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writes:well, i have been dating this guy for almost three months. We have been through a lot together, he was my friend through some extremely hard times in my life. and i appreciate it and do love him. but recently, me and this other guy and i have started talking again... my first true love. and as much as i love the guys im currently with, i know me and my ex were ment to be. should i follow my heart? or stay with my current boyfriend who loves me more than anything...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): from my point of view it is best to stay with your current lover .Just think about how your current B.F would feel if you split up and how guilty you probably would feel to? hearts LIE!! dont listen to your heart and listen to your brain ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for the great advice, :)
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (12 March 2011):
 Sorry, but that is something you have to decide for yourself.
All I can tell you is that you can never go back, mainly because the human mind is flawed, it tends to remember the good and repress the bad. This is a basic truth, psychology 101. So why mess up a good thing with someone who loves you for who you are now for a foggy memory?
Do you really want to hurt him that way? And if things were so good with your ex, then why is he your ex?
You need to do some serious thinking about how rosey that past really was before you do anything. I'd start with not talking to your ex while your still with your current boyfriend. That will just mess with your head. If you can go say 2 mths without talking to your ex and you still can't stop thinking about him and still want him back. Then break up with your boyfriend and go find the ex.
But if he stoppes being on your mind so much then let him go. Let him stay in the past where he belongs. It wasn't real, just wishful thinking.
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reader, Whos that chick xxx  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 If it was me i would stay with your current boyfriend as like you said loves you more anything in the world and you leaving him might break him and if you love the guy then follow your heart but give your current boyfriend a chance because if you leave him you might regret it later on i hope this helped in anyway :)
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reader, 333 +, writes (12 March 2011):
Honestly, stay with your current boyfriend.
Your ex is your ex for a reason. Believe me, this guy sounds like he is actually worth your time. Don't go back to your ex because he magically came back.
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