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Have had unprotected sex for 7 years, not pregnant yet, could infertility be the problem?

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Question - (29 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i'm 19 years old and my boyfriends 28 years old. we've not been trying for a baby but have been having unprotected sex for the past 7 weeks and im not pregnant. of course i am over the moon about it but at the same time im quite worried i could be infertile? what are the chances?

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2009):

pebble agony auntI think the usual amount of time in the Uk before you can get help for fertility problems is 12 months. You may have only ovulated once during that 7 seven weeks so really it's no big deal at all. For some people it can take a long time, for others a short time. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with any of them.

You're lucky though, if you don't want a baby then use some contraception. Because seven weeks is a long time to be silly and eventually it will happen.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009):

I believe artistic bumble bee misunderstood the question She was not asking what are the chances of her having an Std and although she hasnt been trying to get pregnant shes been having unprotected sex and is now concerned about why she hasnt gotten pregnant so in a sense shes very happy but very sad and confused as to why was she able to have so much sex and not once get pregnant. . . well Hun artistic bumble bee was correct you should goto a doc so they can examine you and answer your question.

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (29 May 2009):

niki20 agony aunti agree w/artistical_bumblebee. your probably just really lucky and there could be infertility as an issue, get both of you checked out. for both infertilty and std/stis

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A female reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (29 May 2009):

artistical_bumblebee agony auntfor sods sake go to a sex clinic.

you do not know who he has slept with, or what they have or what his partners partners have had and so on.

you could have anything, theres big chance you could already be infertile the longer you live it the riskier it gets.

go to a sex clnic or a hospital get checked out, then talk to the nurse about types of contraception like the deproveum, implant, pill, coil, patch.

as well as condoms.

if your serious about this lad get him checked out too, then if you don't like using condoms you are safe.

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