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Does being on a few dates mean you are together as boyfriend and girlfriend? Or am I understanding this wrong?
Q. My best friend is seeing a guy, but yet she flirts with other guys and she kissed someone on new years!? Am i being silly thinking that she's cheating and that she shouldn't be doing this... I told her, but she said that she has been seeing the ...
A. 7 January 2012: Well this is a tricky subject. Maybe this guy that your friend is seeing hasn't expressed that he wants to be exclusive with her. Sometimes you really can't tell. I'm not saying that her doing these things won't cause issues but...it is her ... (read in full...)
Told my married man who was deciding between me and his wife that I wasn't playing second fiddle, not sure I did the right thing!
Q. i have been working with this married man for 4 years everyone at work including him has told me that he really liked me, i asked hes best friend to tell him to leave me alone,as i knew he was married as the years went on we became really good ...
A. 7 January 2012: I definitely believe that you did the right thing. I'm not judging you by saying this but so many women get involved with married men and have false hopes of men leaving their wives for them. It rarely ever happens. If he truly wanted to be with you ... (read in full...)
Should I have kicked him to the curb or not?
Q. Dear cupid, I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because we have major trust issues! We have both done wrongs to eachother but it became to much to handle for me. Im tired of breaking up over and over because of the same trust issue! ...
A. 7 January 2012: I think that you definitely made the right choice by letting it go. If the both of you can't trust eachother then you both would just keep being miserable if you stayed in the relationship. I know its hard to let go of someone that you love and have ... (read in full...)
Can someone love you if you don't love yourself?
Q. hey i was wonderweing, can someone love you if you dont love yourself? or how can you love yourself?...
A. 7 January 2012: It is definitely possible for someone to love you even if you don't love yourself! Maybe this someone sees many admirable qualities in you that you are failing to see in yourself. If you think about it, I'm sure you can find at least one thing that ... (read in full...)
I love him. Want to be with him. But how do I stop him from getting so mad at so much I do?
Q. Dear cupid, My and my boyfriend have been togther for one year... And hes my life and i love him very much. But there has beeb such a big problem for a long time, he gets mad at almost everything i do, wearing the wrong cloths, even having lint...
A. 6 January 2012: Just ask yourself this question...How long do u want to be on this emotional rollercoaster? if it bothers you now, it will keep bothering you, because this will not change, it will probably just get worse. It sounds like he's trying to come up with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's bestfriend and I hate each other
Q. I've been having this huge problem lately, it's always the reason why my relationship with my lover is floating. okay so I've been with my bf for like 14 months, I really really love him. I'm possessive and all. about like half a year he started ...
A. 6 January 2012: This is difficult to answer. Instead of jumping off the deep end and fighting with him, maybe you can try to explain why it makes you so upset and ask him how he would like it if you had a guy friend the way that he has this chick friend. I'm sure ... (read in full...)
What is worse: His age difference or his lie?
Q. My BF says he is 38, but i found out he is 45. And i'm 27. Should the lie or the big age difference bother me? Is it too much of a difference? We are planning to take the r/ship to the next level....
A. 6 January 2012: I don't understand why a man would lie about his age if he wanted to be serious with you. Maybe at first he didn't know that you and him would ever be serious and that's why he lied. I'm not sure. But the age difference shouldn't be a huge factor if ... (read in full...)
I think about my ex even when I am with my new girlfriend
Q. i have been dating my new girlfriend for a few months now and i recently started thinking about my ex a lot and she called me the other night to talk. it was a light conversation between old friends more than anything else and she mentioned how she ...
A. 5 January 2012: If u still feel like this about ur ex than ur just stringing ur girlfriend along. You have to break it off with her no matter what. Its not fair to ur girlfriend because she doesn't have ur undivided attention and it isn't fair to u because u ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to do some foreplay?
Q. Hi there, I was wondering what is the best sex position? How do I get my boyfriend to do a bit of foreplay before we have sex? He always gets a boner after like 5 seconds but i'm not ready as i'm not in the mood that quick! Any advice would ...
A. 5 January 2012: I bought a foreplay boardgame once and it was fun. It contains dice that will tell u what to do (ex: lick here, kiss there, blow There...etc.) It also gives you different sexual positions to try. I always reccomend people to hit up sex stores for ... (read in full...)
Tips for new and exciting sex?
