Need Validation Please
Q. I've been more alone than this - but never so lonely. I have absolutely nobody to talk to about this problem. When I was 15 I was infatuated with my best friend's older brother. If you were to read my diary it still has entries of only him. I was cr...
A. 23 December 2008: Unfortunetly you cannot choose your family. Your best friend just needs you to be there for her and support her. Before her parents know she will be old enough and strong enough to walk away from them completly if they don't accept her ... (read in full...)
Should I date her? She is as shy as I am and have the worse friends in history, still I like her!!
Q. Um, hey there. Recently there's this girl that I've developed a crush on. Well crush isn't really the best way to describe it. She's on my thoughts all of the time and I even dream about her. Unfortunately we have no classes together, and the only...
A. 26 November 2008: If you want to be with someone i see your 'reasons' as nothing you can't get past if you truly want to. As you get to know each other and become more comfortable in each others company, you may stop being so shy around each other.
As for her frie... (read in full...)
I'm getting mixed signals from this boy, should I wait around for him to decide?
Q. soo im in school with this guy i realli like we arnt in the same year but we sometimes see each other on nights out and stuff . and one night he triend to like get with me but i said no and now i regret it, a while ago i txt him and told him i ...
A. 26 November 2008: The only way you can find out what he want's is by asking him straight out. If he says Yes then you have what you want. If he's not interested then you both no where you stand and you can move on.
The only way to know what some one wants is to ask ... (read in full...)
How do you know you are ready to take your relationship to the next step?
Q. How do you know you are ready to take your relationship to the next step?...
A. 26 November 2008: What do you call the next step hun? Do you mean sleeping togther ? There is only one person who can answer that and that is you. Do you feel ready? Is your partner someone you trust to give a part of yourself to?
You should never feel pressured into... (read in full...)
Why does he never bring his kids round to our house?
Q. Question; I have recently moved in with my boyfriend, we have been together for 10 months prior to this. I have one child who is 3 and he has two children, one is seven and one is 3 (2 weeks younger than my little one.) We have his children at ...
A. 26 November 2008: Two years after being in a serious relationship (which i assume your partner was as he has two children with his ex) is not along time. There may well still be some unresolved issues between them.
Your partner probabley want's to be the good pare... (read in full...)
Will I ever get friends like that?
Q. i don't have the friends i want to have. my brother has had friends for over ten years or longer. he is so tight with them! i was wondering why i don't have friends like that? will i ever get friends like that?...
A. 26 November 2008: Hi hun, I had some really close friends at school, some for about ten years. We left school and all lost touch as often happen's.
I now have a fantastic group of friends there is about 5 of us who are really really close. We met though work and ... (read in full...)
I have so many problems. What should I think? Is this happening for a reason?
Q. What are the most serious problems you got? I feel I have way too many problems, and I wonder if it s normal, to have so many problems, and pain. I wonder what are your, most painful events, in your life? My problems are , lost my house, my paren...
A. 26 November 2008: I'm am truly sorry for all the terrible thigs that have happened. I can umderstand how easy it must be to feel so very very negative. The only way i have found to get though things that have happened to me is to try and focus on the postive. This ... (read in full...)
Will my true feelings interfere with us being "friends with benefits"?
Q. Just recently my best friend had suggested we have a friends with benefits with her and I accepted. We're both 16 and know about safe sex and everything but there's one problem, I've always liked her more than just a friend but never told her.... ...
A. 25 November 2008: I am soo pleased for you both you have no idea how much:). If you take things slow and it is both what you want i can't see why sex would ruin your relationship. Good luck and well done for being brave enough and honest enough to say how you feel... (read in full...)
Will my true feelings interfere with us being "friends with benefits"?
Q. Just recently my best friend had suggested we have a friends with benefits with her and I accepted. We're both 16 and know about safe sex and everything but there's one problem, I've always liked her more than just a friend but never told her.... ...
A. 24 November 2008: You'll find a way i'm sure. Good luck and i really hope it all go's well xx... (read in full...)
Will my true feelings interfere with us being "friends with benefits"?
Q. Just recently my best friend had suggested we have a friends with benefits with her and I accepted. We're both 16 and know about safe sex and everything but there's one problem, I've always liked her more than just a friend but never told her.... ...
