My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more
Q. Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...
A. 3 February 2011: I have tears of joy for you because you found the courage to walk away. Well done !... (read in full...)
Husband is sharing a room with a friend during a business trip, feeling uncomfortable about it
Q. Hi, my husband is in another contry doing some bussines.. in this moment he is traveling with some friends that I met before. I talked with him today and asked about his friends, how they are doing...etc.. he told me the hotel right now is ver...
A. 7 January 2011: Some cheaters try the open approach- The only person whom knows is you - follow your gut feeling, often it is right. ... (read in full...)
That first kiss...
Q. Me and my boyfriend want to kiss but are both shy and he thinks he's gonna mess up..... how do I convince him otherwise? ...
A. 6 January 2011: Just relax- if at first you dont succeed try try again.
Like anything new,it can take a few times to perfect. Though kissing one person can feel very different to another, this is because everyone has thier own style, and feelings for the other pers... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to lose weight!
Q. Help! My boyfriend has a problem with my weight. I think I'm pretty hot though, and not overweight at all. I am 5'6 and weigh 132 lbs. His problem is, I've gained weight since we've been together. When we first met, I was a professional dancer and ...
A. 6 January 2011: Isnt it so nice that your boyfriend loves you for you.!
There is nothing wrong with your weight....is he a perfect 10? I doubt it. Hes a tosser....this is not love its a relationship based on a physical sense- what will happen when yo have chil... (read in full...)
My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more
Q. Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...
A. 6 January 2011: It's a positive sign he is attending anger management - however it will take more than attending a couple of classes. Proof will be in the pudding.
I do hope things turn out well for you - but promise me that should another episode deveope get the ... (read in full...)
Betrayed by my so-called friend, what should I do?
Q. It all started about two years ago. I had a huge crush on a boy 1 year older than me. He seemed like the perfect guy. He was nice, cute, funny, athletic, and smart. My really close friends all knew that I liked him, and thought we would make a cute ...
A. 6 January 2011: Hi,
It takes 2 people to start and end a relationship.
Therefore it is unfair to blame everything onto your friend.
Going by what you have said you were not even in a relationnship with this boy. Therefore he is free to date whomever he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more
Q. Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...
A. 5 January 2011: Run Forest run!
Perhaps you find it flattering for now to have a man fight to show his feeling of love !!!! however the longer the relationship goes on the more volitile he will become.
One day he will turn on you, he has already shown signs - ... (read in full...)
I fell limp onto the bed and start to gag during anal sex!! Is this normal??!
Q. So last night I was fooling around with a guy and we were doing it doggy style and suddenly (i'm not sure if it was on purpose or an accident) he slipped into my butt. I've never had any sort of anal penetration before, and it surprised me to the ...
A. 4 January 2011: I wonder how long you have known this man?
I am of the belief that venturing away from the " Norm "
Requires permission / discussion with the people involved, to establish if there are any sexual boundaries -But this person has simply dominate... (read in full...)
I can't figure her out!
Q. I ended a relationship 6 months ago and have been enjoying single life again while getting my life back on track. 2 months ago on a night out with mates, a girl said she recognized me and we chatted for a bit and that was that. She found me o...
A. 2 January 2011: It makes no sense - why lie about kissing someone unless shes taking drugs or something - this is the only thing I can think of that would block out memories.
I think it best to walk away - this is a sign something is not right in the mind of this... (read in full...)
She tells me she still loves me, but as a friend
Q. I dated a girl, who I absolutely fell in love with from the first time I met her. However, things did not work out for us. It was my fault, I said things I shouldn't have. I have continued to have feelings for her. She continues to want to be ...
A. 1 January 2011: Letting go of a 1 sided relationship is one of the hardest steps anyone has to do.
But until you let go of her, your days will be full of saddness & confusion. Take cdontrol of your life.
Man up - tell her you cannot see her anymore its all or n... (read in full...)
HIs attitude has changed overnight and I don't know what I did!
