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writes:I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now. I use to be really happy with him but I don't know if I love him anymore. We never do anything together except sit around and home , and we have completely separate social lives. He is an amazing person but I don't know anymore. I just don't like having sex with him anymore. I dread it when he wants to have sex , why has it become this way ? Now I have this guy friend I've known him for years, but there was a stage where we didn't see each other for years, we becameFriends again but he ended it because he had feelings for me. we ran into each other again and we are still friends at this moment. there is just something about him that attracts me to him. I do not find him that good looking but I love his fun personality. everytime I see him I just want to kiss him! We recently went on holiday with a bunch of friends and while we were on holiday my boyfriend left me, so my friend and I landed up having sex together. my boyfriend and I got back together but I feel so guilty. Now my friend wants me to choose, but I don't know who to choose. when I tell my boyfriend I don't know if we should be together he tells me then maybe we should end it. then I cry and say no, but when he says let's stay together I'm disappointed with that answer. I think deep down inside I want him to leave me. But I don't know what I want. I don't know who I want to be with more. Please help me choose and why don't I want to have sex with my boyfriend anymore ? Thank you so much for the help.
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reader, Crazykatee  +, writes (21 December 2011):
Just be straight with him, yeah i have, i told him that i dont feel the same anymore and bout my male friend, but i aint going to start seeing him straight away i dont want to rub my ex boyfriends face in it, but best thing to do is be honest with urself and ur bf to how u feel, if u have chose to stay with him do it cuz u love him, and if its the guilt then tell him, if he loves u he would forgive you for it, everyone has bad days and makes mistakes in a relationship, its wat make us human xx good luck hun xx
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reader, veronica456 +, writes (21 December 2011):
veronica456 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the help guys! Crazykatee have you ended it with your boyfriend yet?. I just wanna add that I just cheated on my boyfriend :( I've never done anything like that before! I hate my self right now ! But it just happened. I chose my boyfriend but when I told my friend the decision he just kept coming onto me! And it just happened :( now I feel that I have to break up with my bf because I can't live with the guilt. I wanna be with him but at the same time I don't! And a huge part of me wants to end it but I don't know how too !!!!! I don't want to hurt him!
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (20 December 2011):
 I agree with Aliyah end it with your BF the ships been listing for 3 years now its sunk. but dont jump back into another relation ship off the bat especially with a guy you dont find attractive. Slow down take your time you never no whoes behind door number 2.
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reader, aliyahnangelo +, writes (20 December 2011):
 Well you don't nessecarily have to chose. You already know that the relationship that you have with your bf is basically over. If u decide to finally end it with him, then u don't need to jump into another relationship with another guy. You guys could hang out and do what you want to do, but u don't nessecarily have to have a full blopwn relationship with this guy. Give yourself some breathing room. You're young, you should be having fun and living life, don't let these guys stress you out girl! If you're unhappy, get rid of ur bf. but be happy with u first.
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reader, Crazykatee +, writes (19 December 2011):
Im the same situation!! Only i havent had sex with my lad friend, oh i thort about it tho, i think about him, im endin it with my bf cuz if i wanted to be with him i wouldnt be thinkin about another man! I went off sex, it annoid me when he touched me, the relationships dead, think we both no what we gotta do we just dont want to do it,
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