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Being gay and a virgin, should I worry about the first time?

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Question - (15 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:


I am 26 and a virgin. I have known that i'm gay since i was 13 and i have come no closer to having a relationship in the next 13 years. Never been kissed or anything!

I'm not out but i've been using a lot of gay dating websites and still nothing.

I am planning to go to university to do a course to change career and i'm planning to come out then as i am away from my family.

i suppose i feel bad about being a virgin at my age and i am nervous about the first time. I'm scared that i won't be very good and that my relationships will suffer becauseof it.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntDon't worry about being a virgin, just make sure when the time comes your partner knows and that you use the right kind of protection.

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A female reader, 333 United States +, writes (15 February 2009):

Don't think about it too hard. I know it must be hard for you because you're 26 and it's no big deal for me since i'm only 15. But that day will me. You will find a nice guy. Try maybe changing your appearance a bit. Don't change yourself and don't go for a drastic make over though.

It's ok to be 26 and a virgin- you're day will come soon. (:

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