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im currently single but for my age i have experianced a lot love wise and life wise alot of it is hard to write for your eyes to see as an addition to that i was a dr holtons patiend misdignosed with epilespy believe me or not thats your choice but i have experianced more than you could imagine it has shaped me now and how i view the world i have done a lot of introspective reflection to get where i am now i have no special qualifications that entitles me to tell you what to do and i do not wish to manipulate your actions or thoughts i do art at a2 alongside english literture and sociology i am very senistive to others emotions and being its sounds great but it really is not becuase it means when my friends are sad i feel sad and i can never explain why but you no what they say artists must suffer for their art xloisx |
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Why can't I have a normal boyfriend?
Q. why cant i get a normal boyfriend? im 18 and i have never had a steady relationship. my longest relationship was 3 weeks and the guy didnt even spend that much time with me, i think he just wanted a girlfriend just to SAY he had a girlfriend. i ...
A. 4 June 2008: i have this problem all the time my longest relationship was roughly a month but rather my bfs always leave me for someone else or cheat. I get sick and tired of it after a while, but i realised that there wasnt a problem with me only the people i ... (read in full...)
I feel pathetic over feeling hurt cause my friend likes another girl.
Q. Im in love with a friend, he's not close and he is 2 years older than me. I've told him that i like him but he doesnt feel the same. We are still friends and talk to each other but, it hurts soo much knowing that he likes another girl. Please help ...
A. 2 February 2008: everyone feels that way with rejection honey it passes , i know it doesnt help but there are many guys out there some will break your heart and some won't thats life it comes and goes. it is something we all have to live with. you won't feel this ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to tell me something, reading out this text infront of me??
Q. Hi, There is this guy tht has told me he likes me, but hasn't said it to my face just over msn, this was a few months ago but since he hasnt mentioned anything and has carried on like we are friends. However, there is awkwardness between us and r...
A. 2 February 2008: it sounds like it was probably about you hun, some guys get mega shy and cannot make the first move did you ever tell him how you feel about him? if not why not? and how did you expect him to know how you feel about him guys arent telepathic!id love ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my bfs crush??
Q. I think my boyfriend of 3.5 years has a crush on another girl and I was wondering what you all think... should I be worried about it? He has never told me and I have never asked but when she is around and he talks to her, I can sense an attraction. ...
A. 2 February 2008: it is normal for people to be attracted to others honey , surely you check other guys out when your beau is not around? i know i did and do when i am with someone, it does not detract my love for them in any way it just means that yeah i think some ... (read in full...)
Is this just a passing phase??
Q. Hi i'm 16 , and i'm a bit lost at the moment. I'm attracted to girls and boys, but i've never really had the chance to experiment with boys. I also like to wear girls clothes. Is this just a passing phase? Will it pass in time? What should i do? ...
A. 1 February 2008: we are so young honey, and they say that at this age we never know what we want. the thing is with homosexuality or any sexuality it is never definate until you have been out there and tryed all the flavours. my best friend didn't know she was a ... (read in full...)
She cant let go of her ex, yet she loves and wants to be with me, help?
Q. I`m becoming very frustrated with my girlfriend and its getting me down with the way shes acting at times. i dont know what to do and my patience is running thin but i love her to bits and deep down i dont want to break up with her, we`ve been going ...
A. 1 February 2008: my stars she is confused madamne isn't she? but then you kind of are too honey. you need to give her some time apart let her figure out who she truely loves and if it is not you , you should find hope and faith in knowing that there is someone out ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend who's also my flatmate!
Q. I'm crazy about my flatmate. I'd jus come out of a 2 year relationship before uni. In the first few months my flatmate and I were best friends..he was always there for me, and I felt i had a friend for life. Then in November, we got very drunk and ...
A. 1 February 2008: you should talk to him! it sounds like you have a shot with this guy and perhaps he feels the same way? either way you should ask him why he keeps sleeping with you on and off. there probably is a good enough reason and if he is a good enough friend ... (read in full...)
My flirting is out of control!!! Why? And how can I tone it down a little?
Q. My flirting has become out of control! I flirt with every single one of my male teachers! It's stupid, It's ridiculous! And it's is not intentional in most cases! All older men I seem to find myself flirting with them, and I don't even know why I do ...
A. 1 February 2008: flirting really is a normal social thing to do honey, it makes people feel great about who they are talking to and vice versa which is why you enjoy it so much. have you ever considered that the other people are nasty to you because they are jealous ... (read in full...)
Why would she bother to contact me now?
Q. Take a deep breath . . . i am wondering why an old girlfriend has contacted me?, after 26yrs has gone by, i still loved her at the time but she bunked off with another guy, so i had to leave, we was working together, it was the stress and strains ...
