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Im here to help people if i can. My friends always come to me to confide with me and ask for advice because im a good listener. Im non-judgemental and believe that everyone needs help sometimes. The reason i registered with this site is because i had a problem that i needed help with (even the helpers need help sometimes!!) i had an immediate response from my problem so im here to return the favour!
A little bit about me.....
* im 19 years old
* i live by myself
* im training to be a nurse and midwife
* im a big movie fan!
* ive been told im quite funny (hmmmm...lol!!)
* i love to help people
* the most important thing in my life are my family and friends
if anyone needs help then email me and i will respond asap! be brave and message me....i wont judge you and i will give you an honest answer and my honest opinion!
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Why do i stop myself from having an orgasm?
Q. I never seem to let myself orgasm. Whenever i get close i make my partner stop. What can i do to stop this happening? xx...
A. 22 July 2007: you just need to go for it chick!! you will enjoy it!! dont be afraid! i suggest having your first one by yourself---you may feel more comfortable this way! get yourself in the mood and go for it--just persevere!! and if you cant do it then try ... (read in full...)
Why have things changed?
Q. I like this girl and she likes me but things aren't going to well. I really like her but i'm not sure if she still feels the same way... i can't get her out of my head and i'm not acting the same as i used to around her.. What should i do because ...
A. 22 July 2007: Why are you not acting the way you used to around her?, is it because you think she doesn't feel the same way or is there another reason? If your worried about her feelings then the only way you can know for sure is to ask her how she feels! You ne... (read in full...)
I want to stop the dreams i keep having.
Q. Me and dean were together for a year, broke over 3months ago, and he even has a new gf. I'm still having problems getting over him, but what i'd like your advice on is i'm having all these really cruel dreams where we get back together or the entir...
A. 22 July 2007: Ok hunni, your having these dreams becuase you still have strong feelings for your ex and your finding it difficult that he has moved on and you struggle to! Unfortunately you cannot control your dreams and the only way to be rid of them is to get ... (read in full...)
Is the size ok?
Q. Hi, I am 20 i watch these xxx movies where men have huge c@#ks and when i look at mine its only 4" inches . I've never had sex before but i mastubrate alot... I just want to know does the size of c@#k really matter or is it fine with the size i h...
A. 22 July 2007: Oh hunni, i really wouldn't compare yourself to the ones you see on porn films! These are very unrealistic and if one those sizes came towards me i would run away!! lol, 4 inches is fine and it all depends on how you use it!! Be confident with your... (read in full...)
Am i over reacting when his does not call?
Q. I've jus recently started dating some one who i've been crushing on for 5 years..and it's been a month..everythings lovey dovey but when he doesn't answer his calls or doesn't reply i get peranoid he's up to something.. I know i'm over reacting but ...
A. 22 July 2007: If your relationship with your boyfriend is mainly physical then it's not much of a relationship but you have to understand that at this age guys are mostly interested in girls for one thing-sex! If they are in a relationship with a girl they are ... (read in full...)
'I want to get tested before having sex'
Q. I'm 13, and my boyfriend is really in to me,and we want 2 have sex the day before my birthday, and i want to. I want to get tested before i have sex (i'v never had sex,it's just to make sure). I'm 13! my mom would never get me tested at this age, but...
A. 22 July 2007: Ok first things first, you are too young to have sex--it is against the law for your boyfriend to have sex with you!!! Your 13, your a child why do you want to have sex-its such an adult thing to do, enjoy being a child while you can, theres plen... (read in full...)
Why do i stop myself from having an orgasm?
Q. I never seem to let myself orgasm. Whenever i get close i make my partner stop. What can i do to stop this happening? xx...
A. 22 July 2007: What are you afraid of? Have you never had an orgasm?, i think that maybe you make your partner stop becuase as you come to orgasm the feelings become so intense and you suddenly begin to lose control of everything! The feeling of pleasure overtake... (read in full...)
Is sharing a kiss with another guy and liking him really telling me my current relationship isnt working? Any views?
