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*pendy
writes:Why did my ex boyfriend text me this? please help? ? ? ?My boyfriend of 5months suddenly tells me he doesn't want a relationship cos he got so used to the single life before we got together and he might cheat on me if we stay together, he doesn't want to hurt me in the long run.:( WTF?We'd been on a break 3times and he'd beg for me back each time.. I loved him so much, I told him I will come drop off his stuff tomorrow and he's texted me this:"Hello ...how you doing (I know that's a stupid question). Am still so sorry for the other day and I hope you get over me soon. So you can be happy again. Cuz I know your not yourself and I hope its not affecting your studies :* Am I still seeing you tomorrow?"I want to reply back with this:Yes am great thanks and no I won't be able to drop off your things today am quite busy, but if you need it asap you can come pick them up yourself just let me know when so I can put it in a safe place for you. Don't worry about me, your just not the one for me. Take care.We're both 21.Thanks..
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reader, 333  +, writes (12 March 2011):
Wow, sounds like my ex! anyway. He sounds a tad immature. Guys are confussing. If there's one thing i've learned in my 17 years of breathing is that you should never trust them. They turn their backs on you so fast! it's crazy. Occasionally, they don't know what they want so they bulls*it you.
btw, great response!
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 This is cute. You gave him a text book answer.
But not the one you felt in your heart.
You say you still love him, feelings are there.
He is actually saying (while keeping his cowboy hat on)
I miss you, lets meet up, I'm an idiot but I'll say I hope you get over me, because I know I'm an idiot inlove with you.
I say do what you want, but this is definitely not over.
Cute though, fun read...
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Good reply. And this guy apparently thinks highly of himself. I will go and stand with the others here, good thing you only wasted 5 months and not more. Don't get back with him again! You might have loved him and cared for him, but the feeling wasn't mutual. This guy is all about himself.
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reader, OhGetReal +, writes (9 March 2011):
 In only 5 months you took a break three times, and he is admitting to you he is afraid he can't be faithful, well the breaks were so he could screw someone else, it's the oldest trick in the book.This guy is a total douchebag, and wouldn't know a real woman if she bit him on the ass. Don't waste one more nano second on him, and If I were you I would ignore his text, pack his sh*t in a box and leave it on his porch.You aren't obligated to even return it, what the hell was it doing at your place anyway? Jackass.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Hah! What an idiot. Unwittingly, he just gave away that *he* isn't getting over you and that *he* isn't doing okay. Displacement at its finest. Heh
Your reply is good! I'm thinking that he'll contact you again to try and take you back or at least to try and get his ego stroked by thinking you're pining after him. He's pining for you, that is for sure.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Be grateful you only wasted 5 months on him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 March 2011):
That's probably the best reply to be honest. Just make sure you never take him back again!
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