you can do. Explain you don't know why she was upset but you want to know why so you can help her.... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with him before I leave? I'm a virgin.

Q.   So recently I met this guy in Georgia and ever since then him and I have been flirting and making out,and you can say that we are dating. The problem is I'm leaving in a few days and he tells me wants to have sex before I leave. I'm a virgin and I ...

A.   21 August 2012: It's illegal and you'll regret it! Listen to us. A summer fling means nothing. Save it for that one guy. He'll come along one day and you won't need to ask anyone if you should, you'll know. ... (read in full...)

I am a cheater but is that really so bad?

Q.   I am cheating on my GF. should i stop. i cant help it i like the excitement of chasing new women and when i see a beautiful woman im curious how it feels to be with her. but i like having something guaranteed at home. but people make it seem like a ...

A.   21 August 2012: You don't treat her very well! You're cheating on her! You clearly don't deserve someone at home waiting for you. STOP CHEATING. ... (read in full...)

I'm confused, Should I end "us" or not?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 8 month .. But we fight alot and get well at the end of the day but now that i found out naked pics on his yahoo and he didnt tell me and kept them im confused . Is recieving naked pictures from a person he ...

A.   5 August 2012: You're what, 13-15? You shouldn't even have to worry about naked pictures and cheating at that age. Finish him! Enjoy life. You're young and if you waste it on boys who 'cheat' you'll regret it. ... (read in full...)

When will these feelings for my ex go away?

Q.   Why Is this happening to me? I hate my life:(. Mature answers please? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 15 months ago. I loved him so much, I thought we were in love cause of the way he cared about me. All my friends and family thought ...

A.   23 July 2012: The only way I believe to get over him is to meet someone else. I understand it's hard but i'm not sure what else you could do. Enjoy your life! You only have one shot at it. ... (read in full...)

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