A. 16 December 2007: perhaps she is looking for some sort of comfort? and because you were always good to her and i bet she knows you always will be if she wanted you to , she finds this greatly reassuring and you have to imagine honey at this point she will probably be ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get him back?
Q. I love this guy since my age was 14 and now I’m 21, in all these years I’ve been through a lot, and here is my story: me and this guy (A) were living at the same bldg. at the first time I saw him I fall in love with him it was a love from the firs...
A. 4 December 2007: hes just using you for sex whenever he feels like it ,and you deserve so much more than that! guys sometimes say i love you to manipulate their lovers because that is all you were his play thing his sex toy. you need to move on to a proper ... (read in full...)
Which one do I choose? (if any)
Q. ive been with my boyfriend connor for a month we liked each other alot wen i was dating my boyfriend james p before the one i got now, but now i just dont know how i feel about connor anymore the one im with now and i seem to like this other boy ...
A. 21 October 2007: your being cruel!its not fair to lead guys on the way your doing but at the same time you have to follow your heart and listen to it it should tell you who makes you the happiest remember theres a reasonyour with conner and not james anymore if your ... (read in full...)
Going through a Self-Esteem Crisis!
Q. To give you a bit of a brief of the situation, im going through a self esteem crisis. Now, where to start... I'm fat, ugly and a real geek. My best friend of around 8 years has disappeared since I moved house. I feel empty, and as if i can trus...
A. 12 October 2007: it should not matter how you look honey in order for other people you have to love yourself first i know this may sound heard believe me when i was your age i was the same i believe no one would ever love me and i was doomed for a life of great ... (read in full...)
I'm not very good at what to say to people when they are upset, and she won't open up to me. She's lost her cousin, how to help her?
Q. hi, im 16 my best friend(and the love of my life although she doesn't know it-but thats a different story)has just lost her cousin to MS.I just don't know what to do, it hurts me so much that i know i can't help her. I see her every day at school ...
A. 23 September 2007: honey im the same i dont really like to tel my friends whats bothering me shes lucky she has you someone who can read her like a book, but in the situation your in all you really can do is tell her that if she ever needs you your going ot be there ... (read in full...)
What is the differance between a lover and a girlfriend?
Q. What is the difference between a lover and a girlfriend? ...
A. 8 September 2007: a love is like a sex buddy someone to snuggle with on occasion when you both feel lonely wheras a gf is someone you love you can share your hopes and dreams with who you make see yourself being with in the future x ... (read in full...)
Should i tell my cousin how i feel about him?
Q. hi (: ok well i think this is a bit uncommon and weird, but i have a crush on my cousin. the problem is he's 20 years old, but he's all i think about and i broke up with my boyfriend because of him. i am planning on telling how i feel about him, bec...
A. 30 August 2007: honey you can not begin a relationship with this guy simply because of family if you ever did get together if that how long do you think it would last?than when you separated their is no way of avoiding him because your family is all around you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...
A. 29 August 2007: o gosh honey my girlfriend is in the same situation with her boyfriend she fancies another guy and has done things with him occasionally she reassures me and her boyfriend that she loves him and only him that this feeling for this other guy will ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a gay relationship with my ex-teacher?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm a 16-year-old bisexual female, turning 17 in November. Anyway, I've become very attracted to a 28-year-old female friend of mine. She's actually one of my ex-teachers, but we get along great and have loads in common. I geniun...
A. 29 August 2007: it kinda would honey your seventeen she may make you happy but both of you will want different things and have different experiances and times ahead of you becuase of the age difference she may make you happy but then i imagine you will find someone ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps blowing me out for his best mate!
Q. My boyfriend and me are 16, weve been going out 4.5 months, we argue, but its only because of silly things, he keeps doing things to start off arguements, such as planning on seeing me then texting me last minuite saying he'd rather see his best ...
A. 28 August 2007: does your boyfriend know you ar feeling this way?he may not notice what he is doing to you otherwise honey he is playing games with your heart and i realise your insecurites may be ruling your head at the moment but you must overcome that and ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and met a guy on holiday. I love him but he lives 9 hours away! How do we work this?
Q. I met an amazing guy on holiday - we've slept together and already said "i love you" to each other. Now I've come back home to England and I miss him so much...I want to be with him and am considering staying with him next time I visit (in 4 ...
A. 28 August 2007: darlin think this situation over carefully there is no way it will work out you are way to young to understand what love is honey i know you may not like what i have said so far but it is the truth at this age you have no experianced real love you ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, went through depression and self-harm. I've feelings for a boy my age now, please advise.
Q. I'm 14 and i feel down. Until about month ago i went through 7 months of depression i turn to self harm. I lost my mates at school and got into fights every day at school, i try to walk away as i do not look for trouble it finds me. With self harm ...
A. 28 August 2007: honey im sorry to hear about the depression you undergoed i can empathize with that entirely as i have only recently began to recover from my depression the difference between yours and mine is that i never spoke to anyone about it and as a result ... (read in full...)