A. 24 November 2008: I'm sorry i didn't mean to imply that your friend would be sleeping with other people. I just ment that if she does how would that make you feel, if you relationship means more to you than her.
Sorry if i wasn't very clear
... (read in full...)
When, where and HOW to propose???
Q. I've been dating a girl for the past year and a half now, we've had time to grow up, fight, cry, laugh and all the other good stuff together and I'm ready to tie the knot but the problem is, I don't know how to do it, do I do it on a holiday with ...
A. 24 November 2008: First you have to make sure you are ready and this is what you REALLY want. A year and a half is not a long time. I've been with my partner for 5 years and we're not engaged. We will when were both ready but what's the rush.
Your very young i'm 24 m... (read in full...)
Will my true feelings interfere with us being "friends with benefits"?
Q. Just recently my best friend had suggested we have a friends with benefits with her and I accepted. We're both 16 and know about safe sex and everything but there's one problem, I've always liked her more than just a friend but never told her.... ...
A. 24 November 2008: I really think you need to be careful here. You have already said you like her more than she does you. Will you just be sleeping with each other. Or will she/you be having other partners and how will that make you feel?
I really think this is a bad ... (read in full...)
Improve Image Or Relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months. We love eachother very much and have just finished school, and no, we haven't had sex, and we don't plan to for a very long time. This is my first relationship but this is her third because ...
A. 23 November 2008: May i just say what a lucky girl your g/f is! You sound like a lovely b/f which is just what your she needs. If you really care for this girl (which it sounds like you really do) please carry on being patient it will be worth it in the end. I am ... (read in full...)
People keep calling me frigid!
Q. I went out with a boy in my year for about 3 weeks and we didnt kiss, and we only hugged about once! He dumped me yesterday because he didnt think that it was going very well. But now everybody in my year thinks that i am frigid and now none of ...
A. 22 November 2008: The right boy will not be bothered by silly rumors and things people say. You should never do anyhing you don't want to becuase other people are saying you should.
You have plently of time for all the hugs and kisses in the world with the righ... (read in full...)
I need some ideas on how I can support my friend.
Q. Hi, I am 15 and so is my friend who I am trying to support at the moment. I was just wondering if I could have some ideas on a way I can support my friend. She is having a tough time at the moment with exams, home life and at school. She has been ...
A. 22 November 2008: Hun, you have done the right thing by trying to get your friend outside help. YOU CANNOT deal with this all by yourself and your friend should not be expecting you too. Unfortuntley no body can help anyone unless they help themselves. I'm glad your ... (read in full...)
Is there still a chance for us?
Q. is their anychance of me getting back together with my boyfriend???... he said he loves me and doesnt want to hurt me so he broke up with me because he 'thinks' he loves someone else but that someone else already has a boyfrien...
A. 22 November 2008: It sound's like he is a nice guy and maybe you can be friends and get back together eventually, but he broke up with you, so without speaking to him i can only think that's because he doesn't want to be with you.
I'm sorry if that's not what you ... (read in full...)
Is there still a chance for us?
Q. is their anychance of me getting back together with my boyfriend???... he said he loves me and doesnt want to hurt me so he broke up with me because he 'thinks' he loves someone else but that someone else already has a boyfrien...
A. 21 November 2008: Oh hun, i'm so sorry but you can't really get someone back who doesn't want to be with you. I know you don't see it now but your ex did the right thing by breaking up with you if he wanted someone else. If your ment to be together you will but ple... (read in full...)
We have feelings for each other...
Q. So I've had feelings for this girl for quite a while. Recently, she's told me that she has strong feelings for me as well, but doesn't know what they are. After she told how she felt, I told her the way I felt about her. I talked a couple of time...
A. 21 November 2008: Sorry but i don't think there is much you can do. You have told her how you feel and been honest. I think you should give her time and be there for her. Please don't push her. Given time she may recoginise that her feelings for you are such that she ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to like his cousin...I'm so confused!
Q. I really need some help i've been with my partner for five years and i love him, i really do. Recently i've started talking to his cousin online and i really like him we talk and text alot and i like him. I pretty sure he doesn't like me like him ...