Q. Hi I have been dating a man for a few months and everything was going really well. He complimented me and wanted to speak and spend time with me. We spent xmas together and I stayed at his (invited of course)Then all of a sudden on the Monday he...
A. 1 January 2011: sometime men do pull away for so apparent reason--- they hide in thier cave, leave him alone. He will return when he is ready - in the mean time keep yourself busy like going out with a girlfriend - go to the movies whatever it is you like doing. ... (read in full...)
My son is a crack addict, with criminal charges, on probation for the last 7 years. What can I do in this horrible situation?
Q. My 27 years old drug-addict son ,causing me and my family lots of pain. He moved back several times in our home, and we tried to help him over and over again. But it failed every time. He is here again. On house arrest, so he can avoid jail. I...
A. 31 December 2010: This is indeed a sad situation. A mother torn inside trying to save her family. The truth is noone can help! Help begins within the person, it has to start there. The child must want / desire to come clean before anyone can begin to help. This ... (read in full...)
Does he prefer the sex toys and and porn over me?
Q. Ok so I've seen this posted before, but mine feels a little different. I know my boyfriend likes to jack off. Never botherd me. But we are going on almost 2 yrs and sex is fading. Maybe once a week. Now he has this fake vagina, that I got for him. ...
A. 31 December 2010: I think your gut feeling is telling you something is wrong.
There is alot more to a relationship than sex though sexual intimacy is important.
My opionion once the sex has gone its gone. It appears alot of your energy is about the sexual s... (read in full...)
Married man or emotionaly unavailable?
Q. I had been seeing a man for over a year, then he broke it off stating he was not ready for a long-term commitment. After 8 months with no contact, we recently reconciled. I suspect he may be married and have tried to ask questions to determine his ...
A. 30 December 2010: Yes you have! You know inside he is married! why settle for this? You have fallen for a bed of lies. You're in lust with the way he makes love with you - forbidden sex is so awesome, the adrenlin mmmmm but it takes you on the road to no where. ... (read in full...)
Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.
Q. Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...
A. 30 December 2010: It is not you ! - you're hurting because you have been betrayed, you are grieving like any one would when you loose someone you love. However - in my opinion the love was 1 sided.
Actions will always speak louder than words. look at his acti... (read in full...)
Do You Think It Was Okay For Him To Call Me Fat?
Q. So, I have this friend, or i thought he was my friend, and he's athletic, and he thinks he's perfect. We were talking and joking around like we always do, and then out of nowhere he goes all serious on me and tells me (in his exact words) "You know ...
A. 29 December 2010: Im sure you felt humilated however he humilated himself more. People whom put people down in front of others are trying to boost thier own ego and are arrogant.
He thinks he is god's gift and is overly confident.
Its only a matter of time before h... (read in full...)
My ex has no contact in our son's life but can he step things up later?
Q. hi everybody,i had a two years relationship that end up with a cute little boy.since i got pregnant,my boyfriend had run away with another girl,he had never visited me,he does not even know my son's name.he called me weeks after my baby was born,i ...
A. 29 December 2010: I know your hurting and feel abandoned.
However nothing can change the fact he is the Biological father. He will always have some rights even if you think its unfair.
I think if the father does step up in the future it would be good for the... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from an affair but lied and told the father I had an abortion. He'll find out about my lie soon enough!
Q. Hi, I recently found myself in a very difficult place and any help would be most welcome but please don't tell me I am a bad person as I feel awful anyhow... I have been engaged to a lovely man for three years and we have a twelve month old...
A. 28 December 2010: Hi - This is messy situation - but you dont need me to tell you this. Are you 100% sure who the father is ? I dont think you do.....I think some courage is needed to tell the truth.
I fear you will lose all that you hold dear though I cannot see ... (read in full...)
He cheated, I mentioned divorce and now he wants another chance
Q. Hi I am married for 11 yrs and my husband cheated.I gave him 2nd chance but he decided to leave again. After 6 months he came back and wants another chance. I told him about divorce and suddenly he wants another chance. What is yr advice???...
