A
female
age
26-29,
*ostTheOne
writes:I'm in love with this boy so badly, but he's asked out my best friend, and wants a serious relationship with her. She knows I really like him, and she keeps rubbing it my face. She hasn't said yes or no yet, and I really need to stop them going out.What do I do?
View related questions:
best friend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): ok
sorry to burst your bubble, but you cant control peoples emotions. if he wants her youll have to deal with it. we may sometimes not be the right person for the ones we think are right for us. so thats lesson number one.
second, yeah, if she knwo su relaly like him she shoudl have a serious talk with you and discuss about it, but if those two lovebirds adore eachother, are uy really gonna stop them? if anything they'll start dating behind your back and that will be worse.
guy sare a complicated issue.
I suggest that the best you can do is talk to your freind and set aside, not ruin their relationshoip, cause you can lose a very valuable freindship and her respect for you. and youll just be acting immature.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): You can't stop them and do you really want to be with someone who would rather be with someone else?Why is your friend treating you this way? Did she show any interest in him before you were interested? I don't know you or whether you've done anything similar to her. Maybe you should ask her whether she wants to hurt you and why? There could be a grudge somewhere.
...............................
A
female
reader, Asked Angel +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Sorry babe but you can't stop them if that's what they want to do.
Have you spoken to your friend about how you feel? If you have and she doesn't care then is she the sort of friend you need. Me and my friends have a saying 'boy's may come and go but we will ALWAYS have each other'
We would never think of hurting each other, maybe you friend isn't going to start going out with this guy and is just enjoying the attention.
My advice tell her how you feel. If she's a good friend she should understand
...............................
|
