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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I've had 6 different boyfriends in my life and I've given all of them blowjobs but my problem is that I don't like the smell or taste of them down there. It actually makes me gag which makes it very hard to enjoy myself, sometimes the smell is so overpowering I have refused to do it. The boys can never smell themselves and never seem to have any idea that yes their genitals have a smell and a taste, I think probably it's because they pee and don't wipe it off or anything so maybe some pee is left to dribble down... ew. Anyway I'm with a new boyfriend and its awesome, we are a great pair, starting to get closer to one another and I know that one day I will have to go down on him. How do I do this without gagging because of the smell and taste? And how do you tactfully bring up to a guy that he needs to wash it before you'll go down on him? My other boyfriends always refused to wash up, claiming it was all in my head (its not). Except for one who did wash up and it was much better but he only did that for me 2 or 3 times because once he was in the mood for a BJ there wasn't much I could say to put him on pause he'd just stick it in my mouth. :\Any help?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (16 November 2008):
 Good grief! What kind of slobs are you dating? Even daily bathing and reasonably proper bathroom hygiene should render most men fairly pleasant enough. Never have I expected a wife or girlfriend to go down before having thoroughly showered, including washing my ass. Every morning, and sometimes twice a day or more, a man should at least apply a soapy washcloth to his genitals and asshole if his woman is even possibly going to offer oral sex. Even if offered a surprise one, I'll insist, "I'll be right back." And clean up.
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reader, BlueCherry  +, writes (15 November 2008):
 Oh princess, you've been given good advice. But, really, what's going to happen if you two are in the mood and a shower would be SO wrong at that time? you can't shower the poor guy everytime he gets in the mood!
You could suggest many things during foreplay that you could 'apply' to the area before they "stick" it in your mouth. Things such as edible lube or oils or use a condom if you absolutely hate! the taste.
Get creative or just say no if it really stinks.
Cheers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): Suggest that you share a shower first. I got that off www.sexinfo101.com, it's a good site with loads of advice, so try it =]
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