Q. Hi everyone! I'm going out of town for a vacation with my boyfriend next week. He's been out of the country for 3 months for work, and what I'm looking for are some tips for some new and exciting sex. Mostly to the men out there, what is somethin...
A. 5 January 2012: I would definitely bust out some fancy lingerie and high heels. Also, I once went to a sex store and bought a candle that when u light it the wax melts into massage oil. My guy looooved that. Also lots of foreplay is ALWAYS good. Lots of ... (read in full...)
I have trouble choosing the right guy for me...please help!
Q. I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now. I use to be really happy with him but I don't know if I love him anymore. We never do anything together except sit around and home , and we have completely separate social lives. He is an amazing ...
A. 20 December 2011: Well you don't nessecarily have to chose. You already know that the relationship that you have with your bf is basically over. If u decide to finally end it with him, then u don't need to jump into another relationship with another guy. You guys ... (read in full...)
I cant control my erections! Help!
Q. Am a reserved guy of 22.anytime a girl tourches or even playing or discussing romantic issues with a girl i usually gets an erection which i can't control or surpress.i don't actuallly know what's wrong with me or know the reason for that or what ...
A. 20 December 2011: It sounds to me like you just have a VERY healthy sexual appetite! It's normal, try not to sweat it. Wear boxer briefs to help hold your man down. You're ok.... (read in full...)
Hubby's clothes have body glitter on them...is this from another woman?
Q. Three years ago right after having a baby, I found my husband's jacket that he wears everywhere (especially on business trips) covered in body glitter, on the front. He of course told me a female co-worked sat on it after he had thrown it on a ...
A. 20 December 2011: Sounds like ur man was a strip club visitor! If u catch him in little lies all the time, then i would try to dig deeper. If you don't then let it be. BUt needless to say it definitely sounds like he got some private lap dances if you know what I ... (read in full...)
Ladies--If you have sex without orgasm, does it satisfy you anyways?
Q. This question is for the women: If you're in the mood, and you have sex but don't have an orgasm, does it satisfy the urge anyway? In other words, if you're in the mood and you have sex, are you more likely to want to have sex again soon if the sex ...
A. 20 December 2011: This depends. If I am in the mood for sex, I would like an orgasm. The sex can be good without one, but it isn't fully satisfying without one. For some women,getting a guy off is what satisfies them. But most women would appreciate an orgasm, ... (read in full...)
Jealous of my bf's female colleague... thinking of breaking up with bf! Help!
Q. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we love each other. i am sure he will not cheat on me, but there are other times that i felt offended or hurt unintentionally. specifically, there's this one female coworker that i am very jealous of. she hitched ...
A. 8 December 2011: I understand that feeling some insecurities about another woman always around your man. Obviously if you find him desirable than other women will also, right? But i really think that your giving this situation way too much energy. He is at work and ... (read in full...)
He threw me over when I told his wife about us. Should I contact him and tell him how I feel?
Q. I had been seeing a man for 7 months - he is married. Whenever we were together it was amazing, just being around each other made me feel good and he described his feelings as being the same. Always told me "i love you"- in fact, he was the one who ...
A. 3 April 2011: I was cheated on while I was pregnant by my ex. Let me tell u, this guy probably had no intention of leaving this women. U were played. I know this might make u feel worse, but u need to hear it, u may not have even been the only "other women". If u ... (read in full...)
How can I change our sex only relationship into something more?
Q. A few weeks ago, I got talking to a guy at a bar (foolish place to meet someone I know). One thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together. Since then he has added me on facebook and texted me a few times. We have seen each other on nights ...
A. 10 October 2010: Aunt honesty had some good advice. The next time you guys hang out, go out somewhere. If he tries to get fresh tell him you're not in the mood and you just wanna hang out. If he reacts badly, then you know that he only wants one thing from you. If ... (read in full...)
Do I have to choose between him and them?
Q. Hi everyone. Five years ago I sold my house and moved in with my partner at his request. He had previously lived here on his own for 15 years and has never been married or had children of his own. My children are in their 30's and this is where ...
A. 10 October 2010: I can relate to this problem. My own mother has a husband like this. I am out of my mother's house but my brothers aren't. Her husband is so anal that my brothers aren't even allowed to go in certain parts of the house. If he refuses to keep his ... (read in full...)
How can I convince him to take the next step?