Worried she's developing feelings for me, as I don't reciprocate and she'd feel rejected! I'm her best mate.
Q. Okay i'm 16 and one of my closest friends is only 14. I have known her most of my life and we have always ben very very close and she always comes to me when she has a problem. However recently she has just broken up with her boyfriend, and i...
A. 28 August 2007: honey she would feel so much more hurt if you do not be honest with her friendships crave honesty along with feeling rejected she is also going to feel insecure,unloved,unattractive,confused,upset and so on your her best friend there is no suprise ... (read in full...)
Ive known him 6 years and like him lots but he just wants to stay friends. Do you think i have a chance in the future?
Q. I am in love with my best friend who i have known for my whole life. I have liked him for 6 years now and last year i told him how i felt. He said that he had thoughts about us dating too. But, he also said that it would be too weird because we are ...
A. 28 August 2007: I'm in the same situation with my best friend except i'm the one who doesn't love him, it's hard for me because i feel so close like he's my brother maybe he feels that way about you too? If so i would not dwell on the idea thay maybe he could ... (read in full...)
Whats the aerage size of a penis and do girls say size matters???
Q. This isnt really a question but it is something that bothers me and im guessing, quite alot of other guys. please could you tell me the size of ur penis flacid and erect. as for me im 1.5" flacid and 4.5 in erect. For women please could...
A. 28 August 2007: 6 erect is average honey im really not sure about flacid though honey personally i dont care what size my bf is or has been is not your size its what you do with it x ... (read in full...)
I'm meeting a guy i met on the net and am taking my friend with me. I'm positive he will prefer her!!
Q. I really like this guy, and we have been talking for about a month now over MSN and on the phone. We're supposed to be meeting on friday but theres something thats really troubling me. My best friend is coming with me, and I'm positive that he...
A. 28 August 2007: you can never trust people over the net and honey you seem to have insecurity issues its a shame you dont believe in yourself or love yourself it doesnt matter what your outter beauty looks like because personality is the sexiest most beautiful ... (read in full...)
A long term friend became my lover, then backed off. I'm feeling real low now. Do i forget about him?
Q. I have been friends with someone for over 20 years and have always had strong feelings for him since we met at college. We got together a couple of months ago and went away for the weekend for our first date. It was everything I had ever hoped for ...
A. 28 August 2007: theres no reason you cannot stay in touch honey a piece of advice i was once given "it shows a great quality when a person can be friends with the person they love when the other person feels differently" some great friendships are formed from ... (read in full...)
This guy at school is flirting with me, am I reading the signals right?
Q. okay im going to feel and sound very stupid for asking this question, lets just say im not the most advanced at dating but yea. well theres this guy who i really, really like hes 16 (im 14) an we've reasonably good friends, havent known each other...
A. 27 August 2007: he so likes you honey i think this could be the start of something fab you should talk to him about it ask him out guys love that! if your friends i really doubt he would mess you around this much for a laugh but if your not confront him as him what ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is flirting with other girls. What do you think i should do?
Q. Ok...first off my boyfriend is flirting with other girls and when were at school he barley talks to me and he never calls me, i mean is there something wrong with me i dont beleive so.! what do i do, should i break up with him i mean i like him ...
A. 27 August 2007: your so young honey!theres nothing wrong with you at all it just happens sometimes talk to him about it if he wont talk to you i would dump him because it just might be that he is trying to dump you by ignoring you as cruel as it may sound some ... (read in full...)
Ive liked this guy since 3rd grade. Do i just keep it as liking him from afar?
Q. I am 14 and i have liked this kid named paul since i was in 3rd grade and he was in 6th or 7th grade....im now a freshman and he's a senior now and we are neighbours....i dont know what to do..i really like him but he's a stoner and i dont think ...
A. 27 August 2007: think you should tell him honey becuase that way yo may both find some happiness you only live once and you know what they say "the brave may not live forever but the cowardley do not live at all" love and peace x ... (read in full...)
I dream about this girl, is it a crush? Any advice please..
Q. Hi, well this is my situation, there's this girl in my class and i just can't stop looking/staring at her, and i have no idea why, i even have a different feeling when i talk to her its just like i totaly act different and want to do things together ...
A. 27 August 2007: i think it might be infatuation honey i experianced it when i was your age you feel crazy and can not stop thinking about them at all try talking to her bet she feels the same , your hormones have just kicked in so your going to fancy people you ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and cant keep my erection up. Is this normal or a problem?
Q. hey..i've had sex with my gf quite alot of times.. but the other day..i cudnt 'get it up' (i trust you know what i mean lol)..it works when me or my girlfriend are doing 'things' to it .. but i cant seem to keep it up for any length of time when its ...
