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Student of Psychology, Degree in Nursing with wide variety of experience. Mother, daughter, sister, wife, ex, neice, grandaughter, student, boss, colleague....you get the picture.
Interested in impulse control disorders, like chocolate, cheese, Tintin, travelling, Pepsi max, Cracker, Tony Soprano, eddie Izzard, toilet humour, Family guy - shall I go on?
Adore my family and friends. Love to help others, abuse survivor, rape survivor, holder of family record for cherry pip spitting......
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I want to leave my wife and be with my lover, but I can't leave my kids!
Q. We'll I'm 41 yr. old male, I've been married 14yrs and met a wonderful woman 7yrs ago and have been loving each other for the past 7 yrs. I've lied about being married still over the last 7yrs. I love this woman who's not my wife. I want to leave...
A. 15 July 2006: You know, if you are unhappy wiht your wife then let her go......... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 June 2006: I am not ignorant dear male anon, you are. You are spouting your beliefs as you ahve done many many times before. The sexual revolution has not come about in one generation as you claim...go read up on your social history sweetie and get you facts ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 5 June 2006: Don't believe EVERYTHING you read in the papers, and remember Paul Mac had a past too!... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: I genuinely feel for the guy who posted this question. It must be awful to have an image in your head of what has happened before. I feel very much for any man/woman who cannot deal with a partner's past. I find it a little disturbing that no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: patronising, patronising, patronising
write it out three times and stand in the corner.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 23 May 2006: Try a husband who thinks your bit of a petronising bugger too!!
Sorry to blow your theory out of the water honey!!
xx... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: was controlled by men....dearie, gosh what a fabulous bedside manner you have....
Your opinions are outdated. You are right men did these things, but not to exploit women. They did it for monetary gain. A man in a little lab somewhere didn't thin... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: I feel you may be seeing things a little thru rose tinted glasses.
As for your comment about my being not being able to see things from the viewpoint of a male, take a look at your last paragraph on your first posting and tell me if that does... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 May 2006: Hi ther Dr Pete
As one health professional (allegedly) to another I find you rather maralistic and self-righteous stance on female sexulaity a little on the silly side.
Before contraception the sex act for women equated with the risk of pregnanc... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 22 April 2006: But that isnt what you were saying before. Also when you hide behind an anon stance it could be anybody who replies all pretending to be the same person. So when one person says , for example, this behaviour from women is slutty, and another this ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 21 April 2006: Another anon.
Not very brave are they the men on here!
Look, women do not *let* men have sex with them, they are willing participants in a mutual thing. So that makes both the men and women who indulge as bad, or good, as each other. I have no ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 20 April 2006: Firstly, be brave enough not to hide behind an anon stance. Secondly get some balls and realise that the world is not divided into females who are saints ans sinners. Thirdly how do you figure out that girls get it more than guys? I always ... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 19 April 2006: Wow, anon who replied below. I wish you ahd been around to talk to me when I had my 'problems'.
xxx... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 19 April 2006: Wow, anon who replied below. I wish you ahd been around to talk to me when I had my 'problems'.
xxx... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 14 April 2006: If you are 16 and are leaving school this year then I cannot see the problem. If you are truely in love with this man, look at transferring to a different school to finish your education. I think that you need to sort this out sooner rather than ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 13 April 2006: I meant to say put this as a question to draw more attention. Maybe you will get some help?
:-)... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 10 April 2006: Solved you should post this on a seperate site. I think you would benefit form others reading your thread and commenting. I think (for the record) you and your wife are locked in a vicious cycle of oneupmanship. And it will take a helluva lot to ... (read in full...)
Am I a 'zoophile'? I saw two dogs mating and it gave me a thrill! Help
Q. I think i might be a zoophile... Yesterday I was in the park watching 2 dogs mating and I got this rush, like when I kiss my boyfriend. Now I'm terrified that I'll start getting feelings for the animals themselves. What should i do?...
A. 9 April 2006: WTF?????
Are you for real?
lol... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 9 April 2006: Why do they need to *tell the truht from the beginning?* And why would you NED to know if it is going to hurt you so much? You slept with 11 people....why is that any dofferent? What is the importance of a wpman having slept with less people than ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: There are a lot of answers on here from men saying that they cannot get over *slutty* behaviour, referring to *conquests* etc. I find that offensive. I find it offensive in 2006 that it would appear a large majority of men find a problem in their ... (read in full...)