A. 28 December 2010: Ask yourself - what do you want ? do you want to live the rest of your married life sharing him with others? Should you always be the one waiting around for him to decide wether he wants to stay leave come back- piss him off you deserve more. ... (read in full...)
Should I open that forbidden door or play it safe?
Q. hello im needing advice. im 24 and a parent to a 4 yr old boy. im also married and have been with my partner since i was 18. hes 30 yrs old. my dilemma is that he wants another baby. he feels hes ready and i do too but is it wrong for me to want ...
A. 28 December 2010: Adult decisions were made long ago,- were you an adult at the time? or a young teenager trying to make the best of a situation, anyway here you are - your so young with huge responsilbilites, its ok to have wants and needs - I can understand where ... (read in full...)
Does he prefer the sex toys and and porn over me?
Q. Ok so I've seen this posted before, but mine feels a little different. I know my boyfriend likes to jack off. Never botherd me. But we are going on almost 2 yrs and sex is fading. Maybe once a week. Now he has this fake vagina, that I got for him. ...
A. 27 December 2010: Men are very visual people - Hence the porn etc , he has a kinky side though many people do.
Perhaps his sexual appetite is not being fulfilled. Everyone has different, some unusal sexual needs & Boundaries,doesnt make him or her good, nor bad just... (read in full...)
What can I do to keep a girlfriend happy?
Q. i have a girlfriend and am scared that she may not want to go ahead in this relationship, so i want to keep her happy what can i do to keep my girlfriend happy? ...
A. 27 December 2010: You cannot force or make someone love you. The more you try to do everything right-the more you will loose whom you are over time. Be yourself is the best thing you can do.... (read in full...)
He talks about sex all day but just goes to sleep when the lights are out.
Q. My bf talks about having sex with me all day but when it's lights out he just falls asleep. Why?...
A. 27 December 2010: Perhaps he is wanting to explore intimacy outside of the bedroom. ... (read in full...)
I have needs that my wife isn't meeting!
Q. I have been married for almost 5 years, a while back my wife and I stopped having sex as much (maybe once or twice a month) she has never had an orgasm (in her life) so I assume that is part of the reason and she just do no be in the mood. Once the ...
A. 18 December 2010: Imagine this ! you have an accident and you can no longer can have sex- would you agree to your wife having sex with someone else - Perhaps your wife is already having an affair! hence why she doesnt want sex with you. ... (read in full...)
I have needs that my wife isn't meeting!
Q. I have been married for almost 5 years, a while back my wife and I stopped having sex as much (maybe once or twice a month) she has never had an orgasm (in her life) so I assume that is part of the reason and she just do no be in the mood. Once the ...
A. 10 December 2010: learn how to do Oral sex so the poor woman can have an orgasmn. Be a better lover. ... (read in full...)
Should I shoot him an email telling him I'll wait for him?
Q. Hi - I do not know what to do. This guy and I were friends for four years and we date during five months. We never broke up just stop seeing each other last september. Now he came back to my life after his disappearing act. I realize somethin...
A. 10 December 2010: Move forward - dont be a puppet on a string. You deserve so much more.
Be strong, Close the door on him to allow another to enter. There is always anaother bus. ... (read in full...)
Should I take him back? Is he stringing me along?
Q. I broke up with this guy because he is a real prick sometimes, to the point of making me feel like the biggest idiot on planet earth and within one week he was back with his ex. We were together a little over a year. They have children together ...
A. 10 December 2010: what is love?
What type of love or lust are you going to settle for.
Tell me, what is it that you love about this man who has you dangling on a piece of string. He sounds confused and trying to do best by himself not you! Get out and find som... (read in full...)
My Husband picks minor issues to argue about,. Why is he doing this?
Q. My husband keeps picking arguments about extremely minor things, he ususally does this when he's been drinking too much. I remain calm and I try to pacify him by either apologizing for the minor incident, I also have asked him if maybe there is ...