A. 27 August 2007: this is totally normal if you couldnt get a boner in the first place then there might have been a problem but as you have experienced you can get an erection you might not be stimulating it in the right way perhaps? have you spoken to your gf about ... (read in full...)
My fiance is out of town on business and doesn't reply to my txt. I feel like his friends are more important than me at times!
Q. Ok, so my fiancee is out of town for a week for business. I sent him a nice sms saying "have a nice day etc". For the whole day I have not recieved a relpy back. He wasn't online either so that i could msg him freely like he usually is on. I ...
A. 27 August 2007: your right for feeling second cord you should try and get him to listen to you. leave notes around for him to read, if talkings not working letters?if he does it all the time something might be up he might be going through something and just not ... (read in full...)
I told her I didn't love her the same way she loved me and now she's leaving the state because she doesn't want to hurt my relationship with my girlfriend.
Q. I'm like really confused right now ok so if this is long just level with me ok. Last year I started dating a girl who at first her parents hated me but now they love me, me and her broke up about 2 weeks after we started dating because I was more ...
A. 9 July 2007: you may find honey that you only love your other friend as a sister which you said you did love is more than just what we see in couples there is love between brother and sister which is as strong as couple relationships sometimes this can be ... (read in full...)
I want to get back together with my ex - should I wait until after summer?
Q. hey i posted a question a while ago.. saying i wanted to get back with my ex, and now it's summer and its hard to get close as friends with him, and also he is leaving for italy with his parents for part of the summer. I dont think he wants a ...
A. 9 July 2007: honey you should talk to him theres no point in trying to be in a relationship thats more than friends if he doesnt return your feelings i don't see why you cant be friends though what ever happens you should always try and stay friends you could ... (read in full...)
He was sleeping with people behind my back now he logs onto dating websites! What should I do!?
Q. hi cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years, and last year he told me he had been sleeping with people behind my back. After a period of time of not being together he told me he had been stupid and wanted me back. So i got back tog...
A. 18 February 2007: isn't that cyber cheating? hes wreacking your trust you took him back for another chance but you do not trust him for a good reason too i do not think that you are reading to much into it he has clearly hurt you , broken your foundation if trust ... (read in full...)
I just want to be myself around him but I don't think he wants that!
Q. A friend of mine who I like as more than a friend seemed to like me back but said that he wanted to wait to sleep together. Before I met him I slept with one of his friends and he told me in the weekend that this puts him off wanting to sleep with ...
A. 18 February 2007: i think he is mentally abusing you, he is playing games with you indeedy that much is true. but what do you do? you really love him , you always want to be with him you feel as though your unattractive these are some reactions one might feel when ... (read in full...)
Should I come out to my rough and ready family?
Q. i am bi-sexuall and crossdresser i come from an lets say an hardknock family should i come out or should i remain doing it in private...
A. 17 January 2007: i think you should come out, i have friends who are bi n ther alot happier for 'coming out' , it should not matter what type of famlily you have, your family are the people that care for you the most they will always love you whatever you want 2 be ... (read in full...)
He's unhappy in marriage but I don't want him to use as an excuse to leave. What should I do?
Q. i have met a man through work. he has taken an instant liking to me, and whilst i thought he was a nice guy, i never thought anything more than that. on our second meeting, i realised he was very attracted to me, and we ended up in bed together. i ...
A. 23 December 2006: hes already cheated on his wife with you so no matter what you do now his relationship with his wife is messed either way and if he was cheating on his wife with you are you sure you want to be with someone who cheats?he needs to decide what he ... (read in full...)
He said he has trouble with his phone when I can't get through---do you think he's ignoring me?
Q. I fancy this guy at school. I think he fancies me but I'm not sure. Anyway the other day I told him I fancied him and he didnt say anything to me about it but he acted normally. Hes quite flirty with me. The point is since we split up from school I...
A. 22 December 2006: i think you may of scared the guy off but then some guys really cannot be bothered with phones and are more casual and laidback chillout a bit more you have done the chasing now take a chill pill and let him come to you... (read in full...)
Does he like me, or does he just want to be friends?
Q. what are the chances that the guy that i like told his friend that he likes me but his bestfriend told me that he wants to just be friends but he treats me special like someone that he shows interest more then a friend type?...
A. 22 December 2006: hes sending you mixed messages here babes you need to have a talk with him and get your feelings out in the open you can not tell if he likes you or not by what you have said but you have a shot so bite the bullet and go for it! ... (read in full...)
How can you bring a spark back?
Q. simple. im a gurl. with a guy. the relationship is going no where. we are difficult. and itz hard to communicate. not meaning to sound mean but i am bored. we could both use some suggestions to help bring back a spark. thanks....
A. 22 December 2006: do you too spend time together?it might be a good idea to some quality time together or spice things up a bit, try somthing exciting something new but if you realise that you have no feelings for each other or need space apart either have some ... (read in full...)
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