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anonymous
writes:Well I have been dating this girl for 5 months now and it was a strange relationship, she had met me in February and started taking a liking to me whilst she was in this other relationship with a guy. Then 2 months later she dumped him and a week later she started going out with me. Now we did the usual, we texted each other constantly and we always tried to make time to see each other. But recently I have been on Holiday for 2 weeks and before then I noticed she started to text me less and less. And now I have barely talked to her, we used to send over 200 texts each day to each other and now we barely get through 20-30 and when I see her she is distant and if I ask her what is wrong she replies "nothing, it's ok" but it doesn't seem like it. Should I be worried that she might dump me soon or she is interested in another guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2012): you'd be lucky to get one text a day off me lol
Chill out dude, maybe the initial text craziness has worn off a bit but thats normal. Concentrate on having fun together in person, minus the phone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2012): She probably has finger fatigue. For what it's worth, getting 20-30 texts a day would drive me bat shit crazy and might turn me off of someone. I wouldn't measure your intimacy by the number of texts you get.
I would measure your intimacy by how she responds to you face to face. If she's being distant, chances are she's no longer interested. Do you want to be in a relationship where you can't communicate with someone? I wouldn't be worried about her dumping you or about a hypothetical guy, I'd worry about what you want and need. I would tell her what you feel and tell her what you need. If she can't be bothered to give it, move on.
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reader, babyzbird  +, writes (11 August 2012):
 The only way to know for sure is too ask her. If you are not happy and this relationship seems weird to you then why do you continue to stay in it? I would move on and find someone you are happy with.
Good Luck! :)
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