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My kickboxing teacher acts very weird around me. Opinions?

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Question - (21 August 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay well I don't want people saying a load of shit.

So I go to kickboxing club and I'm a blackbelt. My teacher seems very flirtatious with me...... When we do fitness he seems too be looking at me, sometimes I catch him staring at me , but for some reason he doesn't look away?

Once I went away for a day With him and a few others from the club to go and see a top fighter. When we Was in the car, I Was looking at my new friend request on facebook, and he goes who's that?! I was like a guy who added me, I don't even know him... After he goes: did you exept the guy, I replied nooo, he goes good and seemed very cheerful that I declined the stranger:/

He also asked me more personal questions like what happened with a boy in my year, nothing did happened but he made it sound like I did something sexual with the boy.

Here's the weired bit:/

But the thing is that he had a girlfriend who is much younger than him and when she is around he doesn't do the thing as much but he would still do some of it, his girlfriend is so annoying and very loud, she also think that rape is funny, seeing as my friend got raped e don't get on:/.The thing is that I wouldn't acted on it as I don't like him like that sooo yeaah opinions?!:)

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A female reader, BondGirl72 United States +, writes (21 August 2012):

BondGirl72 agony auntI guess I do not know what you consider a load of shit or not, so I am wondering if I should respond.

How old is your instructor? In my country, it would be inappropriate to ride alone with a coach or instructor. Any adult doing that in my country would be setting himself up for being fired.

I guess if he is flirtatious, then he is flirtatious. Exactly what do you want us to say? That he wants you and you should go after him? I doubt you are going to get such a response here.

I am not sure what his friend has to do with it, but I would seriously avoid anyone who thought rape was a joke.

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A female reader, Dangerously Enthusiastic.  United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2012):

Dangerously Enthusiastic.   agony auntReport him!

Something isn't right and he sounds like a bit of a 'sex pest'.

If his girlfriend finds rape funny there is really something wrong.

Perhaps find a new teacher?

It worries me that if he did try something, he is a teacher in kickboxing..I understand you're very good but he's the teacher and could out power you.

Quit? Move on?

He sounds dangerous.

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