Q. I shared a drunken kiss with my boyfriends work colleague. We both have partners although he hasnt been with his long, we have txt each other and agree we both find each other physically attractive and enjoy each others company. We are both in ...
A. 20 July 2007: hey hun! its not wrong to have feeling for this other guy but it is wrong to act upon it while you are both in relationships. This is cheating and it is wrong!! how would you feel if your boyfriend kissed somebody else behind your back? this could ... (read in full...)
I have a violent bf who treats me like dirt behind closed doors! Any advice?
Q. I'm in a three-year relationship with a guy five years my senior. He's great in public, always kind to me, my family and friends plus very affectionate but behind closed doors it's like he's had a personality change. He treats me like dirt, forcing ...
A. 20 July 2007: ok hunni--first things first----get out of the relationship with your violent boyfriend! please dont live with someone who hurts you not only physically but emotionally aswell! do you really think that he loves you when he treats you this way? thats ... (read in full...)
Two guys fall in love..so why do others try to prevent this from happening?
Q. if two guys fall in love and are meant to be togther why should other people prevent this from happening?...
A. 20 July 2007: if two people are in love then nobody can stop them from being together-they can try but if the love is real then it cannot be broken by outsiders. Maintaining a relationship when so many people are against it can be extremely difficult and very ... (read in full...)
We're both girls, and when my best friend tries to kiss me, I feel uncomfortable. What should I do?
Q. I think i fancy my best friend, and shes a girl. she fancies me to but i have a boyfriend. also wen im around her she tries to kiss me etc and i sometimes feel uncomfortable, i dont want to wreck our friendship or my relationship with my boyfriend....
A. 20 July 2007: If you feel uncomfortable with your friends advances and with her trying to kiss you then you have to tell her! if it makes you uncomfortable then she needs to stop but she cant do this unless she knows you dont like it! You wont wreck your ... (read in full...)
Do I have sex with this guy who likes me, or wait until I am married? Any thoughts?
Q. Hi I'm 16 and I really want to have sex. I know this boy that would be willing to have sex with me but I don't know if I should. I like him and he likes me but I don't think we love each other. He's 18 and I think he's lied to me about his past sex ...
A. 20 July 2007: Hun, if you dont love this guy then i would advise not to have sex with him--wait until you are in a meaningful relationship. You dont have to wait until you are married if you dont want to but at least wait until you are in a relationship with a ... (read in full...)
I love him so much! But we're doomed!
Q. He is so sweet to me, and I love him with my whole heart. But I just fear that we're not meant to be together. While we enjoy each others' company very much, our life goals are so far apart! I'm from the west coast, and he moved here from New York. ...
A. 14 July 2007: opposites attract hunny! but if you are feeling this negative about the prospect of your future together then i suggest you talk to your partner about it. You need to try and ignore the pressures from both families--this is between the two of you ... (read in full...)
I'll prob never see him again!
Q. I love this guy....and have for a LONG time. we go to a club together and next tuesday, is his last day and i'll prob never see him again!!! I am almost possitive that he loves me back....should i kiss him on the last day? Or should i right h...
A. 14 July 2007: hun, your only age 10-12--how long do you say you have been in love with this boy? im guessing it cant be that long considering your age! why do you think that you love him--are you sure its love? I think if you want to know how he feels you shou... (read in full...)
Is it possible to reach my target weight with my diet plan?
Q. I plan to go on a peach and orange fruit diet for 7 days. And just going for brisk walks in the morning (no other excercise). Right now I am a size 7-8. I want to get down to a size at least 5. Is it possible for me to reach my goal?...
A. 14 July 2007: hun, why do you think that you need to lose weight? if your as slim as you say you are then losing weight could very seriously affect your health. have you always had an issue with your weight? im just worried that you may have an eating disorder. ... (read in full...)
I noticed that she has been Googling romantic getaways and has also logged onto free Online Email Greeting cards with "Love" and "Missing You" titles. Do I have something to worry about?
Q. I am a 40 year old married man. Recently I discovered that my wife has a hidden HotMail account that I am not suppose to know of. I have not confronted her yet and don't want to as I would like to see if there is a way I can tap into her email ...