A. 4 December 2010: Sounds like its all Ho Hum same ole same ole. Sometimes even when we are not alone we feel so alone. Sometimes things run their course, perhaps its time to give in and go back home where your family and freinds are. ... (read in full...)
Girls, what turns you off?
Q. Girls what is a major turn off about a guy? Is it appearance? Smell? What?...
A. 3 December 2010: arrogance... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I want my husband to trust me about this?
Q. Ok, to give a quick background: I've been married 6 years and it's been rocky, but we are at a great point now. I am a very social person and have kept many friends close over the years. My childhood friend / first boyfriend at age 14, mind you ...
A. 3 December 2010: hi- If this was the reverse how would you feel ?... (read in full...)
No trust, controlling or lying by ommission
Q. I work away from home for long periods of time. Somebody recently told me that my wife cheated, she denies it, but it is plausable. I love my wife and she hasn't really lied to me, the other person has, but i still have doubts. For some reaso...
A. 28 November 2010: Get out - trust is gone. ... (read in full...)
How can I meet my online guy safely?
Q. The guy im dating lives overseas and im dating him online, we talk for hours everyday and he finally wants me to come see him in england. Im 19 and hes 21 i Know this could potentially be dangerous but i also know that it might not be. so how do i ...
A. 28 November 2010: Sometimes people get caught up in the fantasy of the unknown - internet dating - you only really talk when the moods are right - its so easy to have your needs filfulled on line - only the good sides are felt - be sure to look at consquences - If ... (read in full...)
She says she's just on it for fun, but it's a webcam website with guys masturbating!
Q. Ill just get straight to the point, my girlfriend goes on this webchat website with her friend. U have a web cam and it cycles threw random people who are on the site to. And she says like every one is a guy masterbating. And they say they talk ...
A. 28 November 2010: I find it amusing how some complain about an issue yet still protect the one's hurting them.... (read in full...)
My mother said she didn't approve of my friends but hasn't explained why
Q. I have a lot of different groups of friends. But, there's one group (my boy and his family) that my mom doesn't really like, because of where they come from and the things shes heard them say (which is really no different from any other obscene ...
A. 28 November 2010: Why ask for opionions when you only see your view - learn the hard way. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
Do I piece my family back together?
Q. Hi all I just need a second opinion on this burning situation that has been going on for a little over a month now. I have been broken up for a little over a month with my ex-girlfriend. It has been difficult to say the least but, I am pulling thr...
A. 27 November 2010: Without trust there is no relationship. You have done nothing wrong other than love this person. In my opinion move on - talking to an ex partner late at night while your there is disrespectful. Move on you will find love again. ... (read in full...)
My mother said she didn't approve of my friends but hasn't explained why
Q. I have a lot of different groups of friends. But, there's one group (my boy and his family) that my mom doesn't really like, because of where they come from and the things shes heard them say (which is really no different from any other obscene ...
A. 27 November 2010: she sees your on the road to no where. read your words.
Your mother sees your future - repsect her - Mothers protect. ... (read in full...)
She says she's just on it for fun, but it's a webcam website with guys masturbating!
Q. Ill just get straight to the point, my girlfriend goes on this webchat website with her friend. U have a web cam and it cycles threw random people who are on the site to. And she says like every one is a guy masterbating. And they say they talk ...
A. 27 November 2010: Everyone has personal boundaries and this is crossing yours. Stand up for what you believe in - if she chooses to ignore your feelings or continues to be disrespectful then move on. ... (read in full...)
Do I stay for the sake of the children?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years and we have 2 beautiful children together. We are supposed to be living together but he's never here. He doesn't have a job but he goes out in the morning (sometimes leaving at half 9) and returnes ...
A. 27 November 2010: you deserve so much more - I think you already know the answer inside. Taking the first step is so difficult and the road ahead ititially will be difficult but the light will come and one day you will see the smile on your faces again. Leave him ... (read in full...)
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