After I got drunk and got sick at his place things weren't the same...
Q. I met a wonderful guy in October and we were both very compatible. I drank a bit too much one night and a girlfriend dropped me to his place and I was not well. I have drunk as much on other occasions 5 glasses and not got sick.I think it may have ...
A. 7 April 2006: He just wasn't that into you. So move on and get over it.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 7 April 2006: Conquest? Purleeze! She cannot be a conquest, by saying that your are acting as if she had no choice to sleep with these men. A conquest = being conquered. Get over it.
Guess what males and females are equal in society nowadays. So how abou... (read in full...)
Am I a 'zoophile'? I saw two dogs mating and it gave me a thrill! Help
Q. I think i might be a zoophile... Yesterday I was in the park watching 2 dogs mating and I got this rush, like when I kiss my boyfriend. Now I'm terrified that I'll start getting feelings for the animals themselves. What should i do?...
A. 6 April 2006: C'mon, if this isnt a question written by an individual who is making them up for fun I dont know what is?... (read in full...)
My pregnant wife found out she has HPV! I'm worried she's going to blame this on me!
Q. Anyone out there please respond, my 7 month pregnant wife has been diagnosed with the HPV std. we have been told it can only be transmitted through genital to genital contact. we have been married 6 months after long previous marriages. she was in a ...
A. 6 April 2006: This is so difficult for both of you. Chances are you are both carrying the virus and hers has been triggered into appearing because of the hormones in pregnacy. Dont play the blame game, because it leads to heartache and neither of you will ever ... (read in full...)
Do I take the risk and leave my current bf for my ex bf, whom I can't stop thinking about?
Q. Hi i am a 22 year old female and i have been with the same guy for 3 years. I have been living with him for the past year and a half. The trouble is I think iam still in love with my ex boyfriend. We split up 5 years ago because we were both very ...
A. 6 April 2006: You have a case of cold feet *big time*.
remember your EX is an Ex for a reason, try to remember why!... (read in full...)
I take lots of time getting aroused and feel pain after sex!!
Q. Hey all, i was looking for my problem on net and found this site. I am 27yrs old and my hubby is 28 and we both love each other but the problem is i take lots of time in getting aroused plus i feel pain after sex. and i also cannot concentr...
A. 6 April 2006: Your GP is the first place you need to go. You need to be checked out. Nobody on here can give you the help you need as they cannot do a physical exam.
Good luck
xx... (read in full...)
I want to leave my wife and be with my lover, but I can't leave my kids!
Q. We'll I'm 41 yr. old male, I've been married 14yrs and met a wonderful woman 7yrs ago and have been loving each other for the past 7 yrs. I've lied about being married still over the last 7yrs. I love this woman who's not my wife. I want to leave...
A. 6 April 2006: Whoa, you continued to have another child with your wife whilst seeing this so-called *soul-mate* lover....mmmm? Why can I ask did you do that? Have things got too mundane for you at home? Have things stopped giving you athrill like they did at ... (read in full...)
My long-distance boyfriend secretly took up smoking!
Q. My boyfriend and I of almost 2 years have hit a rough patch. He went away to school about 5 hours away. Nothing seemed wrong at all the first 4 months of him being away. I thought we were closer and on the same page. As It turns out we weren't ...
A. 6 April 2006: Why are you so obsessed about what he does when you are not around? If he wants to smoke when you are not there that is HIS choice!!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend smokes while he's away at school! What can I do about this?
Q. My boyfriend and I of almost 2 years have hit a rough patch. He went away to school about 5 hours away. Nothing seemed wrong at all the first 4 months of him being away. I thought we were closer and on the same page. As It turns out we weren't The ...
A. 6 April 2006: No.
It has to come from you.... (read in full...)
She said I should write a poem....what's this for?
Q. Do girls around the age of 13-18 find boys who write poems attractive? Because ive been telling a girl how perfect she is, and she said to me about 3 times i should write a poem. Eh?...
A. 6 April 2006: This is a hard one. If you are not the sort of bloke to write artistic prose it could be a bit of a shambles. So dont toture yourself if it doesnt come out right.xx... (read in full...)
We have sex and I'm in pain for days after. I think his penis is too big! What can I do?
Q. i have a problem everytime me and my boyfriend have sex i`m in agony for days i think maybe his penis is to fat please help me ...
