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writes:I like this girl and she likes me but things aren't going to well. I really like her but i'm not sure if she still feels the same way... i can't get her out of my head and i'm not acting the same as i used to around her..What should i do because i know that if i carry on like this we will brake up.I just wish i knew what i could do to get it back to what it was like before,cant stop thinking about her and i'm always uncomftable when i'm around her...it wasn't like that before.I could focus on other things but now it is just her and things have changed for the worse:What should i do!?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for the advice guys:Dive told her and things are going ok x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Maybe you could try and hint that you like her (not too obvious though, it may scare her immensly), just so much that she gets the point you like her. If shes a normal girl she'll think about what to do and when you think shes thought about it then ask her out, if your good mates with her then even if she says yes and then you break up it shouldn't affect your friendship, if she says no, keep trying =D. And another thing, if she doesn't like you in the same way you like her and she says yes, after a while she'll learn to be the same, its happened to me and a mate and it sure as hell should happen to her, good luck!!
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Talk to her and ask her if she still feels the same way, and explain why you aren't acting the same way, that way she might be able to understand and make sure it doesn't result in you two breaking up. Also tell her how much she means to you. If you love her, dont lose her!
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reader, 88jane +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Why are you not acting the way you used to around her?, is it because you think she doesn't feel the same way or is there another reason? If your worried about her feelings then the only way you can know for sure is to ask her how she feels! You need to know this to be able to carry on with your life, either she will tell you that she still really likes you and you can work on getting back to normal, or the worst thing she can say is that she doesn't feel the same and you can end things and get on with your life! I know that sounds harsh but you cannot carry on living like this when you are unsure about things and its making you unhappy.Why are you uncomfortable around her?, i think that maybe you are focusing so much on this relationship and thinking about it so much that you are beginning to get cold feet!The only thing i can suggest is to talk to her! you need to know her feelings! good luck hunni, i wish you all the best! xxx
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reader, x.Helpful.Cupid.x +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Ok. Right, you like this girl. I know for a fact that she does feel the same way, and the only reason things may have changed is you might have worried her or made her feel uncomfortable in some way, but dont worry, your young, and everyone makes mistakes during relationships, whether your just friends with someone or if theres more to it.Don't be uncomfortable around her, it will make her wonder what your feelings are, which is not ideal as you clearly want her to know how you feel.I suggest you have a conversation with her (IN PERSON! DONT BE F@#KING SHY!) and explain everything and see what she says. If she dosen't seem intrested like she was before, you have to accept that and move on. If she is intrested, go for it. Theres nothing to loose and i know myself that it dosen't help to be paranoid, so just try and sort things out and things will be fine.Good luck...ANNE! x
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