Q. i in iove with a married man and he feels the same but he is afraid to leave his wife. we get on together and share a lot. how can i convince him to take the next step? We are same age, we trust each other too....
A. 31 March 2010: this is why you don't get involved with married men. not only is it wrong but u end up getting the short end of the stick. if he didn't leave her for u yet then he probably won't. and who is to say that u are his first mistress? even if he did leave ... (read in full...)
My ex getting engaged with her one and a half month new guy?
Q. Hello! I found out that my ex, (we broke up about 3 months ago after a year of beeing together) is getting engaged with her rebound relationship. I could tell even after she broke up with me that she was attracted to me and we kept contact cos ...
A. 31 March 2010: DO NOT JUMP OFF THE BALCONY!!! I know it may seem poetic to hurt yourself for love but if it doesn't work out with her the pain will lessen a little bit every single day. who's to say that this isn't for the best? everything happens for a reasn! its ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is begging to not lose me... I need as much advice as possible!
Q. Recently, I posted an a thread about me and my ex having some issues with other people in our relationship. This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before t...
A. 31 March 2010: Well i can see both points of view. I have ex's that i was friends with before I ever dated them and i still kept in touch with them before me and my fiancee became serious. It bothered him and made him think that i wasn't satisfied with him. that ... (read in full...)
I can't get over this guy or put it aside! Help!
Q. Hello. So I've mentioned this before...a person I like in my class. Its almost been a year and I still like this person. We certainly are good friends now but it stops at that. I don't feel as bad as I used to about the fact that most probably...
A. 31 March 2010: Either you grow a pair and tell him or you stop hanging out with him. If you guys are such good friends, then if u tell him u have feelings for him and he doesn't feel the same then yes it will be awkward for awhile, but then just tell him that u ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why I have started feeling this way about my friend, what can I do?
Q. My best guy friend used to be in love with me, or so he says, he says he's never liked anyone as much as he liked me. About a month back he got a girlfriend, it was like a slap in the face when I found out, but I guess thats because I thought he ...
A. 31 March 2010: Well I think its the jealousy factor kicking in. u need to think hard about if u just liked all of his attention on you or if u just realized that u want to pursue a relationship with this guy. I know its nice to have someone adore u but if it just ... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable here??
Q. I need URGENT advice here, Me and and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years were due to view an apartment this evening which had been planned a few weeks ago. We were hoping to move into this apartment on 24th April, very soon. There has been a lot of ...
A. 31 March 2010: Being a little bit irritated would be understandable but being furious is over the top. U can always reschedule a time to look at the apartment. He wants to help out his brother in a time of need. If u think an apartment is a big step in your life ... (read in full...)
Sex tips needed to spice up our lovemaking!
Q. ok so me a my gf have been together for a while and i want to try something new that will excite both of us and make us even closer. we both love giving each other oral and in bed we do doggie style and missionary. i wanna try other things or tips ...
A. 31 March 2010: Use anal ease. not only will it lubricate the outer area but it will help to numb it as well, so it won't be as painful. Be VERY gentle and careful. There are also some candles that you can buy from erotic novelty shops. that u light and when they ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 24 March 2010: Its not just about you and him or the other woman anymore. There is going to be a child that is his. You can't ask for him not too be in this kids life! what if some guy got you pregnant and cut all ties with you? What if your dad knocked your mom ... (read in full...)
Student-teacher relationships, and the importance of keeping it strictly professional
Q. I met my social studies teacher in 6th grade and since that day I've never stopped liking himm. On a personal level him nd I are best of friends on a professional level we're still best of friends and its because we get each other I get him he gets ...
A. 24 March 2010: Are you kidding me?? You are an eigth grader and you are thinking of trying to pursue a physical relationship with your teacher, who is also a married man? Ok let me eplain something to you. YOU ARE A CHILD STILL! If a man that age wants a physical ... (read in full...)
His kids treat me poorly and ignore me
Q. hi, im 23 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years, he is 42 years old. my situation is that my boyfriend has been married twice and has 2 kids who are 16 and 18 years old. of course my parents do not approve for starters. m...
A. 24 March 2010: ok. Obviously this man doesn't respect you as his significant other if his children are rude to you and he finds it humorous. Although it maybe hard for them to accept you because you are so close to their age. i myself am pretty openminded about ... (read in full...)
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