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writes:hi everyone.. i am in a relationship since 3 years.. both of us are perfect for each other.. we share a great bonding together.. i am 21 years old and he is 22.. we study in the same college.. we live with our families in a small town in india.. we talk for really very long hours on phones as it is the only options for us to communicate in private.. i mean we do hang out together in public places like theaters, restaurants etc.. but we do not enjoy as we are not alone at these places.. you can advise us to try a hotel room but i am really sorry because we can't do that as we have very few good hotels in our and these hotels are quite familiar to us and our friends/family so we can get easily caught! We can't even go to other cities or towns because that would require a very careful planning but what will we tell to our families that i want go out to another city to have sex with my boyfriend??? its really awful right..?? as we are studying in college we have to inform about our whereabouts to our families.. so it has just become impossible to meet him in private..!! we need privacy... once we tried to meet at the outskirts of our town which is very rural and remote.. it was very nice there as we spent time together.. kissed each other and even made love.. but that place was very risky as strangers could easily find and threaten us for money and other belongings.. so that was really a very bad idea..!! I want you people to suggest to me a few ideas about places which are appropriate for our dates. please please.. we desperately want to make love to each other but we are not having a proper place for that.. it has been really a very long time since we had a physical relationship.. i am seriously longing to have sex with my love.. we want to meet at such a wonderful place where we can spend time together and cuddle with each other without any tensions or risks.. i know it sounds strange but its a real serious problem for us.. Hope you bring out your own little secrets and let me know.. waiting for more and more answers to choose one which suits us.. thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks a lot for your suggestions guys..!! i will surely try to work on them..but for us car isn't a good idea because we are still students and we are dependent on our parents so we don't own a car individually!! but i will try your other ideas like outdoors etc..but do suggest us some more please please..please......!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): How about your car? When I lived with my mother, and was just dating my boyfriend ( who is now my husband) We would go on car rides, find a quiet place well hidden and be intimate. I remember wearing loose skirts and sometimes no panties to make it exciting. Now we remember those times and we laugh. Maybe you guys can stop somewhere before the theatre or on the way home! Have fun!
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 How about outdoors? Are there any parks or open fields you can meet in the evening that aren't populated with people? Choose an nice clear night when the moon is bright and make love under the stars.
If that doesn't work then perhaps talking to your parents might work. Not simply saying "I want a place to have sex with my bf..." but just telling them "I love my boyfriend and it is difficult for us to spend time alone with eachother. Would it be ok if we spent the occasional weekend away together?" And then choose a hotel that can be a small "holiday" or "vacation" for you.
I'm not sure how exactly your culture works compared to ours, but being 21 years old or older in the US means you are considered an adult and have more freedom around your parents. They are less likely to tell their 21 or older son/daughter what they can or cannot do. You may be in a more strict culture.
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reader, ChelsieSue +, writes (20 April 2010):
 your 21 and 22, your parents are bound to figure out you do it. just come clean. or maybe a car? haha:)
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reader, toniaa  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 hi there
i can remember when me and my boyfriend wanted some us time and couldnt do it because of friends and family i had to sit my mother down and tell her that i wanted to sleep with him just me and him in a nice place and she understood so she let us come into my bedroom but maybe yours wont be like mine. i would really speak to your mother and see what she will say
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