Does she like me as a friend, or is she curious about more?
Q. I've been seperated for two years. I have two dogs, and about eight months ago I met a lady at the dog park. Our dogs really liked each other, and played constantly. Over the next couple months, I'd encounter her once-twice a week at t...
A. 23 April 2013: Hello, I think she really enjoys spending time with you. However only she knows how she would feel about being in a relationship with you. I think your playing with fire. She's taken and is not available. Things tend to turn ugly when so... (read in full...)
This woman keeps flirting with my fiance right in front of me, what should I do?
Q. I know there isn't anything I can actually do about this but maybe someone who has gone through this can tell me what I should do. Basically I need to know how to best handle a situation where this woman flirts with my fiance right in front o...
A. 20 April 2013: I have to agree with Sageoldguy1465. The real concern is not this woman...it's your fiance who lets this woman flirt with him. And to allow her to flirt with him right in front of you? Disrespectful! To talk to her online and over the phone? ... (read in full...)
Might the boy I like also like me and should I tell him the truth about my feelings?
Q. ..hey,i am 15 years and bi..i fall in love to a guy..he is not totally straight i think but he's not gay too...i want to forget hm..but doing ths is so hard.,everytime i try to avoid hm,he always comes near to me...i also caught hm staring at me so ...
A. 9 March 2013: Hello! To be honest with you I wouldn't go off rushing to tell him how you feel. Does he know your Bi? If so then wait for him to tell you how he feels. He is probably frustrated with his own feelings and until he sorts himself out he might tak... (read in full...)
Sent him an email ending things hoping for a bit of resistance but he accepted it. I am so sad, what do I do now?
Q. Hello I have been involved in a 3 1/2 year relationship. My bf likes to flirt a lot, he is in his mid 40s and in my opinion weak willed. We also work together in the same building and recently on the same floor for a period of time. In this time i...
A. 9 March 2013: Hello, My advice for you to do now is get over him. He was using you for sex. Are you sure he was even a boyfriend? It sounds to me that this was more of a friends with benefits situation. He's having sex with you however he doesn't want to ... (read in full...)
Is he scared of what he felt? Or did he change his mind about being with me? And why would he say what he said on Facebook?
Q. I apologize in advance, this is going to be quite a read, but to fully understand the situation I feel as though I need to include all of this. Ok, it starts out about 2 years ago. I was working at a restaurant waiting tables and we got a new empl...
A. 5 January 2013: Hello,
To be honest with you I think he was using you for sex. I can only imagine the pain and how hurt you are right now. I understand you felt a very strong connection with him but please don't have anything to do with him. Even if he wants to... (read in full...)
How do you know if someone is right for you?
Q. When you've found the one if there is such a thing, do you question it? or little things about them that just don't seem like an ideal fit with you. I was in love a long time ago. crazy, stupid, love. I just adored him. (I'm over him now, and don...
A. 28 December 2012: Hello, I find it is more about how compatible you are with someone. If you have different interests, different ideas, or especially if you have different morals then that person may not be right for you. It's also about how much do you h... (read in full...)
Is there absolutely anyway I'll be able to get over my ex and move past what she did to me? What am I supposed to do with my life now?
Q. So I dated a girl for 3 years, invested everything I had into the relationship: my time, my money (albeit we started dating when I was only 15 years of age) and she absolutely drove me into the ground. I found out halfway through the relation...
A. 28 December 2012: Hello, I'm sorry that you wasted all that time with this girl who likes to play games. The only advice I can give you right now is to keep your head held high, DON'T date until you are 100% over her, and NEVER EVER have anything to do with he... (read in full...)
Is it time for me to step back and find a job elsewhere? My married boss flirts with me.
Q. Happy Holidays ! This guy that I have known now for three months already is the boss of a company in which I do work at. He claims to be married but I don 't think so I think it's more like common- law. We are flirting back and forward with e...
A. 23 December 2012: Happy Holidays to you too!
First of all; regardless if this men is married or not he is not available to you. He is NOT a single man so it wouldn't be a relationship...it would be an affair.
Second of all, he is YOUR boss. It doesn't matter h... (read in full...)
Why is he talking to be so disrespectfully and accusing me of infidelity? What should I do?
Q. hey guys this guy and I are having sex. Recently he just startd behaving very weird. he has been accusing me of having sex with multiple men while this is something i have never even thought of doing he is the only man am having sex with. ye...
A. 23 December 2012: Hi,
I'm sorry he is treating you so terrible and I am shocked that he is not even your boyfriend! My only advice is to tell him to leave you alone and to have nothing more to do with this boy. Even if you were having sex with multiple men it i... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to approach this.
Q. so im in a lil bit of a situation with some girl i like. She is a single mom (not a problem), she is 2 years older (again not a problem) and she is my ex's friend. They used to be great friends but they have had some issues before the girl i like ...
A. 6 November 2012: I agree with Honeypie; give her some time and let her start talking.
As for your ex; I understand your feelings are bitter towards her but I would stop talking badly about your ex to this girl. Your ex is this girl's friend whether your like it ... (read in full...)
Text I overreact to and get clingy with my girlfriend.
Q. I overreact to and get clingy with my girlfriend. I don't really know why, in most aspects of my life I'm rational and even keeled. But with her I'm a bit of a maniac. I ask her stupid questions and she gets annoyed by them, and then I feel like the ...
A. 6 November 2012: I think it would be a wonderful idea to sit her down and talk to her and explain to her what you just told us. That way she understands what is troubling you and the both of you can work together to fix it. ... (read in full...)