A. 6 April 2006: Sometimes there can be other problems which can cause this. Is this your 1st sexual partner? If you have had previous partners this could be caused by pelvic inflammatory disease (sometimes an after effect of untreated chlymidia) or it could be ... (read in full...)
Is he just paranoid or shifting the blame?
Q. hi i have been seeing this lad just over a month but he went to america last week, lately he has been really weird to me and i have asked him whats wrong and he just shouts at me and he is always askin me if i have cheated on him it is making me ...
A. 5 April 2006: I am with Irish on this one. He wants out but he doesnt want to be the one to do it. So by making your life intolerable he will hope you do it instaed then he can walk away with a *clear conscience*! Tell this fool that you are onto his game then ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend smokes while he's away at school! What can I do about this?
Q. My boyfriend and I of almost 2 years have hit a rough patch. He went away to school about 5 hours away. Nothing seemed wrong at all the first 4 months of him being away. I thought we were closer and on the same page. As It turns out we weren't The ...
A. 5 April 2006: That is something you ahve to address from inside yourself. Do you feel you can trust him again? Nobody can tell you how...other than to have faith in him, or not as the case may be.
Sorry
x... (read in full...)
I'm not quite sure which to do to make myself happier!
Q. Please!!! Someone to help me!!! Should I decide to have a baby or/and buy a house to revive ten years of unhappy marriage??? Thanks!!!...
A. 5 April 2006: Go to relationship counselling. Don't put your marriage under further stressors until you ahve worked out your exsisting problems........ (read in full...)
My boyfriend smokes while he's away at school! What can I do about this?
Q. My boyfriend and I of almost 2 years have hit a rough patch. He went away to school about 5 hours away. Nothing seemed wrong at all the first 4 months of him being away. I thought we were closer and on the same page. As It turns out we weren't The ...
A. 5 April 2006: Thats the point I am making. You never know if somebody is completely telling the truth I am afraid. It comes down to trust. But if he says one thing and does another then this is a trust issue and I find that difficult to advise on. You are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend smokes while he's away at school! What can I do about this?
Q. My boyfriend and I of almost 2 years have hit a rough patch. He went away to school about 5 hours away. Nothing seemed wrong at all the first 4 months of him being away. I thought we were closer and on the same page. As It turns out we weren't The ...
A. 5 April 2006: If he wishes to commit suicide slowly by smoking cigarettes there is nothing you can do about it I am afraid. Just point out how disgusting it is to be kissing an ashtray, how many other things there are that are better to spend your money on and ... (read in full...)
We love eachother, but her mom isn't liking this and wants to call the cops!
Q. Hi... I live in England, UK. Heres my question. Im 20, but my girlfriend is only 14 (she has the mind of someone more my age, shes mature). Iv known her for about three and a half years, but we were just distant friends for about one year. She st...
A. 5 April 2006: I ,eant to add as well. My sis-in-law was going out with her bf (on the quiet) from the age of 13 and he was 9 years older. her brothers age (my hubby). When they confessed she was 16 and it caused some big time fights. They got married last ... (read in full...)
Did my husband cheat or were the txts i found a joke??
Q. hi, I have been married for 3 years, together for 8 years. my problem is that after just one year of marriage i found texts on my husbands phone to another woman, i dont even know why i looked. He was telling her to come to his place of work so ...
A. 5 April 2006: I am so sorry but I really dont think this has been a joke. Why would he even be sending texts like this is a *jokey* manner unless there was some heavy duty flirting (minimum) going on? I do not think you are overeacting in any way. This issue ... (read in full...)
Why the hell did she buy me soap!
Q. my girlfriend forgot about our first month. and she got me bath and body works hand soap for our first month as a gift and a disney pin. about 20 bucks. she spent 300 on her brother. umm ok money doesnt matter... but soap? i think its just because ...
A. 5 April 2006: soap = boyfriend of 1 month
£300 + brother of whole life
Fairly simple equation dontcha think.
C'mon, your question makes you sound like a money grabber.... (read in full...)
Our son wants to work at McDonalds for the rest of his life!!!
Q. I am worried about my 18-year-old son. He is at university, and I am worried about his lack of ambition after he leaves. He is doing very well academically; however, when I asked him what he wants to do when he leaves, he said he wants to work at M...
