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How do I get my boyfriend to do some foreplay?

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Question - (4 January 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *insay writes:

Hi there,

I was wondering what is the best sex position?

How do I get my boyfriend to do a bit of foreplay before we have sex? He always gets a boner after like 5 seconds but i'm not ready as i'm not in the mood that quick!

Any advice would be nice.

Thanks

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A female reader, aliyahnangelo United States +, writes (5 January 2012):

aliyahnangelo agony auntI bought a foreplay boardgame once and it was fun. It contains dice that will tell u what to do (ex: lick here, kiss there, blow There...etc.) It also gives you different sexual positions to try. I always reccomend people to hit up sex stores for things to make their sex life more interesting. Now its ur turn HIT UP A SEX STORE! Have fun:)

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A male reader, Daniel the love doctor United States +, writes (4 January 2012):

Daniel the love doctor agony auntTalk to him. The best thing you can do is communicate with him and let him know how you feel when it comes to the two of you being intimate. Tell him what you want/don't want- and take it from there. It's not uncommon for a guy whom I'm assuming is young and healthy to get an erection quickly. And you're not alone in needing a warm-up before actual sex. There are many women who feel this way. Again... this is why you must communicate.

And in response to your question of the best sexual position... well that all depends on who you ask. Everyone has their own personal favorites. But when your engaging in intercourse with your boyfriend, you can determine what YOU like the best.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012):

"I was wondering what is the best sex position?" Google sex positions, go to a site with a list of them with instructions, print out that list and try them all. Tick off the ones you've done and rate them out of ten. Basically OP, most of the fun of sex is finding that out for yourself.

"How do I get my boyfriend to do a bit of foreplay before we have sex?" Ask him. No magic tricks or anything like that, just tell him you'd like him to do that for you. 99% of guys will duly oblige.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012):

Hi you could always take a nice long bath together with plenty of touching and kissing or you could just tie him up and you tease him for a while until you are completely ready or if you haven't got the confidence to do that or aren't into it I would talk to him explain how you feel but always talk to him about sex out of the bedroom so he doesn't feel like your critising him good luck

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