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writes:Me and dean were together for a year, broke over 3months ago, and he even has a new gf.I'm still having problems getting over him,but what i'd like your advice on is i'm having all these really cruel dreams where we get back together or the entire dream he's cuddling me watching a film, or he tells me he loves me and never wants to leave me, etc, I need to find a way to make them stop as i wake up crying nearly every morning and now it's leaving me depressed through out my day. Usually i'd just call him but obvioulsy that has to stop as he's moved on and so should i.What should i do?Please help..
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (22 July 2007):
 These bad dreams are bringing up the great times you had together, its all part of moving on. When these dreams stop, you know that you are over him, although it may not seem likely now, it will in time, time is a great healer.. It truly is. I hope it all works out okay for you.xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): I'm sorry you are having bad dreams too but be assured that it is a sign that you are getting over what happened and that they will fade and eventually go with time.
What you went through is very painful and your mind is releasing that pain and feeling through your dreams. It is always a good sign when your body lets go of pain so whilst it is difficult and so sad try and remember it is a natural part of getting over someone.
I promise you that one day you will suddenly realise that you haven't dreamt about him for ages. Keep in there, and you will be OK...
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reader, 88jane +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Ok hunni, your having these dreams becuase you still have strong feelings for your ex and your finding it difficult that he has moved on and you struggle to! Unfortunately you cannot control your dreams and the only way to be rid of them is to get over him once and for all!, easier said than done i know! Maybe if your struggling you can talk to a counsellor, they may also be able to give you advice about depression if you are infact depressed!I'm sorry your having a hard time hunni but things will get better you just might need a bit of extra support! take care xxxx
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