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Is my cousin gay and putting on a front to be straight?

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Question - (24 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was 15 and he was 16 and About two years ago over my cousin's house i slept with him in the bed and we were talking. He said all the gay boys names who were coming to his school and he said i was one, in a playing way i think he is always playing, i was finna start going to a big high school back then. then later that night stuff got weird, i started flipping the tv on and off and then he started to go to sleep but i didn't wanna stay up by myself so i started messing with him and i sat on top of him and started bouncing and he said stop you making it hard and to get up and i looked at him like what da F**k and he said his thang attracted to booty and i was like in my head a boys booty is different from a girls and you know im a boy so why are u getting hard anyway.

So i kept on bouncing so he would stay up because i was scared to stay up by myself and he got up threw me off him and we started fake wrestling and he tried to put his finger up my butt and then i stopped and just stayed up by myself and then the next morning i woke up first but i tried to go back to sleep and then he woke up and he thought i was sleep and he cuddle up to me and wrapped his legs around me and stayed that way for a minute i stayed, pretending i was sleep and then he got up and went to the bathroom i believe he masturbated.

Now that he is 17 and im 16 he's trying to act like he is straight saying he aint gay and stuff and saying other people are gay but he acts like it in a way and im still suspicious about that night.

Is he just putting on a front?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 March 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntNone of your beeswax me boy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010):

why dont you ask him darling. that's pretty disturbing

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A female reader, 333 United States +, writes (24 March 2010):

Could be. I have a lot of gay friends and they tend to act that way. Maybe he is scared and doesn't want people to know that he is gay because he fears rejection . He probably feels the need to make fun of gay people to make others think that he's straight.

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