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Denied sex, as he looks at porn!
Q. My boyfriend needs to look at porn on a regular basis, and has denied me sex to do so before is this a real problem?...
A. 29 September 2006: It's called porn addiction. Don't laugh because it is a clinical addiction. It happens when the fantasy world of exotic sex partners becomes more exciting than the real thing. I know, I thought I might be having that problem too. So I decided to ... (read in full...)
Been together 8 months and my BF just wont commit!!
Q. I think my bf has a commitment phobea or smthin!! we've been together for 8 months now (he's 24 and am 22) and we've gotten really close, we c each others a lot, smtimes daily..and 2 months ago we started "sex play" like havin sex but am still a ...
A. 29 September 2006: Ok. You are probably tired of hearing this, but you guys ARE still young. Guys don't tend to look towards marraige as young as he is. It's more like there late twenties, 27 or 28 that they really start wanting this. Unfortunately, women are looking ... (read in full...)
Sex was painful for me and he wouldn't stop! Was this rape?
Q. my boyfriend in i were having sex and towards the end i asked him to stop because it was uncomfitable and painfull. i have always found penitration uncomfitable and some time painfull he said that he was at the piont of no return when we talked ...
A. 28 September 2006: Hon, this is hard to answer. The law says, no matter when it is, if you say stop he's supposed to stop. Now, he was probably very frustrated from all the other times it happened, but the law is the law. It's rape if what happened was what you said ... (read in full...)
Dirty text messages found on mobile
Q. 6 monthes ago my wife had a mobile phone which i didnt know of, when i found it ,it was full of dirty texts she had sent to 2 guys. one of the guys was her friends hubby, her friend was also in on the dirty texts. now i have found she has another ...
A. 28 September 2006: I believe in marraige. I also believe that two keys to a successful one are truth and communication. She is not telling you the truth of which you have a right to know. And obviously she never told you she was going to do this or was doing it in the ... (read in full...)
Convinced my Dad is cheating on my Mum, what should I do?
Q. I am a teenager living at home with my Mum and Dad who have been married for 20 years. I recently found some texts on my Dads mobile and I am now convinced he is having an affair. Please help me because I can't stand the thought of my family been ...
A. 28 September 2006: Sometimes people who have been in long relationships or marraiges like to flirt with other people online or through texts sometimes. That could be all this is. Don't underestimate your mother. She may already suspect something. Whatever happens just ... (read in full...)
Is she having second thoughts about us ? Cant understand why all of a sudden she is so distant ??
Q. My girl is giving me the cold shoulder, why? We have been dating for three months, and things have progressed very fast. We both agreed that the way it was going was fine. I'll be honest, I fell in love with her and we have already been talking ...
A. 28 September 2006: this is the guy. Thank you all for the advice. I talked to her today and I'm pretty sure it's the space thing. She knows it's my daughters bithday and she keeps wanting me to go see her in VA. I do want to do that anyway, but I think she just wants ... (read in full...)
Why does he talk about the rest of our lives and then says-- he is afraid of being married? What's up with that?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and have decided to get married (though there is no ring or formal engagement yet). We have lived together for about a year. He tells me he loves me and wants this to work and wants to be in a ...
A. 28 September 2006: Us men worry about things sometimes that we think women wouldn't understand. Even though we are often wrong, we still worry and have a hard time telling you about it.
When it comes to marraige, we worry about whether we can provide ... (read in full...)
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