A. 4 April 2006: He is, in a roundabout way, telling you to back off because this is his life. Stop worrying about him. The fact he wants to do this now doesnt reflect what he will feel in 12 months, five years or a decade form now. He is most likely doing this ... (read in full...)
Together a week and 17 and pregnant already, what to do!?
Q. My girlfreind today had a pregnancy test. She is positive. What am i to do? We have established that we have to make a decision as a couple and not as individuals because i was asking her what she wants? Shes 17 and we've only been going out f...
A. 4 April 2006: Seven days?
This girl is atking you for a ride.
Yes she could be pregnant,but believe me there isnt a pregnacy test in the world you can buy over the counter that will show you this!
Chances are this is her ex's baby. Sorry to disapoint. ... (read in full...)
I cry myself to sleep because I'd *love* to be a teenager in America... And not stuck in this miserable Northern, English dump
Q. Hiya I don't know what do about this, but I'm really unhappy. At my school in a poorer area of Northern England, the girls are all really bitchy and unkind and the boys don't want to know you if you aren't a slut. At the beginning of Y7 (my firs...
A. 4 April 2006: Babe
They have nasty girls and bitches in the USA. Do you watch Hollyoaks? Is that how real life is in the UK?
C'mon, get real. I want to be in 24 being rescued by Jack Bauer or in Cold Feet, but it is all pretend!! Hey, life is only what YOU... (read in full...)
We love eachother, but her mom isn't liking this and wants to call the cops!
Q. Hi... I live in England, UK. Heres my question. Im 20, but my girlfriend is only 14 (she has the mind of someone more my age, shes mature). Iv known her for about three and a half years, but we were just distant friends for about one year. She st...
A. 4 April 2006: Obviously you are not going to get the help you want here. People are too quick to judge. Have you actually tried talking to her Mum? Telling her that you mean well and that you and her daughter are not having a sexual relationship? Can you put ... (read in full...)
What can I say to shut him up?
Q. He got back together with his ex-girlfriend months ago. He is now consistently emailing me a one-liner about once a month, apparently so I don't forget about him...gag. I know the best thing to do is nothing, but I'd love to reply with something ...
A. 3 April 2006: Can you not forward his comments to his new GF? Or maybe print them off and post them to her? She should know what a rat she is going out with.....
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My mummys boy won't commit!
Q. im 43 and my boyfriend is 51, we are back to the same problem, hes always lived with his mum who is 90 now and she has spoilt him, we have split up in the past and got back together, the problem is always his lack of committment to me, mention the ...
A. 2 April 2006: No this guy isnt using you, he just ahs differing priorities. His Mum is over 90 and wont be around forever and he obviously likes his job!
It would appear you come quite low on his list. This doesnt mean he doesnt feel for you....just he has othe... (read in full...)
Hey Moderaters how do you know if the question is a hoax?
Q. Hi there, A question about dearcupid.org. I read one question on here and someone suspected it of being a hoax. How can you tell whether the article is a hoax or not?? A.N. Other??...
A. 2 April 2006: You just go with the flow I think. But if you think it is a hoax, then ask for more info, you can usually figure out the lies then, 'cos they trip themslves up!... (read in full...)
My married boyfriend is furious because a male workmate slept at my house! But nothing happened!
Q. Hi I have been seeing a married man I met at my old work now for three months now and have grown very attached. His relationship with his wife is over although they are still together for the sake of their 11 year old son. Trouble is I went...
A. 2 April 2006: Haha. Another sucker.
We are still together *for the sake of our child* yes, right!
Ok, you are worried because he is cross about somebody staying over at your house.....this guy goes home to his wife and child every night! You think this is ... (read in full...)
Could has fluids have seeped through our clothes??
Q. Well, my boyfriend and i were making out last night and we were really gettin into it. I guess you would say we were dry humping but thats it. I didnt go down on him or nething and he hadnt touched his self while i was there but he did finger me. M...
A. 2 April 2006: Sweetheart the chances of your getting pregnant thru dry-humping are minute. I wouldn't worry about that episode. But if you are planning on taking this further (or even NOT planning, it's easy to get carried away in the ehat of the moment) then ... (read in full...)
I know it's wrong - but I miss experimenting with my cousin
Q. My first kiss was with my cousin. my family lived down the road from my aunt and uncles and when I was about 12 and my cousin was 14 I think we started to like each other. Im not sure how it started but he would grab my butt..I guess I didnt really ...