A. 16 November 2008: Hi guy's just a quick update on what's going on with me. I thought about what eveyone said most of which i new already. I cut all contact with cousin and thought about what i want/need. I left my partnter and it lasted 12 hours before i relised i'd ... (read in full...)
Why did he ask for a kiss if he's interested in someone else?
Q. What's going on in my life at the moment is really confusing. Me and my ex have been split for around four weeks now, we still are friends and have everyday contact over the phone. Anyway last nite - like most Fridays, I saw him down the pub, hard...
A. 15 November 2008: Sorry hun but probably as an ego boost. If he wanted to be with you he would. You said you had been to the pub could he have been drunk? Why are you having daily contact i belive Ex's can be friends but only when they are both over each other and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is texting another girl but says they are just friends, should I be worried?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 months. He's really lovely to me when were together and always says he loves me. But a few weeks ago i found he had been texting another girl. I found messages on his phone from her and at first flipped ...
A. 14 November 2008: First please don't start playing games that will not help anything. Surely if you b/f was up to no good he wouldn't have even told you. If you keeping pushing and questioning you will lose him. If you love him and trust him as you say you do, you ... (read in full...)
Need Validation Please
Q. I've been more alone than this - but never so lonely. I have absolutely nobody to talk to about this problem. When I was 15 I was infatuated with my best friend's older brother. If you were to read my diary it still has entries of only him. I was cr...
A. 12 November 2008: Sweetheart that is terrible and i am so sorry your hurting so badly. Unfortunatly there doesn't seem to be much you can do to change the situation. I am truly sorry you feel so let down by people you thought you could trust. I trully hope you can ... (read in full...)
Just had sex for first time and it hurt! Will it be better second time?
Q. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE READ AND ANSWER I just had sex a few hours ago for the first time and it hurt a lot which I was expecting I didn't bleed... I dont regret having it but I did not feel any pleasure at all and now that I think sex is all talke...
A. 12 November 2008: FIRST sweetheart you need to relax. If your tense it's bound to be sore. Was there any foreplay? Did you use any lubricante? This can help it may hurt for the first few times but it is definatly worth it when you get it right. Be careful which lubes ... (read in full...)
Best friend betrayal?
Q. I'm in love with this boy so badly, but he's asked out my best friend, and wants a serious relationship with her. She knows I really like him, and she keeps rubbing it my face. She hasn't said yes or no yet, and I really need to stop them going ...
A. 11 November 2008: Sorry babe but you can't stop them if that's what they want to do.
Have you spoken to your friend about how you feel? If you have and she doesn't care then is she the sort of friend you need. Me and my friends have a saying 'boy's may come and go b... (read in full...)
I need some advice on this girl I like, I want to know whether she likes me and if I should make a move and ask her out..
Q. I need some advice on this girl I like, I want to know whether she likes me and if I should make a move and ask her out. We have known each other for a little while; she used to go out with one of my friends, but they recently broke up under some ...
A. 10 November 2008: You probabley already no this but there is only one way to find out. Ask her. If she like and want's to go out with you then great. If she doesn't and just wants to be friends then in may be akward for a few days but as long as your honest and she's ... (read in full...)
IS my ex bf keeping in contact with me because he knows that if he does ask me back I would definitely go back to him and he knows it?
Q. IS my ex bf keeping in contact with me because he knows that if he does ask me back I would definitely go back to him and he knows it? Like friday night in are local pub he was there with his new girlfriend and i was there with some mates, the pub ...
A. 10 November 2008: Hi
I have been where you are and it's a horrible feeling. You need to ask yourself a couple of questions. Why did we break up in the first place? There must be a reason and can you get past that. Also why is he there with his new G/F if he want... (read in full...)
I'm starting to like his cousin...I'm so confused!
Q. I really need some help i've been with my partner for five years and i love him, i really do. Recently i've started talking to his cousin online and i really like him we talk and text alot and i like him. I pretty sure he doesn't like me like him ...
A. 7 November 2008: hi guy's
Thank you so much for helping me. You have both said what i was already thinking but needed someone else to say. I'm trying hard to kill the feelings and be friends. My crush has done nothing wrong and has no idea i feel like this. I'm ... (read in full...)
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