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Q. My boyfriend and I are both juniors in college who have dated for about a year but known each other our whole lives. We go to different colleges, but often hang out on weekends and talk during the week, etc. Recently, my boyfriend has been applyin...
A. 6 November 2012: I think it would be a great opportunity to go! I'm sure you can apply for summer jobs in Florida just the same where you could apply for summers jobs where you currently are in.
If are were you I would want to go just for the experience and to h... (read in full...)
Why do you think she would have just stopped texting me?
Q. This girl I like we would always see each other on nights out, kiss a lot and just have banter, it was really nice. But then recently I started becoming lazy in texting her and I could tell things were dying out with us when we saw each other, i ...
A. 27 October 2012: Hello,
It's actually quite simple why she didn't text back. You lost interest and stopped texting her. She TRIED but you didn't bother. What else is she suppose to do if you wouldn't give her the time of day? Never get over you?? Jeez... ... (read in full...)
It's weird to think that it was only a week ago yesterday that I had really strong feelings for him and now, well they're gone!
Q. How is it my feelings for this guy disappeared so quickly! The guy who I had liked for two months and used to get butterflies in my stomach over, when we kissed i got that tingle feeling and i was in complete bliss whenever i was around him. He is ...
A. 27 October 2012: Hello,
I wouldn't worry too much about it. Two months is really not that long and your feelings changed because you realized your not as compatible as you thought. In other words your feelings changed because you got to know what he is really l... (read in full...)
If I play out this fantasy will is ruin our friendship?
Q. I am single, not been seeing anyone lately and I have a friend (a boy) who i spend lots of time with, he is younger than me about 2 years, I am 25 and he is 23 and I knew since i met him and he wanted to f*** me and I didn't think of him in any way ...
A. 27 October 2012: Hello,
Your friendship would definitely change! How do you feel about a friends with benefits with this boy? As this is actually what will happened if you sleep with him.
Do you want this boy to be your boyfriend?
It's OK and normal to... (read in full...)
I love this guy, and I want it to work. So how do I handle him calling me "fat"(I'm not), and commenting on girls he thinks are hot?
Q. Straight to the story, Been dating this guy for 2 months now. Everything was perfect, he is the sweetest person ever! Just one problem and i don't know if i should feel insecure or not! Or what i should even do, i feel like shit! He is very ov...
A. 14 October 2012: I couldn't have said it better then Aunty BimBim. Another thing I would like to mention is you already admit he is possessive and jealous. Those are two (huge) red flags that he can turn out to be an abuser.
Where it has only been 2 months I... (read in full...)
I ended things because he betrayed me but I cant stop thinking of him
Q. I was dating someone for a while and I ended up finding out he betrayed and used me. I stopped talking to him but I cant seem to get the good memories out of my mind, it's killing me. I just wanna get over him but I can't. I feel like I want to call ...
A. 3 October 2012: Stop thinking about how great things were and think about why you dumped him. Keep yourself busy and focus your attention on your friends and family.
Concentrate on a hobby-if you don't have one then find one. In other words take your attentio... (read in full...)
Should I leave my psycho wife for the woman I truly love?
Q. I have no idea where to start. I am a 24 year old married man who just passed his 2 year anniversary. I am married to a somewhat sweet woman, but she isn't very open with her feelings which kills me. She has a very strong personality which throws me ...
A. 11 August 2012: I agree 100% with BondGirl72. Do your wife a favor and get a divorce. Your wife deserves much better.... (read in full...)
I have a controlling boyfriend!
Q. I had a major blow out with my bf last night he said my mother was a b**** I thought that it was out of line my mother doesn't approve of our relationship but she has never involved herself in any fight or anything!His mother passed recently and I ...
A. 11 August 2012: Get out NOW! Leave him! Go stay with your parents for awhile!
Trust me, this is a relationship you NEVER want to be in. It will hurt but if you don't leave him now then it will hurt ten times more staying with him!
Do you really want to c... (read in full...)
How can I stop my ex asking me for money?
Q. hi. my ex girlfriend keeps asking me for money for fags and food because i live at home and have no bills to pay and she has her own place with bills and rent but isnt working, she on benefits. she is an ex who i have never lived with and wasnt ...
A. 11 August 2012: She's not going to stop asking until you ignore her. When she texts you don't reply to them. It will take a while but she will eventually stop. An easier way to do this is to block her number so you don't get her texts in the first place.
Good ... (read in full...)
I have a crush and I don't know what to do?
Q. ok, i have had a crush on this girl since 3rd grade, and she has no clue and finds me to be weird. i also feel awkward whenever i am around her and am always unable to tell her i like her. i am in 8th grade now, and she is in most of my classes....
A. 11 August 2012: How do you know that she finds you weird? Did she tell you that?
My advice is to get to know her and try to be friends with her at the moment. There's no harm in asking her to hang out. :)... (read in full...)
I'm worried she is starting to dump me!
Q. Well I have been dating this girl for 5 months now and it was a strange relationship, she had met me in February and started taking a liking to me whilst she was in this other relationship with a guy. Then 2 months later she dumped him and a week ...
A. 11 August 2012: The only way to know for sure is too ask her. If you are not happy and this relationship seems weird to you then why do you continue to stay in it? I would move on and find someone you are happy with.
Good Luck! :)... (read in full...)
He says I scare the hell out of him!
Q. What does it mean when the man your interested in says to you, "you scare the hell out of me"?...
A. 11 August 2012: It's hard to tell because you didn't give any details but usually it means that you are scaring him away.
That's not always a bad thing like Abella mentioned...
Anyway, the best advice I can give you is to give him space right now.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
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