A. 1 April 2006: Please please please. Femal anon. STOP SHOUTING!
And there rest of you, there is nothing ileagal in 1st cousins having relationships so stop being so bl**dy arrogant and nasty.
This sort of experimentation can lead to problems. If you get carr... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: I find it difficult to explain how i felt, cos at the time i really loved him and I know he loved me cos he asked me to marry him. When I dumped him at 21 it broke HIS heart!! But I also know this is an abuse of a dynamic that is taboo in western ... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: Dear anon
Please learn from this siutation. Please dont put yourslef in vulnerable situations like this again. Only ever see this man when you are with others if you dont want to be tempted into doing something you shouldnt. And IF there is a ch... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: I have no issues with disagreements!!! But can I just point out (and this is from experience), I did nearly exactly the same thing when I was a few months from my 17th birthday. I had a long term affair with my psychology teacher who was 30. I ... (read in full...)
Any advice for a depressed?
Q. Hey there I hate to ask questions on here but I just wanted some peoples advice... I think Im suffereing from depression.. I have been feeling very very down lately and I havent been able to focus on things that concern Work, Family or even my ...
A. 30 March 2006: The first female anon is right. Exercise helps a great deal in clinical depression. It boosts the body's own natural endorphins and helps maintain a balanced steady mood. She is wrong saying it is not a treatment for depression tho, as more ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 with facial hair can any one help!
Q. At what age should i be looking to shave at as im 14 and already I have facial hair. what should i do please help asap...
A. 30 March 2006: You should shave when you feel ready and you actually have something to shave off!!!... (read in full...)
I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...
A. 30 March 2006: Obviously you already realise what you are doing is wrong. For the sake of your mental health and your teacher's career don't do it again. You agreed to it and I think it is a matter of pickiness to say that because you are months away from your ... (read in full...)
I want to believe badly that her new man is only a rebound!
Q. Hey guys, I've asked a few questions before, so a lot of you probably know what my situation is. My ex means so much to me and I'd like to maintain hope. Here's the thing, I think that she might think that she is in love with her rebound guy ...
A. 30 March 2006: I just want to add acouple of words. I think (reading between the lines) she manufactured your breakup so she could go off with this guy. It all seems a little to convenient that he was around to pick up the pieces so soon after you split dontcha ... (read in full...)
My son strips down to his underwear in school. Is there anything I can do?
Q. I am a father of two, married 18 years. My son is 15 years old, and sitting his GCSE's. Recently we got a phone call off his school, informing us that he'd been stripping to his underwear in lessons, and even in the outdoors. The school want...
A. 30 March 2006: I am only asking but why would this be a prank? Was it discovered to be so before or so you think maybe he is still looking for answers?
:-)... (read in full...)
His family is abusive towards me and he don't do anything about it. What should I do?
Q. I have been living with my fiance (of 1 yr only) for the past 4 years. Same age but I was married with 2 children. His family does not accept me, verbally and physically abused me already. He has done nothing. I am not allowed to any functions etc. ...
A. 29 March 2006: Why do they not accept you? What is it they percieve you have done? And does your partner believe you?... (read in full...)
My son strips down to his underwear in school. Is there anything I can do?
Q. I am a father of two, married 18 years. My son is 15 years old, and sitting his GCSE's. Recently we got a phone call off his school, informing us that he'd been stripping to his underwear in lessons, and even in the outdoors. The school want...
A. 29 March 2006: Has he other behavioural issues that need dealing with? Is he messing with drink or drugs? Do you think that he is just doing this for a laugh in school to *freak everyone out?* Could he be exhibiting other signs of mental illness or stress that ... (read in full...)
I'm almost ready to come out as bi, but I'm still married, any advice!?
Q. hi there, I am 32 married with 2 kids, but I have a VERY big problem..I'm fairly new to the area we live and have struck up several friendships with new woman but with one this is very different, I have fallen in love with her in a BIG way..This ...
A. 29 March 2006: You are still married. You need to end the relationship you are in before you move onto a new relationship. What you are planning isn't fair on your husband or your children.
Sorry but that just what I think.
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What is cum supposed to taste or smell like? How can you tell if it's normal or not?
Q. What is cum supposed to taste like? or smell like? whats right? and how would you know if something wasnt right with it?...
A. 29 March 2006: I always thought it SMELT like bleach-ish or beef flavoured monster munch!!... (read in full...)
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