A. 14 July 2007: everyone is giving you advise about trying to guess her password and hack into the system! i think this is the wrong way to do it and you should respect her privacy, its like reading someones diary! dont do it no matter how worried you are! the only ... (read in full...)
How do you make love? How do you make it pleasurable?
Q. I have a really basic question. How do you make love? I'm a virgin, and I've learned from health classes and such in schools about sex. I understand biologically what is supposed to happen, but that's not quite what I want to know. How do you make ...
A. 12 July 2007: firstly, i know it sounds cheesy but if you want it to be more than just sex then you need to make sure you do it with someone you love and trust. someone who respects you and you need to feel completely ready before you decide to do it. dont rush ... (read in full...)
He isn't happy with just kissing me and wants to try out other things.
Q. I've got a boyfriend but he we have kissed and snogged and stuff already but my boyfriend is a year older then me and he says he wants to try out more stuff then kissing... but im not sure .... What should I do to pleasure by the way im only 12 .. ...
A. 12 July 2007: If you're not sure about taking your relationship further then don't do it! dont ever do anything you feel uncomfortable with, you will regret it. You need to think about the reasons why your not sure about taking things further---you are very you... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, but we have feelings for each other. He kissed me, too. Is this considered cheating? Is he using me?
Q. Thers's this guy i know who works in at my local gym. He's 25 and I'm 16 but i really have feelings for him and he has for me. He has a girlfriend but the other day we kissed. Is this regarded as cheating? Or should i be worried that he is using me ...
A. 11 July 2007: if he is in a relationship then kissing you is cheating. You are in a tricky situation but you need to tell him that he has to decide what he wants. He cant have both of you because that is cheating. If you were his girlfriend and he kissed somebody ... (read in full...)
He proposed and I said yes! But now our relationship is going downhill and I don't know about us anymore. Help!
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly a year now...several months ago he asked me to marry him and i said yes... however these last few months we havent been very good together so i told him that i didnt think we are ready for commitment... to be ...
A. 11 July 2007: hey hun! it definately sounds like you are not ready for committment. your still young and marriage is a big committment, if you dont feel ready then you need to have a serious talk with your partner. Why did you lose all your friends for your ... (read in full...)
I can't stick a relationship past the 3 month mark
Q. hi i have a huge problem, i've always dumped a guy before the relationship reaches a three month period. I've been dating this guy who is the most wonderful guy i have ever dated but the problem is, we are reaching 3 months. yesterday i found myself ...
A. 11 July 2007: hey hun! i agree with the other posts, you obviously seem to have a committment issue for whatever reason. i think maybe you are putting too much pressure on yourself to try and get past the 3 month mark and making a big deal out of it. maybe if you ... (read in full...)
I think marriage is too much if we want different things! What should I do?
Q. im engaged to be married in 2 yrs just before i go to uni. but recently my fiance and i have been discussing our future and we want different things. i want to complete my degree and then travel for awhile. he doesnt ever want to leave our ...
A. 11 July 2007: hey hun! ok, you need to really have a good chat with your partner about your feelings. he needs to know what you want from your life and he needs to respect that. just tell him that you do love him and you may want to marry him one day but its not ... (read in full...)
My job sucks and I'm just unhappy in general. What can I do?
Q. I'm not satisfied with my life. I never am happy- well not for long. I only want little things in my life to be right but they never do and other people always have it easier- they get things handed to them on a plate or get things easier for ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey hun!
Your feeling unsatisified with your life at the mo, this is not an abnormal feeling! everyone feels like this at times so first things first---dont think your the only one!
Secondly, i know its hard but try not to compare your life to... (read in full...)
How do I tell my partner that I no longer am in love with her?
Q. Recently I have stopped being in love with my partner and we are just getting more and more distant how do I tell her that I'm no longer in love?...
A. 11 July 2007: i agree with the responses so far..you need to tell her asap. Its not fair on you or her to carry on in a relationship in which the love is fading. You both deserve to be happy and if this means that you need to be apart then so be it.
Telling her ... (read in full...)
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